Available for MORE | Expansion, Transformation, Identity, Faith & Self Trust (Formerly Evolving Into HER)

If you've ever hit a goal and immediately moved on to the next thing without stopping to acknowledge it, this episode is for you. We are talking about celebration, why so many high-achieving women struggle with it, and the real neurological and subconscious reasons it is one of the most powerful tools in your transformation toolkit. This is a direct piggyback to episode 59 (listen HERE) where we talked about the six signs your inner work is actually working even when it doesn't feel like it. Because if those signs are showing up in your life, this episode is the next step: learning how to actually stop, acknowledge, and celebrate them.

In this episode we cover the neuroscience of dopamine and momentum, how your subconscious uses your wins as evidence for your identity, the connection between nervous system regulation and your ability to receive, and why the woman you are becoming celebrates every single win, especially the small ones. If you are ready to stop living in the permanent tension of not yet and start inhabiting who you already are, this episode was made for you.

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

You have been doing the work. The journaling, the regulating, the praying, the showing up and some days it genuinely feels like nothing is changing. This episode is for the woman who needs a reminder that transformation is not always loud, and that the signs it is working are probably already all around her. Today we are slowing down, zooming in, and giving you permission to actually acknowledge how far you have come.

We are covering 6 green flags that mean you are more aligned than you think. From the way your self talk has shifted, to the people showing up in your life, to the moment you caught yourself mid-spiral and chose differently. If any of those resonate, this episode is for you.

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

You know what to do. You've done the research, listened to the podcasts, filled the journals, and something still isn't clicking. This episode is for the woman who is tired of waiting for the right season, the right circumstances, the right version of herself to finally show up. The time is going to pass anyway. Whether you heal or not. Whether you do the work or not. Whether you choose yourself or keep putting it off. A year from now you will have arrived somewhere, and today we are talking about what it actually takes to make that somewhere intentional.

We're touching on the neuroscience of why you stay stuck even when you desperately want to move forward, what your subconscious is actually doing when you self-sabotage, and why willpower alone will never get you there. Plus I am sharing the personal story behind how this podcast was born, the intention I set during the very first round of 75HER, and what became possible on the other side of that decision. 

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

What if the life that feels "safe" is actually the thing blocking your blessings? If you've been choosing comfort over what's calling you, staying in the good enough relationship, the okay job, the familiar version of yourself, this episode is your wake-up call. We're diving into why your brain loves safe, how playing it small keeps you from what God has for you, and the neuroscience behind why your nervous system fights the very expansion you're praying for.

This is the final part of the "Get Out of Your Own Way" series, and it's for the woman who's ready to stop settling. We're talking about the difference between contentment and comfort, why your capacity for growth shrinks when you avoid discomfort, and the micro-choices that build a life you're proud of at 80, 90 years old. If you've been waiting for permission to want more, to dream bigger, to step outside what's familiar, this is it. Your future self is waiting on the other side of comfortable.

Check out the entire Get Out Of Your Own Way Series ⬇️
028 | Get Out of Your Own Way Series (Intro)
030 | The Trap of Being Busy (Part 1)
032 | The Trap of Perfectionism (Part 2)
034 | Healing The Inner Critic (Part 3)
036 | The Trap of Comparison (Part 4)
056 | The Trap of the False Identity (Part 5)

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

Join The Next Subconscious Healing Experience

What if the version of yourself you think is real is actually just a story you created to survive? The identity you've been living from might feel like the truth, but it could be the very thing blocking your blessings. In this episode, we're unpacking the trap of false identity: how your brain reinforces old patterns, why we cling to identities that no longer serve us, and the subconscious programming that happens in childhood that shapes decades of your life.

This episode is for you if you've ever felt like "this is just who I am" about something that's actually limiting you. Whether it's being "the strong one," "not the creative type," or "the person who handles everything," we're going deep into identity-level transformation, inner child healing, and what it actually takes to shed the false self and step into your true identity. Part 5 of the "Get Out of Your Own Way" series.

Check out the entire Get Out Of Your Own Way Series ⬇️
028 | Get Out of Your Own Way Series (Intro)
030 | The Trap of Being Busy (Part 1)
032 | The Trap of Perfectionism (Part 2)
034 | Healing The Inner Critic (Part 3)
036 | The Trap of Comparison (Part 4)

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

The breakthrough is still yours. You didn't lose it. You didn't fumble it. You may have just delayed it for a bit. This episode is for the woman who sabotaged something important and needs to know how to get back on track without spending weeks, or months,  in shame. We're talking about what to do AFTER you've already blown it up, picked the fight, ghosted the opportunity, or stopped showing up. You'll learn why what's for you won't miss you but you CAN delay it, how to extract the lesson instead of making it mean something about your worth, and the exact steps to get back in the game before you lose all your momentum.

If you're sitting in the aftermath of self-sabotage wondering how to move forward, this episode will show you how to stop the spiral, get curious instead of critical, make amends where needed, and choose differently. We cover forgiving yourself without bypassing the lesson and building accountability so you break the pattern faster next time. The breakthrough is still available. You just have to choose it again.

Check out the entire Get Out Of Your Own Way Series ⬇️
028 | Get Out of Your Own Way Series (Intro)
030 | The Trap of Being Busy (Part 1)
032 | The Trap of Perfectionism (Part 2)
034 | Healing The Inner Critic (Part 3)
036 | The Trap of Comparison (Part 4)

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

Join The Next Subconscious Healing Experience

You keep dating the same person in a different body. Different name, different story, same exhausting patterns. This episode is for the woman who's self-aware enough to see the pattern but doesn't know how to actually break the cycle. We're diving into why your nervous system chooses familiar over safe, how your subconscious blueprint runs your love life, and the identity work that stops you from repeating the same relationship over and over again.

If the emotionally available guy feels boring or you light up for hot and cold energy, this episode explains what's really happening in your body and mind. We cover nervous system regulation, subconscious reprogramming, and identity embodiment. The three layers of work that rewire your attraction patterns so you can become the woman who receives secure, reciprocal, conscious love.

Related Episodes:
052 | How to Stop Your Nervous System From Blocking Your Blessings
051 | 5 Signs Your Nervous System is in Survival Mode

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

Tap HERE To Get My "Becoming Her NOW" Audio

When you expect good things, you become open to receiving them. You notice opportunities. You stay aligned. You show up differently. Your energy shifts from survival mode to overflow. These affirmations will help you start your day expecting miracles, breakthroughs, and blessings. How you start your day matters. The first thoughts you think, the energy you step into, that shapes everything. There's space between each affirmation so you can repeat them aloud or simply let them wash over you. You don't have to sit in meditation to receive the benefits of this track. Press play while you're getting ready, in the car, on your walk, making breakfast, while working, etc.

This episode is for the woman who's done waking up in survival mode. You're ready to expect miracles, align with divine favor, and actually believe good things are happening for you. Save and bookmark this episode. Come back to it often. Make it part of your morning routine. Pay attention to how your body feels, how your thoughts shift, how your expectations change. And if you love these affirmations, the full Becoming Her Now affirmations track is available now.

Related Episodes:
044 | When You’re Carrying Too Much: A Guided Release Meditation
038 | Morning Gratitude Affirmations for Peace, Presence, and Ease

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

Your nervous system may be blocking the very overflow you are working so hard to create. If you keep finding yourself stuck in cycles of pushing, achieving, and then crashing, or watching things fall apart right when they start working, this episode explains why. If episode 051 helped you recognize that you are living in survival mode, this conversation shows you what your body is doing and why struggle keeps feeling familiar even when you want ease.

This episode is for the ambitious woman who works hard, invests in her healing, and knows she is capable of more but cannot seem to hold onto success, money, rest, or stability. We break down the neuroscience of overflow, how your window of tolerance limits what you can receive, and why your nervous system defaults to struggle when safety is missing. You will learn how to expand your capacity so ease, success, and good things no longer feel threatening and can finally stay.

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!

This episode is for the woman who looks successful on paper but feels exhausted underneath...the one who can't rest without guilt, sabotages good things when they get too good, and makes every decision from fear instead of desire. If you're constantly in "responsible mode" but secretly exhausted from always being on high alert, this one's for you.

In this Sunday Coffee Chat, I'm breaking down 5 signs you might be in survival mode without even knowing it. From hypervigilance that looks like responsibility to struggling with vulnerability to making choices that feel safe but don't feel like yours. Plus, I'm sharing why this pattern is so hard to recognize and what you can actually do about it. If you're ready to shift from surviving to truly living, this episode will help you see what's been holding you back and show you the path forward.

If you'd like to support the  podcast and help keep the show going, you can donate HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated.

Check Out My Current Offers 

Next Group Healing: Financial Ease

Get On My Priority List for Mentorship & Coaching

Join My FREE Journaling Practice

If you'd like to support Ashlee's work, you can leave a Love Donation HERE. Every contribution is deeply appreciated and I pray that generosity is returned to you tenfold!