An Evolving Man Podcast

On today's podcast I am joined by the international teacher Darren Deojee where we talk about gender differences, how men relate differently to the world than women and how we as men move from boy to man.

Darren is a fascinating person to talk to. He is very eloquent and I love his ideas. Here we explore the difference between masculine and feminine from the Toltec tradition which is similar teachings to that of Carlos Castaneda.

Darren Christopher Deojee is an international teacher, speaker, activist, mentor/coach, father, and home educator of four children. He’s been teaching from the Toltec heritage of gender tradition for over 10 years and working with native gender for over 20 years. He works with groups, individuals, and couples on matters of gender and communication. 

Some of the question that I asked Darren were as follows:

1. What drew you to get interested in men's work?
2. In your opinion what is the difference between the masculine and feminine?
3. In some of your talks you talk about men's relationship to their balls. Can you explain more about that? Also how do we as men get our balls back?
4. I am fascinated by your own journey of feeling more feminine as a boy and how you became more connected with the inner man? For those men who feel the same what do you recommend that they do to connect more with that masculine core?
5. I love your analogy with the wild man. How do we connect to the wild man?
6. I am also interested in your opinion around fear – I see that many men are paralysed by fear – what's really worked for you or the men you work with for moving through fear?
7. I see that the world is at crossroads – how do you see men's roles in the coming weeks, months and years for stewarding a new, benevolent world for our children?
8. Can you share what it is that you offer men? How do people get in touch with you?

In order to learn more about his work please visit: https://www.darrendeojee.com

And for some of the other videos then please search YouTube looking for Darren Deojee or visiting his YT page here: 

https://www.youtube.com/user/AlternativeAnswers

And his public Facebook page here:

https://www.facebook.com/christopherdeojee/

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Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. 

He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. 

He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 

For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross 

For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic 

For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community 

Many blessings, 

Piers Cross 

http://piers-cross.com/ 

 In today's Podcast I talk with the founder of Reclaim Your Inner Throne, Eivind F Skjellum. 

Today we will be looking at conspiracy theories and how when we get lost in them this keeps us small and powerless. 

 Eivind is the visionary founder of Reclaim your Inner Throne, an organization spearheading both a renaissance and an evolution of archetypal men’s work. 

 Recognized as an authority in men's work and the King, Warrior, Magician, Lover archetypes, he's an innovator in the field and has supported hundreds of men in transforming their lives. 

 Eivind is currently focusing on writing, developing the RYIT organization and trainings, and creating A World where People thrive by supporting one million men become evolutionary entrepreneurs by year 2050. 

 Today Eivind talks about mythology and it's relationship to conspiracy theories. 

He talks about how myths are deep truths and its connection with being and becoming. 

Why is it that by getting lost down the conspiracy theory rabbit hole for men can keep you small? 

He also goes on to talk about 4 ways that we as men can start to break the hold that these conspiracies hold over us and start to live empowered and benevolent lives. 

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With conspiracy theories taking off in the world, we're being divided between those who believe them and those who don't. 

Yet today's talk by Reclaim your Inner Throne founder Eivind F. Skjellum is not about what is true or not. 

Instead he talks about he dynamics of disempowerment that are part and parcel of conspiratorial thinking. 

Some questions that he answers are: - What drew you to get interested in the work that you now do with men, especially around the archetypes? - Why getting lost in conspiracy theories can destabilize us? What do you see happening currently? - I would interested in your view around the shadows and how Robert Moore says that in order to connect to the positive pole of the archetype the bipoloar shadow has to be integrated as much as possible first. How do we integrate the shadow? 
- With what is unfolding in the world (lockdown/ riots/ reconnection with nature) how can this be connected to the archetypes? 
- I would like you to speak about initiation and your view on whether what is unfolding globally could be linked to the lack of positive initiation ceremonies especially with men. How do we bring back initiation in a positive way? 
- You talk about embodying the Warrior energy in some of your other videos – how do we do that as men? How do we take our power back? 

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To learn more about the work that Eivind does with men please visit his website at https://www.inner-throne.com/ 

To join his Facebook group please visit: https://www.facebook.com/groups/863316220362727/ 

And to download the free book Where Peasants become Kings: https://www.inner-throne.com/ebook 

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Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. 

He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. 

He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 

For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross 

For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic 

For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community 

Many blessings, 

Piers Cross 

http://piers-cross.com/ 

 In today's Podcast I talk with the founder of Trackways, Thomas Schorr-Kon, the UKs first nature connection, bushcraft and survival school. 

In this episode we talk about Thomas' own journey of connecting to the teachings of Tom Brown Jr, the tracker who inspired the film The Tracker. 

Thomas talks about how he learned to feel that wherever he stood on the planet that he was home. 

Today he shares some teachings about the Warrior and the Magician/ the Shaman. Where do the Warrior and the Shaman meet? 

Some questions that he answers and poses are: 
- What is the most important thing that Tom Brown Jr learned that he shared with his students 
- The importance of Rites of Passage 
- How to move out of judging others and judgments 
- Why inquiry and not believing what others teach us is so important 
- How to move through fear 
- How to become more present and have greater awareness in life 
- Why we need to bring more curiosity in our lives

For Thomas' book please visit here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/True-Nature-CONNECTING-ILLUSION-SEPARATION/dp/1790581168/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=thomas+schorr&qid=1590679997&sr=8-1 

For his website: https://www.trackways.co.uk/ 

To email Thomas [email protected] 

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Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. 

He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. 

He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 

For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross 

For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic 

For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community 

Many blessings, 

Piers Cross 

http://piers-cross.com/ 

 Today's interview is hosted by Rod Boothroyd who is interviewing Piers Cross. 

Piers is talking about his new book, How To Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. 

It has been many years in the making - he first started it in 2008... 

It is a book about the challenges that he went through from having a breakdown working in London to drink and drugs and being without a home. 

He also talks about the 3 years I spent getting sober while living in a Buddhist monastery. 

What did he learn? What are the tools are practices that you can use to deal with challenging times. 

He talks about some of the 101 different ways and techniques for moving through challenges and coming out the side. 

How do we go through difficult times and start to thrive? 

Some of the questions that Rod asks are: 
- Tell us a little about your background and experience in healing work? 
- What led you to write the book? 
- Who is it aimed at? 
- How personally challenging was it, interweaving your very personal journey through the exercises and "101 ways"? 
- What's the greatest lesson life has taught you? 
- Do you have a favourite exercises (or exercises) from the book? 
- Is there an example of an exercise that you could talk us through right now? 
- How do you see the importance of compassion and gratitude in emotional healing? 
- What would you say to someone in crisis right now that might help them see the way out? 
- Can you offer advice about how to keep up the exercises? (We know how people start new practices with enthusiasm, then the old habits slowly creep back in, and I imagine really committing to the practices in the book takes more than willpower....) 
- One of the things I am seeing more and more is how trauma is stored in the body. How do you think people can deal with this? 
- How do you see your book's advantages 
- how does it stand out 
- in a world where lost of books offer us the promise of emotional healing? 
- What projects have you got in mind - eg boarding school recovery? 

 Here is the link to buy it. https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1589988169&sr=8-3 

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Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. 

He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. 

He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 

For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross 

For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic 

For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community 

Many blessings, 

Piers Cross 

http://piers-cross.com/ 

 In the third podcast I interview Roger Terry who is an international NLP Master Trainer and public speaker.

As an expert on Neuro Linguistic Programming and human value systems, Roger leads seminars and consults with organizations in the UK, USA, Europe and Middle East.

Every few weeks there will be an interview around men's topics ranging from self-development, relationships, spirituality, archetypes, and men's work featuring authors and leaders in this field.

The sense with these interviews is to support men during these times of change. What are the teachings, tools and practices that you can use to help you through these turbulent times?

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Roger is the author of 3 books about NLP and he has, with Henrie Liddiard, trained over 1000 Fast Track teachers in NLP.

He set up Evolution Training with his wife Emily in 1996 where they run courses and offer coaching helping people to reach their full potential.

Today we talk about NLP practices and tools that can help men to become more present.

Roger talks about how men are no longer pushing forward and what they can start to do in order to develop this.

Roger teaches specific practices for becoming more embodied (a common criticism of the modern man is that they are not present) and how to change our internal states.

Some of the questions he answers are:
- How do we understand emotions as men
- The 2 stages of transformation 
- How to build a witness consciousness 
- Building sensory acuity 
- How to switch from sympathetic nervous system
 - the fight or flight to the parasympathetic nervous system of rest and digest 
- NLP Techniques for becoming more present  
- The importance of ceremony/ group activity and being in nature 

For more information about Roger Terry: http://www.evolutiontraining.co.uk/ 
please email: [email protected] or call: 01243 792 122 

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Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. 

He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. 

He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 

For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross 

For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic 

For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community 

Many blessings, 

Piers Cross 

http://piers-cross.com/ 

 In the second podcast I interview James Boag who is a Sanskrit scholar and a yoga teacher.

Drawing on his background in languages and scriptural teachings he brings the practical essence of traditional Indian teachings into the vivid context of our human lives today.

He has been teaching since 1993, and teaching yoga since 2004.

James runs intensives and online trainings on applied yoga philosophy and mythology around the world.

Today we talk about yoga and the whole human being. How can you find that inner yoga, that inner union?

We will be talking about how the primal energies of the archetypes manifest in Indian scripture and how we can use this knowledge to better understand ourselves as men.

Some of the questions he answers are: 
- How can we stop, look and listen and bring centred awareness back in our being? 
- The importance of satsang - connecting with other men 
- Teachings about the Bhagavad Gita and how Krishna taught Arjuna 
- How you can learn to align with consciousness 
- The importance of Raja yoga 
- the Sovereign/ King energy 
- How courage helps us to connect to the inner sovereignty 

For more information about James Boag: http://www.jamesboagyoga.com 

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Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. 

He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. 

He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 

For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross 

For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic 

For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community 

Many blessings, 

Piers Cross 

http://piers-cross.com/ 

In the first podcast I interview Rod Boothroyd who is a counsellor, psychotherapist, a certified “Healing The Shadow” practitioner and the author of the book Warrior, Magician, Lover, King – A Guide To The Male Archetypes Updated for the 21st Century.

Rod works with men, women and mixed groups. He offers 1-1 and group work to help heal the wounds of childhood with Marianne Hill. Today we talk about the archetypes. These primal energies which effects us and the world around so heavily especially in these times.

In this interview I ask Rod to introduce the mature masculine energies of the King, Magician, Warrior and Lover and how they appear in our lives. What can we do to connect more with the benevolent qualities and heal the negative sides?

Some of the questions he answers are:

1. What are the archetypes?
2. How do they impact our lives as men?
3. What are the main different mature masculine archetypes in brief?
4. How are they imbalanced now? Moore & Gillette mention in their book King Warrior Magician Lover that the main imbalance is in the Lover quadrant. In your book you mention that it is now the King. How has this changed? What can we do as men to redress the imbalance?
5. How can we use the archetypes to help us through these troubled times?
6. "With such big forces at play, how do the archetypes especially the warrior fit with the idea of peace and love? Should the warrior be prepared to fight for his families, and his communities for humanities future?" Howard Jay
7. In more depth (if there is time) what are the archetypes in the positive and the negative. How do we connect to the positive side? How do we heal the negative side? 8. How do people find out more about you and the work that you do?

Rod Boothroyd's Websites: https://www.strongfreemen.co.uk/​ https://www.takeyourpower.co.uk/​ The Mankind Project UK: https://mankindprojectuki.org/​ The MKP New Warrior Training: https://mankindprojectuki.org/the-new...​ #kingwarriormagicianlover​ #archetype​ #jung​ #psychology​ #psychoanalysis​ 

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Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. 

He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. 

He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 

For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross 

For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic 

For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community 

Many blessings, 

Piers Cross 

http://piers-cross.com/