Bei's Coffee Corner

When you are not sure if you want to do it or not, choose to do it. People normally regret what they didn't do not what they've done.

I used to like waiting for my friends to do everything. I of course expected them to do the same. Then I realized that everyone lived a life at a different pace. No one is responsible for anyone's decisions and moves. So if you have a plan to do something, share it with your friends and then go ahead.

Sometimes you think this is the most important thing in your whole life. If you don't achieve it, then it's gonna be the end of the world. But now when I look back, that thing might be really important at that time, but definitely not the only thing in my whole life. There is always something more important ahead of you.

I always think myself as an ordinary person until one day someone said: "You are so amazing! " That's when I realize that no one is ordinary. But most of our time is spent to be ordinary until we are not because of all the hard work we've done. It's accumulation. 

Sometimes you do things while thinking about yourself being a woman. Then you tell yourself, as a woman, I should or should not do this or that. But the truth is...nothing matters until you have the right attitude. You think you can do it because you can not because you are a woman. That's what I say here "Attitude is more important".

I stopped learning for a month, including reading, listening to podcasts, watching meaningful and educational videos. My brain now contains nothing...

Never stop learning!

I started with temporary positions, and it lasted for quite a few years. Now, I eventually got a permanent position. Rome is not built in a day.

It's hard to be yourself. But try to be comfortable with yourself. What other people think about you might have some sort of impact, but eventually it's you deciding whether you want to like yourself or not.

Life is full of ups and downs.