New Year, New You... So is the Old Money Aesthetic Out? How does one reconcile reinvention and tradition? 

In this first of the New Year episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we explore the tension between tradition and reinvention in the ever-evolving world of the old money aesthetic. Kiki talks about her New Year's resolutions and goals, and delves into the delicate balance of maintaining timeless elegance while embracing the excitement and potential of a fresh new year. Listeners will learn how to romanticize their lives in a meaningful, authentic way, on a budjet, naturally, stay true to their values, grow as a person, and stay graceful, fashionable, and elegant in the face of change, all while adhering to the understated luxury that defines the old money ethos, which is, spoiler alert, very much not over. Engage with us as we discuss elegant New Year’s resolutions and the art of navigating reinvention with poise and confidence.

Old Money isn’t always old harmony. In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your host Kiki Astor, aka Auntie Kiki, begins by delving into a famous Astor family feud that led to the creation of the Waldorf-Astoria hotel. Using this dramatic historical anectote full of rivalry, egos, and its unlikely legacy as a jumping-off point, Kiki explores the dynamics of old money family feuds and uncovers why even the most "refined" families can find themselves at odds.

With the holiday season approaching—a time when family tensions often come to a head—this episode provides actionable advice on how to manage your own family disputes with poise and elegance. Drawing from both etiquette principles and psychological insights, we’ll show you how to navigate tricky relationships, set boundaries, and find peace without losing your cool.

Whether you’re sparring over a seating arrangement or something far more serious, this episode is your guide to handling family drama with the grace of old money—and maybe even turning conflict into a legacy of your very own.

In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we explore what it truly means to live a rich life, far beyond the balance in your bank account. Kiki delves into the essence of true wealth through the lens of the old money lifestyle, uncovering how timeless values, understated luxury, and intentional living can elevate your daily experience. Learn how certain behaviors, choices, and mindsets can make you feel impoverished, while embracing old money habits can enrich your life in surprising ways.

From the power of generational thinking to the importance of quality over quantity, this episode is packed with tips for embodying the grace and poise of an old money aesthetic. Whether you’re striving for a wealthy lifestyle or just curious about old money values, Kiki offers cheeky insights and practical advice to help you find abundance—no matter your financial situation.

Perfect for listeners drawn to old money elegance, luxury living on a budget, and the art of living well. Don’t miss this guide to feeling rich in all the ways that matter!

Sometimes it's not the clothes that make the man. It's not which model of Barbour jacket you have chosen, or where you get your tweed suit. What is between your ears is much more important than the Rolex watch on your wrist or the Stubbs and Wooton slippers on your feet. As AUntie Kiki says, education is often free. Obviously, much of this come through in polite cocktail party conversation. But how can you let people know immediately who you are? By the books in your library, on your coffee table, and yes, even in your bathroom. When it comes to letting people know exactly where you fit in in society, which books do almost all old money, elegant, high society people own? In this crucial episode of the Akward Etiquette podcast, Kiki Astor gives you a Grand Tour of sorts, discussing the tomes you must acquire. Show me your library, and I'll tell you who you are.

In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, hostess Kiki Astor dives into the fascinating world of etiquette and manners, exploring which traditional etiquette rules may now feel outdated and why. From rigid social scripts to the nuances of dining decorum, Kiki examines how changing societal values, cultural shifts, and modern social skills are transforming what we once considered polite behavior. Tune in for an entertaining yet insightful discussion on the sociological and anthropological aspects of evolving social norms. This entertaining episode full of cheekiness and personal anecdotes is perfect for listeners intrigued by social skills, the history of manners, and the evolving landscape of interpersonal etiquette.

In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, your hostess, etiquette maven and romance author Kiki Astor, dives deep into the world of microaggressions—those subtle, often unintentional comments and actions that can have a profound impact on individuals and communities. Although they may seem small, microaggressions accumulate, leading to emotional distress and a feeling of being marginalized. Kiki discusses what microaggressions are, the different types that exist, and why addressing them is crucial for fostering an inclusive environment.

Listeners will learn how to identify microaggressions in their daily interactions and what steps to take if they find themselves as victims, perpetrators, or witnesses of these behaviors. While traditional etiquette focuses on smoothing over discomfort, this episode emphasizes the importance of speaking up to break the cycle of microaggressions by educatin yourself and becoming an ally. We'll also discuss what victis of microsaggressions can do. Join us for an enlightening conversation that blends awareness with actionable advice, empowering you to navigate awkward situations with confidence and compassion.

This is a difficult, often awkward conversation, but fear not, your Auntie Kiki will address it with a blend of cheekiness and compassion.

Have you been wanting to entertain at home, but you are intimidated? Have you been thinking of repaying your friends in kind for dinner invitations or jaunts aboard their yachts, but you can't afford an evening in a restaurant? In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, romance author and amateur etiquette expert Kiki Astor will inspire you and share her tips on achieving an elegant old money aesthetic while entertaining on a nouveau pauvre budget. Kiki covers everything you need to know for three old world style gatherings: a successful country house weekend, a sophisticated cocktail party, and a charming dinner party. 

From invitations that set the tone for your events, to clever strategies for preparing your space and menu without breaking the bank, whether you’re hosting a cozy gathering or a stylish soirée, this episode provides practical advice on how to impress your guests with an air of affluence and sophistication, all while keeping costs manageable. Also, remember, friendship and kindness are free. Tune in for Kiki's insights on creating memorable experiences that reflect the grace of old money entertaining!

Winter is coming!

Some of you dread this turning of the seasons, and some of you celebrate it. Those of you who love winter, admit it- it's all about the fashion, isn't it? But with more layers come more problems and questions: how does one layer? Which socks are we suposed to be wearing? Can I wear trendy chocolate brown with black? Which shoes are appropriate? How does one wear formal gloves? Must I remove my hat?

In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we dive deep into the world of old money aesthetic Fall and Winter fashion. Discover the timeless elegance that defines this sophisticated style, from classic silhouettes to luxurious fabrics. Kiki discusses what to wear and how to wear it, ensuring you embody the effortless charm of the elite.

Explore essential fashion and etiquette rules you might not have known, including how to choose the right colors that evoke a sense of understated wealth—think deep jewel tones and muted earth shades. Kiki shares her expert tips on selecting accessories that enhance your outfit without overpowering it, emphasizing the importance of quality over quantity.

Wondering what to buy and what to avoid? This episode covers the must-have pieces for your wardrobe, such as tailored coats, cashmere sweaters, and elegant shoes, while steering you clear of fleeting trends that don’t align with the old money ethos. 

Join Kiki as she unpacks the nuances of dressing with class and sophistication, offering valuable insights that will elevate your wardrobe and refine your personal style. Whether you're aiming to perfect your old money aesthetic or simply want to understand the subtle intricacies of fashion etiquette, this episode is a must-listen! 

Tune in for a blend of fashion advice, etiquette tips, and a dash of humor that will leave you feeling inspired and well-prepared for the colder months ahead.

In this enlightening episode, your Auntie Kiki steps out of her romance novelist slippers and leans into her identity as an etiquette coach and amateur social anthropologist. With a rich background in old money society, interior decorating, fashion, and history, Kiki Astor explores the essence of good taste and how to cultivate it in today’s world. 

Listeners will gain insights into:

-What good taste is, and what it isn't, and the difference between your own personal tastes and the overarching idea of "good taste".

- The historical and cultural context of old money aesthetics and their influence on modern taste, and good taste.

-Whether "good taste" is only for the rich.

-Whether "good taste" is a synonym for "old fashioned," Eurocentric," or "antique." Can good taste be modern?

-Whether the "Old money Aesthetic" automatically means good taste.

-How to cultivate good taste.

-Practical tips for embodying good taste on a budget.

Tune in for a philosophical and practical discussion that will inspire you further in the art of living well!