Are you a turkey person?

And no, I'm not talking about the makeup of your Thanksgiving dinner plate this week.

I'm talking about a question that when asked the first time went on to change the life of the individual that heard it. And years later when I heard it, did the same for me.

It's a question that's poised to reframe not just our understanding of what it means to serve and love others but one that can transform the effort we bring to our relationships, our work and our purpose in the world.

Think I'm exaggerating? Take a listen.