Ever wonder why your life looks the way it does, why people or things show up for you in certain ways? Well, the three B’s will help you understand how to implement a new way of thinking and creating on purpose. Our beliefs lead us to how we behave and that creates who we become and then our reality shows what those deeper beliefs really are and we either get more of what we want or more of what we don’t want!

When we think that we’ll be happier if we finally have some thing different in our lives, then we have right now, we set ourselves up to be the victim to be ungrateful, and to lose our presence in the life that we could be experiencing right now. As we embody what it would feel like if we were there instead of here, we begin to create what we truly desire. And then we manifest into our lives more of what we want.

It’s important to slow down and pay attention to what our body and spirit are trying to tell us. In this episode learn how to leverage your own inner guidance and power to create more of what you want and to become the version of you that you want to be forever.

Today I have hardly any voice but still wanted to show up with a couple words of wisdom that you can take with you this week.

From perfectionism and hiding to real raw acceptance. In this episode learn how we can become more of who we desire to be and who we are meant to be. No more needing outside approval or needing to only show our perfect pictures or our perfect self. It’s about being real and raw and not hiding who you truly are from the inside out.

When we want something to work out for us and we desire a specific result then maybe we need to first take a step back and choose to take action from a feeling of hope and faith. Faith requires us to be diligent, to move forward with desire and determination, believing that what we want is possible. Next time you want to see a specific outcome simply detach from the emotion of having it and from how it’s all going to work out and instead take action with faith and be open to all the possibilities.

What does it mean to have or be a friend? To have a best friend usually looks like a mutual agreement wherein two people love and support each other with compassion and understanding. A best friend gives grace and is someone we can talk to and who listens. To be your own best friend looks like knowing yourself and always being there for you. It looks like knowing all of your own hopes, dreams, fears, insecurities etc. you get to choose today to be your own best friend and my intent is that this episode helps you know how.

Have you ever had an emotion get the best of you and it almost feels like they’re driving your life? Imagine letting your 8 year old drive the car. Knowing he’s not tall enough, mature enough, old enough or knowledgable enough, yet you just sit in the passenger seat hoping you’ll get to your destination safely. This is what it looks like when we let certain emotions drive our actions. Gain some clarity and understand how to become more confident and empowered in your life by taking time with your emotions and choosing on purpose to be the driver of your life.

If we want to experience something new, have something new or do things in a new way it requires us to do things differently than we’ve always done them. It may look like getting a new hairstyle, or when you want new clothes, you try them on but instead this time, maybe try having a new way of looking at how those clothes look on you and instead of thinking your body is wrong and those clothes don’t fit you and they don’t look good on you. Turn it around and believe that the clothes are wrong and that you are interviewing them for your benefit. Changing the way, we think about things the way that we say things with her about ourselves or about others or to ourselves or to others creates a new way even new neural pathways in our brain so we can have a new experience..

Progress, growth change, and everything that we really want in life is on the other side of us just moving forward. Just taking one step at a time. Creating the life of your dreams, becoming the version of yourself that you really want to be will require some give and take. Sometimes we’ll have to give up comfort. Sometimes we’ll have to apologize. sometimes we’ll need to be more present with ourselves.. whatever this looks like for you always remember to keep moving forward.