Becoming Whole

Join Josh and Kit this week as they discuss, not solve, how to love and parent our children without allowing fear to take over.

Highlights:

I wasn't a fearful person until I became a parent

if we don't do this parenting thing right, then our kids won't be okay in the world

if I do a good enough job as a parent, my kids won’t need a savior.

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Original music by Shannon Smith. Audio engineering by Gabriel @ DelMar Sound Recording.

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Join Josh and Kit as they speak with Kyle Bowman in response to an email we got from a listener about same-sex attractions.

Highlights:

children are the biggest recorders of information but the poorest interpreters

what does change actually mean?.. 

Focus on the Healer, not the healing

Guests:

Kyle Bowman

Mentioned:
Unwanted by Jay Stringer

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Original music by Shannon Smith. Audio engineering by Gabriel @ DelMar Sound Recording.

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Join Josh and Kit as they speak with Kyle Bowman about what it means to become the man or woman God has design us to be.

Highlights:

I know Jesus so much more intimately than I did before

Practicing listening well to each other and being honest about what is going on is key

Guests:

Kyle Bowman

Mentioned:
Path Through The Wilderness
The Daily Examen

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Original music by Shannon Smith. Audio engineering by Gabriel @ DelMar Sound Recording.

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Join Josh and kit as they discuss why it's important to fight and especially to fight fair.

Highlights:

arguing does NOT mean failure

working towards restoring the relationship is what matters

when you sincerely listen to someone, that’s a gift.

Mentioned:

John Gottman - The Four Horsemen

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Original music by Shannon Smith. Audio engineering by Gabriel @ DelMar Sound Recording.

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Join Josh and Kit as they discuss this longing we have to worship, to hope in, to set our eyes on.

Highlights:

We don’t like unresolved longing, we just can’t deal with it.

An immature approach at dealing with a very mature problem, which is what do we do with desire?

…we are trying to shortcut the resolution to the longing…

Mentioned:

Rescue
Christopher West – Fill These Hearts
Both Purity Culture and Hook-Up Culture Failed Me

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Original music by Shannon Smith. Audio engineering by Gabriel @ DelMar Sound Recording.

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Join Josh and Kit as they address listener questions of How did I become codependent and how do I change? How do I love myself? What does it mean to be whole?

Highlights:

In fact, there's the saying, it's like I'm okay if you're okay with me. That's codependency.

I'm taking somebody else and I'm seeking from them to feed off of them and to get from them really what only God can give me a sense of identity,...

Am I seen, am I loved, am I worthwhile?

Mentioned:
Spiritual Coaching
Path Through The Wilderness

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Original music by Shannon Smith. Audio engineering by Gabriel @ DelMar Sound Recording.

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Join Josh and Kit as they discuss Connection, Power, and Meaning and how we go to sexual sin (and others) when our truest needs aren’t met.

Highlights:

I think one of the areas that's neglected for a lot of people has to do with emptiness.

there's been research that shows the older a man gets actually the fewer and fewer friendships, authentic, meaningful friendships he has.

the search for meaning that oftentimes we’re running to some type of sexual acting out some type of sexual relationships. When really what we’re after we’re trying to get our hands on, we’re trying to pull into ourselves is a sense of meaning.

Mentioned:
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
Spiritual Coaching
Rescue

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Original music by Shannon Smith. Audio engineering by Gabriel @ DelMar Sound Recording.

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Join Josh and Kit as they unpack the impact of the families we grew up with and how they can tie into our present-day struggles.

Highlights:

"The first key childhood driver of unwanted sexual behavior is having a family system that was characterized as rigid and/or disengaged." Jay Stringer

I've talked to lots of daughters, and I've also talked to moms, well-intentioned moms who talk about their fear.

the number of people who walk through our doors who've wrestled with same-sex attraction since they were little kids, and have been hurt in their Christian homes and in their Christian churches...

Mentioned:
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
Spiritual Coaching
You Are Seen - Women's Conference

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

We all want the best for our kids. We want them to have fun, be safe, thrive, and grow in their relationships with each other and with God.

As a parent how do I do this right!?!

Join Josh and Kit as they discuss the best thing we can do for our kids; the best gift we can give to our children.

Mentioned:
PG Conf
Spiritual Coaching
Programs

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

If you are wrestling with unhealthy or unholy behaviors, it may be because, deep down, that's the kind of person you believe yourself to be. What would happen if you allowed Jesus to tell you who you are instead?

Join Josh and Kit as they discuss the link between identity and behavior, and how you can gain more freedom.

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Sacred By Design Women's Retreat  | October 17th

Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole:

👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional
👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)