Have you ever felt like the more you give in your marriage, the less you’re respected or valued? 

Maybe you’ve been told that being a "good husband" or “good wife” means saying yes no matter what, sacrificing your needs, and keeping the peace at all costs. But instead of creating connection, it’s left you drained and resentful.

In this episode, we tackle the lie that boundaries are unloving or unbiblical. The truth? God designed boundaries. They’re not about pushing your spouse away, they’re about protecting what matters, honoring God, and creating safety so love can actually grow.

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