ADHD often comes with a whirlwind of emotions, burnout, and the complicated art of masking. In this episode, Megan and Michelle dive into what it means to show up as your full, unapologetic self especially when the world has other expectations. With humor and heart, they explore how perceptions shape our ADHD experience and how self-acceptance can be the most powerful tool of all.

You’ll hear Megan’s hilarious middle school revelation about her unexpectedly impactful derriere (yes, really), and what it taught her about visibility, body awareness, and the social pressures we carry. It’s a story that perfectly captures the ADHD knack for turning awkward into awesome.

Favorite line from the episode: “My butt had social impact?”

5:14 — Middle school flashback: the desk-denting derriere
11:48 — Why masking isn't always conscious
19:03 — The weird social rules we’re expected to follow
23:40 — Reclaiming your narrative with joy and honesty
29:55 — Megan’s ADHD as a rogue butler with no chill
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Living with ADHD means riding a tidal wave of emotions, trauma responses, and an endless chase for dopamine. In this episode, sisters Megan and Michelle explore the stormy intersections of neurodivergence and past pain. They unpack how it shows up in the everyday overwhelm of adult life. Through honest reflection and lighthearted banter, they uncover tools for resilience and the beauty of choosing joy.

You’ll hear about Megan’s hilarious detour from a grocery store to a fruit existential crisis, all sparked by strawberries. This episode captures the ADHD rollercoaster in full swing: unpredictable, chaotic, and ultimately human.

Favorite line from the episode: “This desire for dopamine”

3:22  The quest for strawberries and sudden identity spirals
8:15 ADHD and trauma triggers that fly under the radar
13:48 Dopamine chasing vs. true emotional regulation
21:05  When masking becomes muscle memory
26:33  Choosing joy anyway, even in the rubble
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ADHD doesn't just stand for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder; it also stands for humor, heart, and navigating life with a uniquely wired brain. Dive into a lively conversation about emotions, burnout, and the rollercoaster of restlessness. In this episode, we uncover the nuances of ADHD through the lens of two spirited sisters who share candid reflections and a treasure trove of laughs.

Join Michelle and Megan as they unravel the mystery of ADHD's love-hate relationship with restlessness and dive into the delightful chaos of finding one's flow. From Megan's nostalgic attempts at mnemonic devices to Michelle’s pursuit of the perfect nighttime routine, their banter is equal parts enlightening and entertaining. Don’t forget to giggle at the memory of Megan creating cryptic anagrams to outsmart the mundane tasks of daily life only to realize, with her sister’s help, they might not have been all that effective! Laugh along and find comfort in the shared chaos of the ADHD brain, while embracing the joy of staying curious.

favorite line from the episode: "The Conduit for Your Energy"

00:00 catch-up energy and the spicy studio shuffle
06:14 emotional restlessness and the itch to do something
10:33 movie montage vs. mundane grind
15:22 creating systems with charm and flow
21:55 is restlessness ever helpful?
26:40 the anagram brain vs. real-life strategy
33:12 little wins, cryptic clues, and ADHD humor
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ADHD can feel like an emotional rollercoaster, with mood swings and unexpected burnout taking center stage. In this insightful episode, two sisters explore their lived experiences with ADHD, discussing how it impacts their emotions and everyday interactions. From the chaos of forgotten microphones to the unexpected turns of personal responsibility, they unpack the humorous and heartfelt moments that come with neurodiversity.

Join Michelle and Megan as they dive into a memorable moment when a simple nap turned into a comedic slice of reality. Laugh along with their witty banter and discover why radical acceptance and self-care are key when dealing with ADHD challenges. Whether you're nodding along in empathy or intrigued by the nuances of ADHD, this episode promises to enlighten and entertain.
favorite line from the episode: "Flipping Off the Microphone"

00:00 Megan's tech mishap and emotional restart
06:08 the rollercoaster of moods and snap reactions
11:45 nap time chaos and mirror moments
17:02 what is actual rest, and do we allow it?
22:29 honesty, humor, and the magic of resetting
28:00 when apologies lead to deeper understanding
32:15 small repairs and big emotional wins
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Living with ADHD brings a vibrant mix of emotions, intensity, and surprising hilarity. From sudden overwhelm to the deeply rooted dance of masking, this episode is a candid conversation about navigating the rollercoaster of neurodivergent life.

Join Michelle and Megan as they swap stories about brains that take unexpected coffee breaks. With humor and honesty, they explore the reality of emotional overload, executive dysfunction, and the joy of finding moments of self-compassion in the chaos. Whether you’re in the middle of a mental fog or riding a high of confidence, you’ll find something to laugh about and relate to.

favorite line from the episode: "I Am F*cking Awesome!!!"

00:00 brain fog and Monday energy
05:17 when confidence strikes… loudly
09:33 burnout, body signals, and sensory sensitivity
14:48 masking, memory gaps, and Megan’s mirror moment
20:20 spontaneous mantras and radical honesty
26:11 coping tools, coffee breaks, and clarity
30:44 emotional waves and gentle reminders

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Living with ADHD often means dealing with the constant hum of anxious thoughts, emotional spirals, and overwhelm that sneaks in like a buzzing gnat you just can’t swat. In this episode, Michelle and Megan, who both have personal experiences with ADHD, unravel the mental chaos that comes from worry spirals, future-tripping, and the emotional residue that ADHD leaves behind.

From the hilarity of Daisy the pug’s itchy drama to the very real feeling of being stuck in a TARDIS of swirling what-ifs, the sisters break down how it feels when your brain just won’t shut up. With humor, tenderness, and the occasional reference to juicing your emotional support dog, this episode not only reminds listeners that even the most anxious spirals can be softened by compassion and shared laughter, but also shows the power of humor in coping with ADHD.

favorite line from the episode: “It’s Like a Buzzing Gnat”

00:00 Daisy’s itchy disaster and emotional overload
05:12 future-tripping and mental time travel
09:55 TARDIS of worry and looped spirals
14:38 juicing the pug and emotional metaphors
19:11 masking, triggers, and the buzzing brain
25:00 calling out the what-ifs
28:45 grounding moments and soft landings

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Living with ADHD means navigating a swirl of impulsivity, emotional highs and lows, and the never-ending quest for balance. In this episode, Michelle and Megan, two sisters who have been living with ADHD for years, share personal stories of spontaneous decisions, executive dysfunction, and the comedy of trying to live an organized life with a very spicy brain.

From Megan’s unexpected new roommate (Mr. Pasta) to a growing collection of beautiful but unused calendars, the sisters bring their signature blend of insight and humor to the table. Whether it’s shoes that never make it to the closet or the chaos of impulse buys, this episode will leave you laughing, nodding, and maybe feeling a little more seen.

favorite line from the episode: “I’m Being Held Hostage By My Brain”

00:00 impulse shopping and executive dysfunction04:30 the origin story of Mr. Pasta08:55 the calendar collection spiral13:20 the shoe situation and ADHD logic17:40 burnout, shutdown, and self-forgiveness22:05 reframing ADHD habits26:45 working with your brain, not against it

If you’ve ever bought a planner just for the hope it held, then this one’s for you. Share it with a fellow spicy brainer and leave a review to help more ADHD women find our cozy corner of chaos.

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ADHD often feels like a whirlwind of emotions, masking, and the constant struggle to stay afloat in everyday life. In this episode, Michelle and Megan, two sisters who have been navigating the unpredictable waves of ADHD for years, share their experiences with burnout, frustration, and those classic “I quit!” moments that can hit out of nowhere.

You’ll nod in agreement as Megan shares her struggle with decluttering… only to find herself in a tug-of-war with a mountain of beloved stuffed animals, caught in a whirlwind of emotional attachment. The sisters candidly discuss the challenges of creating physical and mental space when your mind is always in overdrive. This episode is for anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed by a task, their possessions, or their emotions, and needed a gentle reminder that they are not alone in their journey.

favorite line from the episode: “The Fists of Fury”

00:00 emotional spirals and the quit impulse
04:12 the stuffed animal standoff
09:30 decluttering with ADHD
14:45 burnout and masking layers
18:20 what makes emotional regulation so hard
23:05 finding support without shame
27:40 staying curious through the chaos

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Michelle and Megan, two sisters navigating the world with ADHD, often brings a whirlwind of emotions, overwhelm, and the constant search for systems that actually work. In this episode, they explore the pressure of rigid schedules, the stress of time blindness, and the hilarity of trying to adult with a neurodivergent brain.

You’ll hear about Megan’s recurring anxiety dreams about clocking in and out, Michelle’s struggles with mismatched socks, and the very real question, "Am I going to jail over this?" But don't worry, it's not all doom and gloom. Through laughter and honesty, the sisters highlight how accommodations, flexibility, and self-compassion can make a world of difference when living with ADHD.

favorite line from the episode: “I Feel Like I’m Gonna Go to Jail”

00:00 jail dreams and the sock incident05:40 time blindness and rigid expectations10:22 masking at work and fear of mistakes14:55 left socks, right socks, and chaos19:10 reframing productivity and flexibility24:03 how accommodations support real life28:20 a reminder to stay soft with yourself

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ADHD and emotions go hand in hand, creating a vibrant storm of thoughts, burnout, and to-do lists that multiply like gremlins. In this episode, Michelle and Megan share their personal experiences, making you feel understood and less alone in your struggles. They explore the beauty and absurdity of living with a neurodivergent brain, where even the most well-meaning organizing session can spiral into a full-on butterfly transformation.

Prepare to chuckle as Michelle's attempt to alphabetize her spices leads to a psychedelic culinary explosion. From the relatable experience of masking fatigue to the joy of unexpected clarity, this episode is a delightful, humorous exploration of what it means to embrace the mess, one colorful wing flap at a time.

favorite line from the episode: “The Butterfly Came Out of the Cocoon”

00:00 butterfly metaphors and emotional spirals
04:20 the spice rack saga
09:12 task overwhelm and masking fatigue
14:00 feeling the shift from chaos to clarity
17:42 accepting our ADHD metamorphosis
22:05 laughing through the mess
26:15 building a life with room to flutter

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