Ever feel like you’re trapped in a push-pull dance, where you crave deep connection but instinctively push it away when it gets too real? Welcome to the world of the Fearful-Avoidant attachment style. In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of wanting closeness while being terrified of it. Discover why you might be caught in this confusing cycle and how to break free from the patterns that hold you back. Whether you’re navigating this yourself or trying to understand someone close to you, this episode will open your eyes to the hidden fears that drive the Fearful-Avoidant mind. Get ready for a candid, eye-opening conversation that just might change the way you see yourself—and your relationships—forever.

Lets keep the conversation going, my beautiful friends. I would love to hear your thoughts, take aways, questions and/or stories over on the socials. You can connect with me on IG @coachingwithraynea or on FB.

Wanting to know your attachment style? Here is the link:

⁠⁠⁠https://yourpersonality.net/attachment/⁠⁠⁠

Books on Attachment:

Attached by Dr. Amir Levine

The New Rules of Attachment by Dr. Judy Ho

Anxiously Attached by Jessica Baum, LMHC

The Anxious Hearts Guide by Rikki Cloys

**You can find these books on Amazon**

Creators on social media that I found helpful on my journey:

Dr. Sarah Hensley (I watch her on TikTok, but I believe she's on all platforms now)

Jbirdfit (TikTok, IG, Youtube)

Natashavctoria (TikTok)

Anxious Hearts Guide (TikTok and IG) (She was anxious and her partner was dismissive avoidant and they now have a healthy relationship)

In this episode, Tangled in Love: Navigating the Emotional Highs and Lows of Anxious Attachment, we’re diving deep into the world of anxious attachment—the rollercoaster of emotions, the constant need for reassurance, and the fear of abandonment that can leave you feeling overwhelmed. If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking every text, craving closeness, or fearing that you’re just too much for others to handle, this episode is for you. We’ll explore why these feelings arise, how they impact your relationships, and most importantly, how you can start untangling the knots that keep you stuck. Whether you’re struggling with anxious attachment yourself or trying to understand someone who is, this conversation will offer you the empathy and insights you need to feel seen, understood, and less alone. Let’s navigate these highs and lows together, and find a path to healthier, more secure connections.

Lets keep the conversation going, my beautiful friends. I would love to hear your thoughts, take aways, questions and/or stories over on the socials. You can connect with me on IG @coachingwithraynea or on FB.

Resources for the anxious attachment style:

Anxiously Attached by Jessica Baum

The Anxious Hearts Guide by Rikki Cloos

In this episode, Behind the Walls: Understanding the Heart of a Dismissive Avoidant, we’re peeling back the layers of what it means to love or be loved by someone with a dismissive avoidant attachment style. If you’ve ever felt like someone is pushing you away just when things start to feel close, this episode is for you. We'll dive into why people with this attachment style tend to keep their guard up, what’s really going on behind that emotional wall, and how to build bridges of understanding. Whether you identify with being dismissive avoidant yourself, or you’re trying to better connect with someone who does, this episode will help you see past the defenses with compassion and clarity. Let’s uncover the heart behind the distance, together.

Lets keep the conversation going, my beautiful friends. I would love to hear your thoughts, take aways, questions and/or stories over on the socials. You can connect with me on IG @coachingwithraynea or on FB.

In this episode we're diving into what it means to have a secure attachment style. Imagine feeling confident and safe in your relationships, knowing you can trust and be trusted without second-guessing everything. We’ll chat about how secure attachment develops, what it looks like in everyday life, and how it can help you build strong, healthy connections. Whether you’re curious about your own attachment style or just want to better understand the people around you, this episode will give you some valuable insights—like we're just two friends figuring it out together.

Lets keep the conversation going, my beautiful friends. I would love to hear your thoughts, take aways, questions and/or stories over on the socials. You can connect with me on IG @coachingwithraynea or on FB.

Wanting to know your attachment style? Here is the link:

⁠⁠https://yourpersonality.net/attachment/⁠⁠

Books on Attachment:

Attached by Dr. Amir Levine

The New Rules of Attachment by Dr. Judy Ho

You can find both books on Amazon

Welcome to the first episode of our series on attachment theory! In this episode, we're getting to the heart of what makes our relationships tick. We'll chat about where attachment theory comes from, break down its main ideas, and see how it shapes the way we connect with others. Whether you've never heard of this or are just starting to learn about this, we've got something for you. We'll taIlk about how different attachment styles can show up in your life and relationships, and share some practical tips to help you build stronger, healthier connections. So, grab a comfy seat, and let's dive in together!

Lets keep the conversation going, my beautiful friends. I would love to hear your thoughts, take aways, questions and/or stories over on the socials. You can connect with me on IG @coachingwithraynea or on FB.

Wanting to know your attachment style? Here is the link:

⁠https://yourpersonality.net/attachment/⁠

Books on Attachment:

Attached by Dr. Amir Levine

The New Rules of Attachment by Dr. Judy Ho

You can find both books on Amazon

One thing I have learned is the life will keep lifing, but in doing hard things you are becoming strong and resilient. You are becoming a person of incredible character. Believing in you!

If you'd like to connect with me further you can find me on IG @coachngwithraynea.

In our season finale, we wrap up an incredible journey of emotions, experiences, and shared humanity. From the laughter that lightened our hearts to the tears that marked our shared grief and wounds, we've traveled a path of healing together. This episode is a reflection on the grace we must afford ourselves and each other, acknowledging that healing is not linear—sometimes we take two steps forward and three steps back, and that's okay. As we bid farewell for now, let us hold onto the lessons, the love, and the moments that have brought us closer. Join me as I share my final thoughts, stories, and the promise of continuation on this healing journey. See you on August 7th, as we pause to breathe, reflect, and prepare for what's next on our path to healing.

If you'd like to connect further you can find me on Instagram @coachingwithraynea.

In this profoundly moving episode of our podcast, I sit down with Lesa Brackbill, a mother who transformed her unimaginable grief into a powerful force for change. Lesa shares the heart-wrenching story of her daughter's battle with Krabbe disease, a rare and terminal genetic disorder that was diagnosed when her daughter was just five months old. Despite the devastating loss of her daughter at only 20 months, Lesa's story is not just one of sorrow, but also of resilience, love, and a determined fight for the future health of newborns everywhere.

Lesa takes us through her family's journey, detailing the early days of her daughter's life, the moment they received the diagnosis, and how they navigated the challenges that came with Krabbe disease. She speaks candidly about the emotional toll, the impact on her family, and the moments of joy and love that shone brightly even in the darkest times.

Beyond sharing her personal story, Lesa discusses her passionate advocacy for newborn screenings, emphasizing the critical importance of early detection in saving lives and improving outcomes for children with genetic disorders. Her work aims to ensure that no other family has to endure the pain of losing a child to a disease that could be detected and potentially treated if caught early through newborn screening.

This episode is not only a tribute to the strength of a mother's love but also a call to action for listeners to support and learn about the importance of newborn screenings. Join us for an emotional, enlightening, and inspirational conversation with Lesa Brackbill, a remarkable advocate who is making a difference in the world, one newborn at a time.

If you would like to read Lesa's book, Even So Joy you can find it on Amazon. You can also connect further with her on Instagram @evensojoy.

As we dive into the final episode of Bryant's story, I'll share with you the remarkable moments that define his young life and how, even at such a tender age, he taught us about faith, hope, and the beauty of finding comfort in believing in something greater than us. It's a story that's as much about the innocence of childhood as it is about the journey to eternity.

Thank you for allowing me to share my precious boy with you.

If you would like to connect further you can find me on Instagram @coachingwithraynea.

Hello, my beautiful friends. Today I share the second part of Bryant's story. I talk about what it was like to wrestle with so many emotions while trying to navigate our new normal the seemed to be ever changing. The difficulty of realizing as a parent all you want to do it fix things for your children and knowing you are unable to save your son from this awful disease or save your children from the heartbreak of watching this disease steal their baby brother from them.

If you would like to connect further you can find me on Instagram @coachingwithraynea.