Bloom With Bridget

Welcome back to Bloom with Bridget!  In this week's episode, I wanted to let you all in on a real time experience and walk you through navigating a recent circumstance where things didn't go as planned for me and my family while on vacation. 

From sick kiddos that forced us to extend our stay, to flat tires and ending up having the gas station experience of a lifetime, I walk you through how to shift negative energy to a posture of gratitude and find some joy along the way.

Even in the storms, you can still spot the rainbow if you're looking for it. 

Tune in and enjoy! 

Bridget

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I'm a week late posting, but the message is still relevant. 

Today, it seems that we are more divided than ever before.  We are living is times of hatred and outrage that spurs so quickly.  Times where we're forced to pick a side rather than listen to understand.  Regardless of which side you're on, what your beliefs are, I hope you are reminded by these words as you listen to today's episode to be kind. 

Be kind because someone voices a different opinion than yours or stands up for something you disagree with, it doesn't mean they become your enemy.  At the end of the day, we can choose to believe what we believe to be the truth AND, we can also choose to be kind and show respect to others who think, act and look differently than we do. 

I have respect for those who stand up for what they believe is right and I want my girls to do the same.  But when it's done out of proving a point or out of anger, it's not going to unite anyone towards a common goal.  It's only going to divide.

People can be hurtful.  But I believe that most want to do good.  They want to show kindness and be open minded.  Look for someone on your path this week that you can show kindness too.  Remember, if you want to make waves, it starts with a ripple.  It starts small and grows.  Let's sow seeds of kindness wherever we go. 

I hope you enjoy today's episode,

Bridget

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If you're feeling depleted, exhausted and ragged, this episode will show you how to put a little more joy back in your day.  Intentionally!

Do you have a joy list?  If not, you will after today.  A joy list is simply that - a list that you've identified all of the things that bring you joy.  Once you have your list ready, we're going to put it into action and put it on your calendar. 

You get one shot at this life.  Make sure you're making the most of it and take control of what's getting your time and attention. 

When we fill our days with the things that make us happy and bring us joy, we often find that our work, our relationships, our outlook in general is more meaningful. 

So to start, I want you to listen to this episode and make a joy list.  And that will consist of all the things that bring you joy.  Whether that's a certain place, certian people or certain experience. 

Once you have your list, I want to task you with being intentional about adding these things to your calendar.  By making it common practice to add more joy to your day, your days get better, which means your weeks get better and soon your months and your years follow. 

You've got one shot at this beautiful life.  Make your today's count and your tomorrow's will thank you. 

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See you next week!

XO,
Bridget

Here's the link to the book I shared.  It's a great read with lots of sweetness!
The Lemonade Life

A previous episode on doing a calendar audit that would also be helpful can be found on Bloom With Bridget Episode 36, Where Are You Going

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As we get ready to celebrate Father's Day, I want to be honest and say that what is supposed to be a day of celebration is actually a hard day for me and I'm sure many others.  It's a day when we celebrate all of the dads and father figures in our lives, but it's one that I can't pick up the phone or stop by for a visit because I lost my dad to cancer 4 years ago. 

I don't have any tips or to do's in this episode, but what I do have is honest real conversation about losing someone and how that is a pain that never goes away.  And because it never goes away, it is now a part of me; a part of my story. 

This episode is intended to let you know that if you've lost someone that's dear to you, you're not alone.  This episode is meant to remind to celebrate.  Celebrate with those that are still with you and the ones that have gone before you because of the legacy that still lives on today. 

This episode is about letting the river lead you, rather than trying to steer the boat.  Let it take you where it will and let it heal you in the process.

XO,
- Bridget

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I went antiquing with my husband last week for my birthday and we stumbled across a beautiful piece of furniture that inspired this episode. 

The piece was gorgeous and had so much character and so much mystery all at the same time.  The store owner knew very little about the piece other than the fact that there wasn't another piece like it.  He was right, it was breathtaking.

So I started thinking about this antique in relation to our lives and the stories they tell.  What's our story?  How do the markings of the past shape who we are today?  All of the craftsmanship and time put into creating a piece like this, like us is so unique.  When you think about it this way, it's impossible not to be amazed at the level of detail that went into creating who you are today. 

All of the circumstances and people placed in our lives shape who we are today.  Our past may also shape us, but it doesn't define us.  Our lives are living stories.  They are all unique and different.  We were meant to stand out.  We are not an exact replica. 

Be so proud of who you are and the story about your life that has been written, because good or bad - it didn't happen to you, it happened FOR YOU for a reason! Don't blend in.  Be who you were created to be.  I promise, there's no on else like you in the world and that's amazing!!

- XO
Bridget

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Serendipity (n.) finding something good without looking for it. 

To build on last weeks episode of the types of people we need in our life, there are also those people who show up coincidentally, by chance or by happy accident.  I believe that there are no accidents but rather something called serendipity.  People are placed on our paths to guide us along, push us, encourage us, build us and grow us. 

This week, I'm joined by Jessica Boarman, a friend, co-worker and someone who was placed on my path on purpose.  In this episode, we chat about how God has used her life through experiences and her blog to touch the lives of others who are experiencing grief and loss among other things.  She shares how her hardships have allowed her to connect with others and give them hope.  It's the word "serendipity" that has showed up in her life and she knows that her purpose has meaning. 

I know you're going to enjoy this one and I hope you, yourself will look for ways to open your hands to receive more of these serendipitous moments and seek opportunity to say yes.

 You can find more of Jessica's wisdom at jessicaboarman.com to read her journal entries or follow along on Instagram at The Journals Blog for inspiration and insight. 

To hear her speak and many other amazing women at the Fuel Conference in August, get your ticket today!

XO,

Bridget
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I have been blessed to have a lot of amazing people in my life.  People that have helped me grow and others that have allowed me to push myself to be the type of person I want to become.  Upon reflecting on these individuals, I came up with a top five list of the types of people I need in my life and wanted to share with you.  Yours may look completely different than mine, so I encourage you to think about what you need in your life based on the direction you want to go.  Here's my 5:

1. Faithful Friend 
2. The Encourager 
3. Mentor 
4. Growth Friends 
5. Lifers 

In addition to identifying these, I've got three challenges for you after listening to this episode: 

• Think about the types of people you're surrounding yourself with and are these people conducive to your growth?
• Think about how you're showing up for others.  Are you being the type of friend to someone else that you expect them to be?
• Thank those people in your life who have impacted you.  Be grateful for what they've taught you.  

People matter.  Let them know!

XO,
Bridget

@liveyourlifeinbloom
Here's a link to snag a copy of Find Your People along with other resources.  You'll thank me later! 

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My girls love to play the game"Would You Rather."  Mostly it revolves around something disgusting you have to eat or ridiculous you have to do.  I love the way the game challenges you to decide which is the lesser of the two.  Do you ever do this with yourself?  Are you just being busy or are you actually seeing progress and results? 

A rocking horse is moving, but it's not going forward.    In this episode, I share some practical tools I use to ensure my work has meaning, purpose and intention.  If you're ready to take action and see results, it's time to press play on your progress!

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This episode is a "walk and talk!"  I am out on a walk, sharing my thoughts and feelings  about the holidays and how we celebrate while having a real conversation with you. 

Everyday is a reason to celebrate the special people in our lives.  We don't need a holiday as an excuse to celebrate them.  My grandmother once said that "Everyday you're here is Mother's Day." She taught me that it's the time we spend together that matters most.  More than any card or store bought gift. 

Every time you're together, be grateful you're together!

Think about the people around you and reach out to those who are alone who may not have someone to spend the holidays with.  Think about those who are hurting that don't have their loved ones with them to celebrate or are waiting to become a mom.  You don't have to give birth to have a motherly influence on the children around you. 

See everyday as a gift.  It's time to give more of our presence rather than making it about "presents." Don't live your life going from one thing to the next thing.  Live your life with purpose and intention.  Make sure those around you know how much they matter and celebrate them everyday every time you're together!

XO,

Bridget

@liveyourlifeinbloom

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It's planting season y'all!  We are talking gardening and planting seeds literally and figuratively in our lives.  Now that we've finally been able to get our garden in the ground, this episode has me reflecting on last year's harvest and deciding the seeds we plant and the blooms they will produce tomorrow.  We've learned a lot and are fine tuning what worked and what didn't. 

What type of seeds are you planting?  Are they preparing you for a plentiful harvest or are they rotting your soil?  This is true in ourselves and in others because the fruit we are producing is indicative of the seeds we are planting. 

Your grass is green where you water it.  Plant good seeds, grow good fruit.  Take time this week to think about what you're planting and all of those beautiful blooms you're going to see!

I can't wait for you to listen!

XO,
Bridget

@liveyourlifeinbloom

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