Ask The Duo Podcast

Ask The Duo Podcast

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  • S2E23: Is resilience a skill or an inherited trait? w/ Ava Wong

    This was such a hard question to peel apart, to some it could be an inherited trait and to others, it’s a skill. There are some that are grown to have more resilience than others. But we wanted to discuss if this is something you are born with and inherit or is it developed through your experiences in life.

    Ava Wong (Amelia’s mum) joins us today to discuss what her thoughts are around this topic of resilience and share her experiences where it helped her build this skill.

    We also share our own personal stories and moments on where we had to build on our resilience. As well has going through the 5 pillars of resilience.

    We would love to hear you share your stories on moments that built your resilience too!


    Similar Episodes

    • S2 / E13: Does upbringing affect how we find our relationships? w/ Shelley To
    • S2 / E8: Lessons in life that has changed our mindset w/ Alex Tam
    • S1 / E58: Why we need to challenge ourselves in life
    • S1 / E44: Re-evaluating the definition of happiness
    • Resources

      • 5 pillars of resilience
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          48 min
        • S2E22: Coming back from hitting rock bottom (K drama, Tomorrow discussions)

          Bringing you a different kind of episode today. Discussing the moral of the story from a K drama we’ve recently watched, Tomorrow. BUT we’re not trying to do a typical K drama review.

          We really wanted to dig into the message that they shared on the show. How we can bounce back from when we hit rock bottom. Every story in this drama taught us great ways to think and look at life, EVEN when life gets hard and you really have hit rock bottom.

          Such a great drama to watch if you love something that brings you different perspective. The story is around life and death but actually surprisingly really light hearted!

          Similar episodes

          • S2E8: Lessons in life that has changed our mindset w/ Alex Tam
          • S2E7: Understand your priorities w/ Al Robinson
          • S1E60: The problem with identities and labels
          • Resources

            • https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/15229/ive-ruined-my-life/
            • https://www.kpopmap.com/k-drama-tomorrow-currently-ranks-the-10th-most-popular-tv-show-on-netflix-worldwide
            • https://asianwiki.com/Tomorrow_(Korean_Drama)
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                38 min
              • S2E21: Life is a journey, not a destination w/ Rachel Lee

                From graduating with Honors in Economics to PHD in Law to run running her own Design business, Paper & Desk. When Rachel decided to chase her dreams and switch careers into graphic design, she never had imagined herself running her own business in design.

                Don't switch off just yet if your line of work is not in design, because this episode is really the best example of you really can't plan out what your life will look like. Plan changes and your direction changes.

                Rachel shares many words of wisdom and gives us many words of truth that we all need to hear. From gathering inspirational quotes she encounters from Bunnings to books she's read that has changed her life. She has really shown that life is a big journey and there really is no destination. Her positivity is so inspiring to help us see the light in any challenging times. Especially when your road ahead is unclear, she emphasises that there is always many more paths to explore.

                You only fail if you stop trying and all you can really do for yourself is to put 1 foot forward, 1 step of the time.

                If you are constantly feeling lost in your journey, remember we're all here with you and we're all figuring things out just like you are.

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                If you're looking for some design work, you can find Rachel:

                • Linkedin
                • paperanddesk.com
                • Similar episodes

                  • S2E19: Do we REALLY know what we want in life? (w/ Van Anh)
                  • S2E17: Naked quitting & taking time off work (w/ Hao Tran)
                  • S2E10: The inside scoop of working in law (w/ Aaron Chan)
                  • S2E3: Chase your dreams (w/ Maple & Ochre)
                  • S1E58: Why we need to challenge ourselves
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                      52 min
                    • S2E20: How well do we know each other? (it's quiz time!)

                      You can always learn more about someone even if you’ve known them for 15+ years. Which is exactly what happened in this episode!

                      After a few weeks of heavy topics, we wanted to do a lighter episode and also to let you guys get to know us better. We answered some ‘how well do you know your partner’ questions and there were some questions we actually haven’t asked each other before 😲!

                      From revealing our weirdest quirk to getting to finally know our childhood crush.

                      You can join in too and try it with your friends or S/O. Let us know down below what your favourite question was!

                      Episodes mentioned

                      • S2/E6: Guessing our younger ideal dates!
                      • S1/E54: Sam’s redundancy journey
                      • S1/E10: Breaking up with Diet Culture pt. 1
                      • S1/E11: Breaking up with Diet Culture pt. 2
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                          Music:

                          The Sport Electro - Coma-Media

                          46 min
                        • S2E19: Do we REALLY know what we want in life? w/ Van Anh (Kind of Heart)

                          Life is an ever changing thing and sometimes your goals or the things you desire in life also change. Sometimes you may feel more lost than other times. This is the cycle of life.

                          So with this episode, we had the pleasure of having the amazing Van Anh from Kind of Heart on our podcast and we really felt like we had a massive life coach session with her. We dived deep into understanding if we actually know what we want in life and if it’s okay not to know?

                          Join us on this episode to discuss all things direction, purpose and intent.

                          Speaking of intention, Van Anh has shared an exclusive discount code for Ask The Duo listeners to try her ‘Living with Intention’ coaching program.

                          If you have been wanting to try out a life coach, to go from being busy and overworked to being intentional about your time. You can get 15% off with the code ‘ASKTHEDUO’

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                          Make sure you go and check out Van Anh's podcast where you can learn how to let go of cultural pressure and hear the stories of other second generation immigrants on the same journey.

                          Also check out her life coaching courses to help you be more intentional with how your spend your time, find the things that align with your values and having time for all that’s truly important.

                          Slow Down Time Podcast / Instagram / Website

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                          Similar episodes

                          • S2/E04: Working with imposter syndrome w/ Maple & Ochre Photography
                            • S1/E60: The problem with identities and labels
                              • S1/E59: Is perfection another word for insecurity?
                                • S1/E21: Was going to university a waste of time?

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                                    1 hr 5 min
                                  • S2E18: Answering your dating questions (open marriages, staying at an exes’ and disapproving parents)


                                    Another round of our Ask The Duo with your relationship questions! We’ve picked some juicier ones but not only that, they seem to be some pretty common relationship challenges that some people go through.

                                    We love doing these because it really does help us problem solve and learn from these situations too. If you do as well, tune and let us know how you would’ve dealt with any of these situations or if this is something you’ve gone through as well.


                                    Similar Episodes

                                    • S2 / E16: How we see temptation, cheating & loyalty
                                    • S1 / E50: Ask the Duo with your dating questions
                                    • S1 / E41: Our relationship type (dictated by a quiz)
                                    • S1 / E20: We're going in deep with these relationships questions
                                    • S1 / E3: Almost 36 questions that lead to love
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                                        41 min
                                      • S2E17: Naked quitting & taking time off work w/ Hao Tran

                                        Just like everything in life, careers has their highs and their lows. Sometimes the lows may even put you in situations where you feel like you need a break. But in society, many tell us that we should at least have the next job lined up before you quit. However, what if you are honestly just mentally drained, overworked and working has just caused way too many mental break downs.

                                        Today we sit with Hao Tran to discuss his recent movement in leaving his career without another job lined up. We dig deep into the bigger plans behind taking this action and why he felt that it’s better to just leave before things get out of hand.

                                        Sometimes it also is a difficult question because you just aren’t sure if it’s just a simple break you need or it’s actually something that is affecting your mental well-being where you need to just take the step back. Away from it all and have a healthy reset.

                                        If you’re currently stuck in a similar situation, unsure if you’re making the right decision in your career. Feeling like you need a reset but not sure if naked quitting is the right idea. Tune in to our episode with Hao as he share his thoughts and opinions and things he considered before fully quitting his job.


                                        Also if you’re a killer for analogies, you wouldn’t want to miss this one!


                                        Similar episodes

                                        • S2E11: Do we have a healthy money mindset?
                                        • S2E8: Lessons in life that has changed our mindset
                                        • S1E54: Sam’s redundancy journey
                                        • S1E34: Our top 3 non negotiables

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                                            56 min
                                          • S2E16: How we see temptation, cheating & loyalty (reviving a stale relationship)

                                            Recently, a lot of people have been asking us, how do we deal with temptations for a couple that have been together for 10+ years?

                                            Firstly, we’re not expert and only speaking from our personal experience. But also we want to let you guys know that temptations in a relationship is normal. Also we believe it’s your actions that follow from these temptations, is what influences your relationship.

                                            As humans, we’re face with different temptations everyday, whether it’s trying to each healthy or resisting buying those pair of shoes you don’t really need. The only difference with temptations in a relationship. is that your choice will also affect someone else in your life.

                                            So, in this episode we discuss:

                                            • 👀 Do we get temptations?
                                            • 🙌🏻 What is loyalty to us?
                                            • 💔 Cheating stories
                                            • 💞 Ebb and flows in a relationship
                                            • 🍞 Work through a stale relationship

                                            • Similar episodes

                                              • S1 / E15: Are there different types of cheating?
                                              • S1 / E9: How we met pt. 2
                                              • S1 / E8: How we met pt. 1
                                              • S1 / E2: Can Men And Women Just Be Friends?
                                              • Resource

                                                https://www.sexualhealthaustralia.com.au/extramarital-affairs-infidelity.html

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                                                  38 min
                                                • S2E15: Friends who ghost after they get into a relationship

                                                  Is it really that bad when a friend ghosts you after they get into a relationship? Have that really ghosted us or are they just in their honeymoon period. Let’s dive deep together as we try to see both sides of the stories and share our experiences.

                                                  As we get older and grow with our partners along with other commitments. The time you spent with people also shift. But is that an acceptable reason for a friend to ghost you?

                                                  Stay tuned till the end to see if WE have ever ditched our friends due to a relationship.

                                                  Similar episodes

                                                  • S2E2: How do we define our friendship tiers?
                                                  • S2E5: Bullies, teenage fights & finding old friends
                                                  • S2E13: Does upbringing affect how we find our relationships?
                                                  • Who People Spend Their Time With By Age

                                                    • https://www.visualcapitalist.com/who-americans-spend-their-time-with/
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                                                        46 min
                                                      • S2E14: The power of your mindset (and running multiple businesses) w/ Kevin Lo

                                                        Most of the time, our ability to achieve something is quite dependent on our mindset and there is such a fine line between positive vs negative outlooks in life. This is something you often hear from successful individuals.

                                                        Which is exactly what we will picking our our great friend Kevin Lo’s brain to see how he manages to keep a positive outlook in life all while having a really great mindset to everything he does. Not only is he running multiple business ventures (roof trade specialist and e-commerce business) but he is also a full time real estate agent. Legend has it, this man never sleeps!

                                                        We have always wanted to dig deeper into the mind of an individual who has been juggling multiple facets of trade to get a better understanding of their journey and battles they face.

                                                        He talks about his non-negotiables, how his mindset shift between industries for his trade and how he started to implement various techniques that has helped him throughout his journey.

                                                        Similar episodes

                                                        • S1E34: Our top 3 non negotiables
                                                        • S1E45: Hustling as a woman in the banking industry
                                                        • S1E56: Are we actually good communicators?
                                                        • S2E8: Lessons in life that has changed our mindset
                                                        • Books mentioned

                                                          • Miracle Morning
                                                          • Atomic Habit
                                                          • How to Win Friends & Influence People
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                                                            A duo helping bring people together to build better mindset for better relationships. Bringing together perspectives from others' to help each other grow better connections. Let's work together to grow a community for more open and honest conversations! As this proverb says 三人行,必有我師 (amongst 3 people, there is always something to be learnt).