The Psychology world isn't telling you everything you need to know about the issues you're facing. I actually believe they leave out the most important part. The spiritual issues behind things like childhood trauma and the manifestations in adult life. The spiritual problem behind failed relationships and inability to maintain intimate connections.

In this episode we're going deeper into what comes through those "open doors" we talked about in Episode 1 of this season and how to know if you have a demon issue, not just an inner child problem!

Ephesians 6:12
For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.

2 Corinthians 10:5
We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

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It's a new season! Welcome to Season 10
This episode is broken up into two parts, the Standard Problem and the Spiritual Problem. In the first part, you will better understand how Attachment works, how your past affects your present, and what the essential parts are that need your focus in order to improve negative relationship patterns. You really can change what you may been experiencing all your life!

You either have an Insecure or Secure Attachment.

Insecure Attachers struggle with Anxiety and/or Avoidance in intimate relationships.

In the second half, I introduce the Spiritual Problem.

There is a spiritual association to the traumas we experience here in the physical world. Our souls are affected by emotional and mental pain.

We talk about spiritual attack / demonic intrusion that occurs when you have insecure relationship experiences, such as rejection and abandonment.

Ephesians 6:12

For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.

2 Corinthians 10:5

We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

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Season 9 Finale!

Let's go into the reality of this all-too-common and always-stressful paring: the Anxious-Preoccupied and the Dismissive-Avoidant

I'll define the terms, break down what most people THINK this pairing is and what it ACTUALLY is, and I'll share what I think you should do about it!

See you in season 10 :)

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Ashley completed 1-on-1s and the Reattach Coaching Program!

One of the many things I love about Ashley and this episode is that her trigger into healing her codependency occurred with a platonic friend. Many others (including me!) have experienced this with friends and it's awesome to hear someone talking openly about it, since most of the time we're referring to romantic partners.

Listen to her talk about the "DREAD" she felt in this relationship and how she learned a framework for letting go that she is able to use in day-to-day life.

Ashley has embraced the warm parts of her but has put boundaries in place to protect those same parts. She can be herself while not being taking advantage of or feeling resentful towards others. Success!

I hope you enjoy the episode. If you want to do what she did, join us in Reattach!

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We love a Q&A! I'm helping you with...

• Shifting from Anxious to Secure Attachment
• Healing Love Addiction
• What to do with someone who switches up on you
• Understanding Stonewalls
• Reconnecting
• How to deal with people who keep reminding you of your mistakes

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10 ways to show up as more Emotionally Safe for Better Outcomes!

You’re going to want your notepad out for this one.

The unedited version of this podcast is double the time and had me cracking up, so if you want to join us for Live Recordings, join us on Patreon! $5 / month tier

It’s also a great way to give back to the podcast on the low and on the regular… if you’re regularly getting better because of it!

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My favorite dating coach has finally graced the podcast! Alison - @alignwithalison - is giving you her best tips on:

• Putting yourself out there
• Believing what people tell you
• What kinds of questions to ask Potential Matches
• What to do with the Submission word
• Do "the butterflies" matter?

Follow her on IG here: @alignwithalison and check her services out!

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Trust is on the GROUND FLOOR of healthy relationships! When the foundation is weak, everything else falls apart. Here's some insight into what to do about ONGOING  relationships that have experienced attachment wounds / broken trust.

• How to break from Denial and Clear Confusion
• The Hyper-independence to Co-dependence Spectrum
• The importance of Interdependence

Patreon - Live Q&A re: Emotional Safety on Sunday 3/26 at 6 PM EST

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I worked with Alexandria 1-on-1 and in the Reattach Coaching Group. Then, she came to the Reattach Retreat in Atlanta - December 2022. Now, she is serving on the Reattach Team, helping others through the Reattach Program (IT'S BACK Y'ALL!) and planning the Reattach 2023 Retreat!

This is what Healing sounds like :)

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Emotional Safety is a 3-part series recorded Live on Zoom, available for Reattachers on Patreon! You can join us - click here.

-What is an Emotionally Safe person?
-What happens when Attachment Wounds aren’t attended to?
-Understand Insecure Attachment through the lens of crying babies
-The link between the Past and Present
-How you can start breaking Barriers to Vulnerability down

The Video Replays are available on Patreon for 30 days, so if you join late, you can still get access to the videos.

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