Why do autistic meltdowns seem to happen over something so small? In this episode of The PDA Parenting Podcast, parent coach Amy Kotha explores why the visible trigger is rarely the true cause of a meltdown.

Through the fictional story of Emma, Amy illustrates how sensory challenges, masking, unexpected changes, and accumulated stress can overwhelm a child's nervous system long before a meltdown occurs. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of why meltdowns aren't manipulative or intentional - they're often the result of a nervous system that has simply reached its limit.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why the final trigger usually isn't the real cause of a meltdown
• How stress and sensory overload build throughout the day
• Why many children hold it together at school and melt down at home
• How meltdowns can change as children grow into teens and adults
• A compassionate question that can transform the way parents respond to challenging behaviors

Looking for additional support?

Amy's 16-week Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors course + coaching program helps parents better understand their child's nervous system, reduce conflict, and build stronger family connections using brain-based strategies adapted specifically for PDA families.

The course was developed by Robyn Gobbel and is facilitated by Amy. Each week includes a live discussion/coaching session to help you integrate the concepts and apply - in real time - to your specific family. 

👉 Learn more here: PDA Parent Course Details