BECOMING UNTRIGGERED

In this episode, we explore the power of somatic healing, what it is, why it matters, and how it can transform both personal growth and relationships. We also explore the role of deep inner work, the connection between mind and body, and how somatic practices can help navigate triggers in marriage and parenting. Joanna Lindenbaum shares her journey from the art world to coaching, revealing how a life-altering experience pushed her to embrace her true calling.

Joanna is the founder of the Applied Depth Institute, where she trains coaches, therapists, and leaders in master-level facilitation and trauma-informed coaching. With over 20 years of experience in coaching, human behavior, and embodiment practices, she helps practitioners go beyond surface-level work to create lasting transformation. Her Sacred Depths Practitioner Certification empowers professionals to gain the skills, confidence, and depth that set them apart while also experiencing profound personal growth.

Many high-achievers struggle with balancing ambition, family, and self-care. Joanna opens up about her own challenges as the financial leader in her household, the unexpected triggers that surfaced in her marriage, and the work it took to redefine her relationship dynamics. We discuss how somatic awareness, ritual practices, and emotional regulation can help break free from limiting beliefs and create healthier, more fulfilling connections. Tune in to discover how embracing discomfort, working through fears, and integrating somatic practices can lead to profound transformation in both your inner world and your relationships.

– Resources: 

Lavinia’s Making Peace with Your Past signature holistic healing programme:https://www.laviniabrown.com/making-peace-with-your-past

Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme:https://www.andrewlynn.net/

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session:https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

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In this episode, we explore the power of repair in parenting, what it means, why it matters, and whether there’s a point where it’s no longer effective. We dive into the difference between short-term and long-term repair, the role of unresolved trauma, and how self-awareness can transform your relationship with your child.

Many parents struggle with guilt, wondering if past mistakes have caused lasting harm. We share our own experiences and expert insights on why repair is always possible, even if it feels too late. We discuss how acknowledging your mistakes, taking responsibility, and showing genuine effort can rebuild trust and connection over time.

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve damaged your relationship with your child beyond repair, this episode will give you hope and practical strategies to mend the bond. Tune in to discover how your healing journey can create a ripple effect, fostering deeper connection, understanding, and resilience in your child.

– Resources: 

Lavinia’s Making Peace with Your Past signature holistic healing programme:⁠https://www.laviniabrown.com/making-peace-with-your-past⁠

Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme:⁠https://www.andrewlynn.net/

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session:⁠https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session⁠

📱 Connect with Lavinia: 

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⁠https://www.youtube.com/@the.innerchild.healing.expert⁠

📱 Connect with Andrew: 

⁠https://www.andrewlynn.net⁠

⁠https://www.instagram.com/andrew.g.lynn⁠

⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@modern_day_healer ⁠

⁠https://www.youtube.com/@traumainformed

Does your career feel stuck, unfulfilling, or full of unnecessary struggle? You might be unknowingly sabotaging your success. The beliefs and patterns formed in childhood don’t just shape your personal life, they also dictate your career choices, job satisfaction, and professional growth.

In this episode, we uncover how your inner child influences your professional choices, the jobs you choose, why you stay in unfulfilling roles, and how you show up at work every day. From seeking parental approval to struggling with people-pleasing, perfectionism, and burnout, we unpack the unconscious ways your past is controlling your present.

Many high-achievers unknowingly run on outdated survival mechanisms, leading to burnout, dissatisfaction, and even chronic health issues. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward breaking free from self-sabotage. By doing the inner work, you can release old patterns and step into a career that truly aligns with your authentic self.

– Resources: 

Lavinia’s Making Peace with Your Past signature holistic healing programme:https://www.laviniabrown.com/making-peace-with-your-past

Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme:https://www.andrewlynn.net

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session:https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

– 📱 Connect with Lavinia: 

https://www.laviniabrown.com 

https://www.instagram.com/the.innerchild.healing.expert 

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https://www.youtube.com/@the.innerchild.healing.expert

📱 Connect with Andrew: 

https://www.andrewlynn.net

https://www.instagram.com/andrew.g.lynn

https://www.tiktok.com/@modern_day_healer 

https://www.youtube.com/@traumainformed

In this episode, we explore how to make your kids feel safe in an increasingly unsafe world. From natural disasters to unsettling news cycles and social media overload, modern parenting comes with unprecedented challenges. They discuss how these external factors impact children’s emotional well-being and why creating a secure home environment is more crucial than ever.

You’ll learn practical strategies for balancing honesty and protection when talking to your kids about difficult topics. We not only share our perspectives on managing fear, regulating emotions, and fostering resilience in children, but also address the importance of parental self-regulation, showing how your sense of safety directly influences your child’s emotional stability.

Tune in to discover actionable advice for building a safe haven at home, where your children feel seen, heard, and protected. Whether you're navigating global crises or everyday stressors, this episode will equip you with tools to help your family thrive in an unpredictable world.

– Resources: 

Lavinia’s Making Peace with Your Past signature holistic healing programme: https://www.laviniabrown.com/making-peace-with-your-past

Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: https://www.andrewlynn.net/

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session: https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

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📱 Connect with Lavinia: 

https://www.laviniabrown.com 

https://www.instagram.com/the.innerchild.healing.expert 

https://www.facebook.com/the.innerchild.healing.expert 

https://www.youtube.com/@the.innerchild.healing.expert

📱 Connect with Andrew: 

https://www.andrewlynn.net/ 

https://www.instagram.com/life_coach_for_dads

https://www.tiktok.com/@modern_day_healer 

https://www.youtube.com/@traumainformed

In this episode, we dive into the complex and often misunderstood world of addiction, exploring how it functions as a coping mechanism for unprocessed pain and trauma. From socially acceptable habits like workaholism and exercise to substance dependencies, we examine the many faces of addiction and how they impact both personal lives and relationships. Together, we unpack what it means to recognize and address these unconscious behaviors and ask: How can we replace coping mechanisms with authentic healing?

Our conversation touches on the emotional weight of shame, the unhealed wounds from childhood, and the societal norms that reinforce addictive patterns. We explore the role of self-compassion, inner parenting, and emotional awareness in breaking the cycle of addiction. Whether you’re navigating addiction yourself, supporting a loved one, or seeking to understand how unconscious behaviors influence your life, you’ll learn how to identify your own triggers and take the first steps toward building conscious, healthier habits.

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Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: https://www.andrewlynn.net/coaching

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session: https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

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In this episode, we dive deep into the often misunderstood topic of estrangement and ask the question: Do you need it to break generational traumas? We unpack what it means to create space in family dynamics—whether it’s reducing contact or going completely no-contact—and explore how this process can be a powerful tool for healing. Together, we tackle the generational trauma and societal norms that shape family relationships and keep many stuck in unhealthy cycles, offering actionable steps to create healthier connections.

Our conversation examines the emotional weight of guilt and obligation, the courage required to set boundaries, and the importance of living as your adult self rather than being controlled by an inner child. With personal stories and relatable analogies, we show how estrangement, when approached consciously, can foster personal transformation and healthier family dynamics.

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Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: https://www.andrewlynn.net/coaching

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session: https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

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Parenting tweens and teens is no easy feat, especially when navigating their rites of passage. Navigating teenage rites of passage can bring up questions like: How do I prepare my child to handle peer pressure around alcohol, drugs, or sex? How can I teach values without sounding authoritarian? In this episode, we address these and more by sharing personal stories, practical strategies, and actionable tips. We reflect on the importance of clearing our own emotional baggage to show up as the best version of ourselves for our kids, and discuss how to differentiate between helpful guidance and unintentional control.

As a parent, you will leave with tools to foster open communication and guide their teens toward a responsible and empowered adulthood. Whether you're dealing with the challenges of social media influences, the allure of risky behavior, or the need to address modern issues like vaping and early relationships, this episode is a must-listen for parents. It’s packed with relatable insights and empowering advice to help you parent with intention, compassion, and confidence.

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Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: https://www.andrewlynn.net/coaching

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session: https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

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In this episode of Becoming Untriggered, we sit down with Melissa and Bryant, a couple navigating the intricate challenges of parenting, partnerships, and personal growth. They share their transformative journey of uncovering and overcoming individual and shared triggers that have shaped their family dynamic. Through honest reflection, they explore how childhood experiences, trauma bonds, and ingrained patterns influenced their roles as parents and partners. Their vulnerability provides a relatable and inspiring look at the ongoing process of healing and self-awareness.

We also discuss the tools and strategies we helped them use to foster growth and understanding, from inner child work and inter-parenting to redefining relationship roles. While grappling with the chaos of raising kids and recalibrating expectations in marriage, their journey offers valuable insights for anyone striving to become their best self. Tune in for practical advice, profound reflections, and a testament to the power of perseverance and love in navigating life’s challenges.

–Resources mentioned:

Lavinia’s Making Peace with Your Past signature holistic healing programme: https://www.laviniabrown.com/making-peace-with-your-past

Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: https://www.andrewlynn.net/coaching

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session: https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

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📱 Connect with Lavinia:https://www.laviniabrown.comhttps://www.instagram.com/the.innerchild.healing.experthttps://www.facebook.com/the.innerchild.healing.experthttps://www.youtube.com/@the.innerchild.healing.expert

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Are Men from Mars and Women from Venus? In this episode of Becoming Untriggered, we’re getting real about the differences between men and women—and how those differences can both challenge and strengthen our relationships. Drawing from our own experiences (like unpacking after a big move!) and our clients' stories, we uncover why men may seem withdrawn and women feel unheard. We’ll talk about those moments of frustration, the misunderstandings that escalate into conflict, and how shifting our perspective can foster compassion instead of judgment. This is an honest conversation about connection, communication, and what it really means to show up for each other. Whether you’ve been feeling distant from your partner or just want to understand them better, this episode will help you find the balance between honoring your needs and embracing your differences.

–Resources mentioned:Lavinia’s Making Peace with Your Past signature holistic healing programme: https://www.laviniabrown.com/making-peace-with-your-past

Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: https://www.andrewlynn.net/coaching

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session: https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

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📱 Connect with Lavinia:https://www.laviniabrown.comhttps://www.instagram.com/the.innerchild.healing.experthttps://www.facebook.com/the.innerchild.healing.experthttps://www.youtube.com/@the.innerchild.healing.expert

📱 Connect with Andrew:https://www.andrewlynn.net/https://www.instagram.com/life_coach_for_dadshttps://www.tiktok.com/@modern_day_healerhttps://www.youtube.com/@traumainformed

In this episode of Becoming Untriggered, we delve into the complexities of managing relationships with in-laws, especially around parenting approaches. Join us as we discuss the common triggers that arise, from differing parenting styles to struggles with boundary-setting. We explore why these tensions often stem from deeper dynamics with our own parents and how these relationships can serve as a mirror for unresolved childhood issues.

Learn practical strategies for setting clear boundaries with in-laws while preserving family harmony, supporting your partner through these challenges, and approaching in-law relationships as opportunities for personal growth.

Tune in to learn strategies for navigating in-law dynamics with patience and authenticity.

–Resources mentioned:Lavinia’s Making Peace with Your Past signature holistic healing programme: https://www.laviniabrown.com/making-peace-with-your-past

Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: https://www.andrewlynn.net/coaching

Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session: https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session

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📱 Connect with Lavinia:https://www.laviniabrown.com/https://www.instagram.com/the.innerchild.healing.expert/https://www.facebook.com/the.innerchild.healing.expert/https://www.youtube.com/@the.innerchild.healing.expert

📱 Connect with Andrew:https://www.andrewlynn.net/