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Have you ever felt like the more you give in your marriage, the less you’re respected or valued?
Maybe you’ve been told that being a "good husband" or “good wife” means saying yes no matter what, sacrificing your needs, and keeping the peace at all costs. But instead of creating connection, it’s left you drained and resentful.
In this episode, we tackle the lie that boundaries are unloving or unbiblical. The truth? God designed boundaries. They’re not about pushing your spouse away, they’re about protecting what matters, honoring God, and creating safety so love can actually grow.
Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com
Free Leadership Self-Assessment and Guide for Men.
Join REFINED Adam's online men's community
Cara's Free Masterclass: 5 Ways to Communicate Your Needs to Your Husband Without Triggering Defensiveness or Shutdown
Join Cara's Restored membership for wives
Ready for more connection and healing in your marriage? Start our Healing Your Marriage Course
Connect with us on Instagram:
@cara.nitz
@faith.full.masculinity
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By Adam and Cara Nitz4.8
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Have you ever felt like the more you give in your marriage, the less you’re respected or valued?
Maybe you’ve been told that being a "good husband" or “good wife” means saying yes no matter what, sacrificing your needs, and keeping the peace at all costs. But instead of creating connection, it’s left you drained and resentful.
In this episode, we tackle the lie that boundaries are unloving or unbiblical. The truth? God designed boundaries. They’re not about pushing your spouse away, they’re about protecting what matters, honoring God, and creating safety so love can actually grow.
Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com
Free Leadership Self-Assessment and Guide for Men.
Join REFINED Adam's online men's community
Cara's Free Masterclass: 5 Ways to Communicate Your Needs to Your Husband Without Triggering Defensiveness or Shutdown
Join Cara's Restored membership for wives
Ready for more connection and healing in your marriage? Start our Healing Your Marriage Course
Connect with us on Instagram:
@cara.nitz
@faith.full.masculinity
Donate to support our work? Click here.
Send us a text

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