Let’s talk about it — the question that lingers in bedrooms and relationships everywhere: Are we having enough sex?

In this revealing episode, Tom and Isabelle get honest about desire, frequency, and the silent pressure many of us feel around how much sex we “should” be having.

From long-term relationships to fresh flings, mismatched libidos to shifting seasons of intimacy, your favorite kinky co-hosts break down the myths, the stats, and the emotional truths behind sexual frequency.

They explore what “enough” really means, why comparison kills joy, and how communication—not performance—is the real secret to satisfaction.

Whether you're doing it daily or haven't done it in months, this episode reminds us that when it comes to sex, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer—only what’s right for you.