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1. I missed the 2020 online conference and Wendy’s talk that deeply interests me. Also, I couldn’t attend the Mary course you personally recommended—will there be another chance?
2. I long for intimacy, but my husband rejects my advances. It revives deep insecurities and leaves me lonely and ashamed. How do I carry this cross with love?
3. Seeing our wedding photos reminds us of how broken we were. How can we reclaim joy and see beauty in our beginning again?

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LOVE IS PATIENT, BUT I’M NOT: CONFESSIONS OF A RECOVERING PERFECTIONIST

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1. I've faced physical suffering that leaves me asking why God created us so weak. My pain has taught me compassion, but I still struggle to understand its purpose. I've read Salvifici Doloris, but I need help connecting Theology of the Body to my suffering. Why does God allow this? What meaning is there in our bodily weakness?
2. After our fourth child, my husband wants to space the next pregnancy and avoid contraception—but he's unsure about relying solely on NFP. He suggests abstinence for a while, but I’m worried about the impact on our relationship. How can we honor Church teaching, respect my need for rest, and stay close as husband and wife?
3. I struggled with the idea of hell after college. How could a loving God allow eternal punishment? Then Theology of the Body opened my eyes: what if hell is the eternal ache of separation from the One who made us for love? Could the torment of hell be like the anguish of losing our truest beloved?

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Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II’s beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body.

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1. How can I open my heart emotionally to my wife during sex after a history of porn and brokenness?
2. How do I heal and forgive after losing friends and community following a controlling relationship and new engagement?
3. Is there a Theology of the Body insight in my toddler mistaking confession for a wedding?

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1. Why can’t I let go of a toxic past relationship and fully embrace attraction and presence in my marriage?
2. What does it mean to die with dignity, and is it right to see death as something good or redeemed?
3. How can I teach psychology through a Catholic lens and reveal God’s beauty in the human mind?

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Eating the Sunrise

Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II’s beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body.

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Questions answered this episode:

1. Can we call God “Mother” without being heretical?
2. Is my friend’s bodybuilding lifestyle and public modesty truly compatible with Christian witness?
3. How do I prepare for marriage without becoming anxious about its challenges?

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Questions answered this episode:

1. Can indulgences and scapulars make sense through the lens of Theology of the Body?
2. How can I embrace lifelong celibacy after my wife left me?
3. Are appearance-focused exercises inherently vain or can they be good?

Resources
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Eating the Sunrise

Fill These Hearts

Sexual Needs Into Prayer YouTube Video

Chastity: Reconciliation of the Senses
God Is Beauty Book

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Questions answered this episode:

1. How do I overcome fear and insecurity about sex before marriage, especially since I’m a virgin and my fiancé isn’t?
2. How can I love someone well when she ended our relationship but I still care deeply for her?
3. How do I reconcile Galatians 3:28 with TOB’s teaching that we remain male and female in eternity?

Resources
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Love & Responsibility YouTube Series

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Questions answered this episode:

1. I work for a small Christian university... how can I prepare to teach Theology of the Body to a Protestant audience when JP2's writings feel dense and I'm limited in time and resources?
2. After discovering my husband’s hidden struggles with pornography and masturbation, how can I walk with him toward a true relationship with Christ while dealing with my own feelings of betrayal?
3. I’m about to get married and just found out I’ll have my period on my honeymoon. Is it OK for Catholic couples to have sex during menstruation?

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Our Bodies Tells God's Story Book

John Paul II’s Letter to Artists

God Is Beauty Book

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Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II’s beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body.

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Questions answered this episode:

1. At a recent funeral, people spoke about God's perfect timing in death, but I wondered, isn't death, the separation of body and soul, a result of the fall? Doesn't God's will have both a perfect and permissive side, given our fallen world and freedom to choose? Wouldn’t God prefer us to live forever, body and soul, rather than just our souls going to heaven? Can you help me understand all of this in the context of Theology of the Body?
2. I was discussing sexuality with my atheist friend when she asked why the Church says masturbation is wrong. She then compared her body to a Ferrari, claiming she worked hard to take care of it and should be able to enjoy it alone. I was left speechless. What does the Church and Theology of the Body say about this?
3. I’ve been practicing NFP with my husband since our marriage, but I’m struggling with my conscience. He wants to wait a year before trying to conceive, while I feel ready to start our family. I worry that NFP is being treated like contraception. I’m also feeling lonely and disconnected, especially since it’s easy to abstain for weeks. How do I talk to my husband about this, and am I wrong to think NFP isn't right for us right now?

Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II’s beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body.

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• As a wife with low sexual desire due to hormones (e.g., postpartum), is it okay to engage in intimacy for my husband's sake even if it's uncomfortable—and is it wrong to show enthusiasm I don’t truly feel?

• When teaching my kids about sexuality, should I share my own past sexual sins—or could that send the wrong message, even though I’ve been forgiven?

Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II’s beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body.

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