This week’s episode begins with my 40th birthday and reveals what I learned when I died on the operating table - twice. During our time together I will share how I discovered the gift of Adversity through a spinal injury that drove me to being bedridden, broken, and acutely aware of everything I was taking for granted. Listen in to learn why I let go of anger, learned to find gratitude for both positive and negative experiences, and how you can snap yourself out of the slumber of mediocrity.

 

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This week, Michael Ostrolenk, a master coach at SEALFIT Unbeatable Mind Academy and former Director of Human Resilience. With over 30 years of experience, Michael helps high performers and leaders master resilience and optimize relationships. Marcus and Michael delve into the concept of the 'Relationship Dojo,' where couples learn to communicate and grow together by incorporating principles from martial arts, playfulness, and self-awareness. The discussion also covers the importance of emotional safety, circadian rhythms, and the interplay between physiological and psychological wellness in personal and professional relationships.

 

Episode Highlights:

03:42 The Impact of Circadian Rhythms and External Factors

11:52 The Relationship Dojo: Training for Love and Connection

39:51 The Role of Play in Learning and Relationships

44:41 Morning and Evening Rituals for Couples

01:04:18 Emotional Safety and Masculine-Feminine Dynamics

 

Michael Ostrolenk, MA, MFT, is a Master Coach with over 30 years of experience specializing in resilience, leadership, and elite performance. He has worked with former special operators, executive leaders, and high-performing individuals to help them master self-leadership, expand resilience, and unlock peak potential. Michael integrates psychological, physiological, and tactical disciplines into a holistic system that supports growth across mind, body, spirit, and relationships. Known for his multidisciplinary expertise and grounded presence, he empowers clients to deepen self-awareness, optimize performance, and live with greater purpose and clarity in every area of life.

 

You can connect with him here: https://www.michaeldostrolenk.com/

 

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This week, Raul Mendez shares his harrowing experience of surviving a mass shooting in July 2022. Mendez, who took swift action despite being severely wounded, recounts the events of that night where he saved his family and others by neutralizing the shooter. The discussion emphasizes the importance of firearm preparedness and carrying a weapon responsibly. Mendez talks about the psychological aftermath of the incident, the vital role of training, and the impact of his story on promoting self-defense awareness.  

Episode Highlights:

29:00 Facing Fears and Preparing for the Future

29:34 Emotional Challenges and Tough Love

32:58 Media Attention and Social Media Challenges

36:01 Advocating for Gun Rights

42:18 The Importance of Self-Defense 

 

Raul Mendez is a mass shooting survivor, a husband, and a proud advocate for the Second Amendment. Born and raised in California, Raul moved to Arizona in 2009 in pursuit of a better life. A lifelong supporter of the right to bear arms, he is a trained and responsibly armed citizen who used his firearm in self-defense to save lives during a violent attack. Today, Raul shares his story to raise awareness and remind others of the importance of protecting our constitutional freedoms. He stands as living proof that responsible gun ownership can make all the difference.

You can connect with him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ga110_ent

 

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This week, John A. Dailey, a veteran Marine with over 20 years in special operations and author of the memoir 'Tough Rugged Bastards.' Dailey recounts his experiences in Iraq and Afghanistan, emphasizing the importance of actions over words. The discussion highlights Dailey's military background, insights on leadership, and the concept of achieving a flow state during high-stakes operations. Dailey also explores the psychological challenges faced by veterans and the critical importance of finding purpose after military service. The conversation dives into the necessity of maintaining ethics in combat and the struggles of transitioning back to civilian life while retaining one's core values.

 

Episode Highlights:

04:04 Combat Experiences and Flow State

08:03 The Physiology of Combat

12:56 Applying Military Lessons to Civilian Life

33:36 Misconceptions About Leadership

35:41 Creative Thinking in Problem Solving

43:08 Finding Purpose After Military Service

54:34 Moral Injury and Rules of Engagement

 

John Dailey left his home in West Virginia at seventeen to join the Marines, which led to a career of over twenty years. As a Platoon Sergeant in the Marine Corps’ 1st Force Reconnaissance Company on deployment in Australia on Sep. 11th, 2001, he and his men soon found themselves in Afghanistan battling the Taliban. In 2003 he was selected to serve as a team leader in the first Marine Corps unit assigned to U.S. Special Operations Command —Detachment-1. Det -1’s 2004 Iraq deployment solidified the Marines’ place in special operations and led to the formation of the Marine Special Operations Command (MARSOC). John received his MFA in creative writing from the University of North Carolina - Wilmington in 2018. John continues to train Marine Raiders, and he provides leadership training and performance coaching through his company, Walking Point LLC. He lives in Hubert, North Carolina with his wife, Tracy.

 

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This week, Marcus shares a powerful lesson he learned from a chiropractor during his time in chiropractic school. Emphasizing the importance of 'being' rather than 'trying,' Marcus discusses how embodying the qualities of the person you aspire to become can accelerate your success. He shares actionable steps on how to align your current actions with your future goals, whether they are professional, physical, or personal. The episode encourages listeners to conduct themselves like their future selves now, creating a transformative impact on their journey to success.

 

Episode Highlights:

00:45 Marcus's Chiropractic Journey

02:14 Becoming Your Future Self

04:50 Practical Steps to Transformation

 

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This week J. Jason Hicks shares insights into battling resistance, the importance of daily writing practice, and the influence of authors like Steven Pressfield. Marcus and Hicks discuss how adversity can shape our paths, the significance of authentic partnerships, and practical advice for aspiring writers. Hicks also highlights his upcoming projects and how he integrates his life experiences into his work.

 

Episode Highlights:

09:22 The Writing Process

27:31 Overcoming Adversity and Finding Purpose

34:55 Creating Your Universe

36:50 The Power of Daily Writing

46:07 Advice for Aspiring Authors

49:33 The Importance of a Supportive Partner

 

Jason Hicks studied English Literature, Political Science, and World Religions with a focus on classic literature at the University of Wisconsin Oshkosh. Ruinwaster’s Bane: The Annals of the Last Emissary is his debut novel. He lives in Tucson, Arizona with his wife and his dog. A one-eyed Boxer named Drake.

 

Learn more at: www.jjasonhicks.com

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This week Dr. Trevor Wilkins, known as the Angry Viking Therapist, discusses the impact of early life experiences on current behavior, trauma in public safety and military professions, and the importance of changing one's mental filter to overcome adversity. Dr. Wilkins shares his journey from public safety to becoming a therapist and provides insight into his intensive, specialized treatment methods for trauma. The episode emphasizes the significance of taking control and applying practical strategies to improve mental health and overall wellbeing.

 

Episode Highlights:

03:38 The Power of Predictions in Therapy

11:32 From Public Safety to Therapy

26:33 The Neurotrauma Project and EMDR

32:00 The Impact of Childhood Experiences

35:07 Addressing Trauma and Mental Health

42:42 Complex PTSD and Blocking Beliefs

 

Dr. Trevor Wilkins, PhD, LPCC-S, NCC, CCTP, is a trauma-focused psychotherapist specializing in PTSD treatment for public safety professionals. A former police officer, firefighter, and EMT, he brings real-world insight to Thin Line Counseling in Lexington, KY. Known for his no-nonsense, action-oriented approach, Dr. Wilkins combines evidence-based methods like EMDR and REBT with deep expertise in law enforcement stress. He serves as Clinical Director for The Wounded Blue, teaches at the University of the Cumberlands, and is pursuing a second PhD in Trauma-Informed Care. Dr. Wilkins is a respected speaker, researcher, and advocate for those who protect and serve.

 

Learn more at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/trevor-wilkins-phd/

 

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This week Marcus Torgerson, a leadership coach and author, shares his struggles with abuse, alcoholism, and familial challenges, and how these events shaped his path to writing his book, 'Be a Man: What the Firetruck Does That Even Mean?' The conversation highlights the importance of forgiveness, self-reflection, and the power of turning personal pain into a tool for helping others. Key topics include the challenges and rewards of writing, understanding personal trauma, breaking down barriers in communication, and fostering genuine connection and introspection among men.

 

Episode Highlights:

11:43 Understanding and Embracing Manhood

29:27 Reflections on Personal Growth and Change

31:32 Understanding and Supporting Men

43:19 The Role of Self-Compassion

 

Marcus Torgerson, known as the “Warrior Shepherd,” blends over 40 years of martial and combat arts with two decades in security to guide others with strength and compassion. Grounded in faith and forged by life experience, Marcus walks the line between warrior and mentor. As a coach, he empowers individuals to rise above their challenges and grow into their full potential. His approach is deeply personal, shaped by the belief that everyone’s journey deserves tailored support, conviction, and heart. Through resilience, discipline, and grace, Marcus helps others find the balance needed to lead with purpose and live with strength.

 

Learn more at: https://www.marcustorgerson.com/

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This week Marcus Aurelius Anderson delves into the philosophy that 'moderation is for cowards.' He highlights the importance of extreme commitment and total effort, using examples from historical warriors and modern leaders. Marcus shares actionable strategies for applying this all-in mindset to various aspects of life, such as self-defense and personal growth. He also discusses the value of preparation in facing adversity. Listeners are encouraged to subscribe and explore over 200 episodes featuring interviews with peak performers, including former Navy Seal Commander Rich Devinney and legendary authors Robert Green and Steven Pressfield.

 

Episode Highlights:

01:41 Commitment and Action

02:32 Self-Defense and Situational Awareness

03:57 Applying Extreme Commitment

 

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This week Rich Diviney delves into his latest work, 'The Masters of Uncertainty,' which offers strategies for managing stress and performing under pressure. Rich shares the importance of understanding and deconstructing attributes, the concept of dynamic subordination in teams, and the critical role of trust. The conversation also touches on the neuroscience behind dealing with uncertainty, the practice of moving horizons, and practical breathing techniques for managing autonomic arousal. Rich emphasizes the need for purpose-driven leadership and how mastering uncertainty can empower individuals to thrive in complex environments.

 

Episode Highlights:

03:57 Writing and Impact of 'The Masters of Uncertainty'

08:30 Applying SEAL Strategies to Everyday Life

24:07 Navigating Adversity with Micro Strategies

25:58 The Power of Breathing Techniques

41:51 The Four Pillars of Trust

44:34 Dynamic Subordination in Leadership

 

Rich Diviney is a retired Navy SEAL Commander. In a career spanning more than twenty years, he completed more than thirteen overseas deployments-eleven of which were to Iraq and Afghanistan. As the officer in charge of training for a specialized command, he spearheaded the creation of a SEAL directorate that fused physical, mental, and emotional disciplines. He led his small team to create the first ever "Mind Gym" in Naval Special Warfare that helped SEALs train their brains to perform faster, longer, and better, especially in high-stress environments. Since his retirement, Diviney has worked as a speaker, facilitator, and consultant, training more than five thousand business, athletic, and military leaders. Rich also works with Simon Sinek's organization, Start With WHY.

 

You can learn more about Rich here: https://theattributes.com/

 

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