In this engaging conversation, Tim and Jay delve into the world of underwear, exploring personal experiences, influences, and the journey of self-acceptance as an underwear lover. Jay shares his early influences, the excitement of purchasing his first pairs, and the confidence boost that comes from wearing different styles. They discuss the importance of community, the challenges of coming out as an underwear enthusiast, and how underwear can impact one’s confidence in various aspects of life. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of engaging with brands and the significance of being open and honest in discussions about underwear.

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In this unfiltered and deeply personal Editor’s Note, UNB Tim catches listeners up on a chaotic and emotionally draining month. From battling a resurgence of migraines to grieving the sudden loss of a friend, this candid episode offers a behind-the-scenes look into the life of the man behind UNB and the Brief Talk Podcast. Despite setbacks—including the unfortunate cancellation of the August Chicago meet-up—Tim shares his renewed focus on creating meaningful content, exciting plans for new podcast series, and ways listeners can get involved.

Whether you’re a longtime fan or a new listener, this episode is a powerful reminder that community matters and that building a safe, inclusive space around underwear, spandex, and self-expression is more important than ever.

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In this powerful and thought-provoking episode, UNB Tim is joined by Scott, a straight man and long-time thong and spandex wearer, for a deep dive into masculinity, societal expectations, and the uneven playing field between gay and straight men when it comes to self-expression. Together, they unpack the cultural double standards that dictate what straight men can and can’t wear, how those rules stem from patriarchal control, and the emotional journey many men go through in embracing their authentic selves.

Scott opens up about his journey from high school football lineman and military Blackhawk pilot to body-positive advocate and unapologetic spandex-wearing gym-goer. He shares his near-death experience that led him to reevaluate his relationship with masculinity and stop living for others’ approval. This conversation touches on the societal discomfort with men expressing sexiness, why straight men face harsher criticism for non-traditional clothing choices, and how control, not attire, lies at the heart of these reactions.

Whether you’re gay, straight, or somewhere in between, this episode is a wake-up call to examine how masculinity is policed—and how liberating it is to break free from those constraints.

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“Men fear the most the things that set them free.” – Scott

“It’s not the thong they’re offended by—it’s what the thong represents to them.” – UNB Tim

“You’re only as manly as the last thing you did. So if you’re not doing manly things, people start to question who you are.” – Scott

“Straight men want to be in control of everything in their life… and when they can’t control another man, it terrifies them.” – Scott

“What you wear doesn’t make you a man. But needing to control what other men wear? That says more about you than them.” – Scott

“If you look someone in the eye with conviction and show them you’re not afraid, bullies back down. They don’t know what to do with that energy.” – Scott

“Most people are too busy with their own lives to care what underwear you’re wearing. The fear is in your head.” – Scott

“You may lose some friends, but you’ll gain better ones. Burn out the deadwood. What you gain on the other side is worth it.” – Scott

“This isn’t just about underwear. This is about saving men from themselves—and the violence that grows from unchecked masculinity.” – Scott

“For anyone wanting to explore this more, read For the Love of Men by Liz Plank. It shifted my entire mindset.” – Scott

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In this engaging conversation, Unb Tim interviews Stevie, also known as Undies Cub, exploring his journey of self-discovery, body image, and confidence through the lens of underwear culture. They discuss the challenges of navigating relationships, the double standards in swimwear, and the importance of self-expression in a world that often imposes restrictive norms. Stevie shares his experiences of embracing his identity and inspiring others to feel confident in their own skin, regardless of societal expectations. The conversation highlights the need for more open discussions about body positivity and the celebration of diverse expressions of masculinity.

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes Cisco from Yocisco, a brand that originated as an online magazine for gay men of color and evolved into a successful underwear line. Cisco shares his journey from being a go-go dancer to launching his brand, discussing the challenges of representing people of color in fashion, the importance of body diversity, and the current trends in men’s underwear. The conversation also touches on masculinity, gender expression, and the need for inclusivity in the fashion industry. Cisco emphasizes the brand’s commitment to confidence and representation, while also sharing insights from his experiences in the go-go dancing scene.

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim and Stephen delve into the complexities of masculinity as portrayed online. They discuss the pressures of maintaining a masculine persona, the impact of social media on self-identity, and the fantasies that often accompany these portrayals. The conversation explores the evolution of masculinity, the reality behind the images, and the societal expectations that shape how individuals express their identities. They also touch on the importance of authenticity and the challenges of navigating personal and public personas in a world that often conflates the two.

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host UNB Tim interviews David, one of the authors of the Manatinga book, which focuses on the cultural significance and history of thongs. The conversation explores the journey of writing the book, the challenges of masculinity associated with wearing thongs, and how they can serve as a form of self-expression. The authors aim to break down prejudices surrounding thongs and encourage men to embrace this style of underwear as part of their identity. The discussion also touches on the research process behind the book and the importance of wearing thongs with pride. In this engaging conversation, Felix and UNB Tim delve into the themes of sexuality, the aesthetics of thong photography, community engagement among thong lovers, the importance of quality in underwear production, and the future of their book project. They discuss the Kinsey Report’s findings on male sexuality, the positive feedback from contributors to their book, and the necessity of high-quality materials in underwear manufacturing. The conversation emphasizes the normalization of discussions around thongs and sexuality, aiming to create a more inclusive community.

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In this episode, Tim sits down with Stephen, the founder of Classicfella, a men’s underwear brand rooted in tradition but updated for today’s discerning wearer. Based out of Atlanta and made in Italy, Classicfella takes iconic pieces like white briefs, tanks, and boxers and gives them a refined touch with high-quality fabrics and thoughtful design. Stephen shares the inspiration behind the brand—his transition into midlife, a desire for maturity in his wardrobe, and the gap he saw between basic bulk-store briefs and ultra-luxury options.

Listeners will learn about the design process, the importance of fabric and fit, and how feedback from customers is shaping the brand’s next evolution—including new sizing, updated materials, and tagless options. The conversation dives into design decisions like the importance of waistband aesthetics, the relevance of classic styles today, and why even a button-fly brief could have a comeback.

Classicfella isn’t just recreating the past—it’s reimagining it with purpose, quality, and authenticity.

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Visit Classicfella.com (that’s fella with an “a”!) for timeless briefs, boxers, tanks, and more. Get 10% off your first order and volume discounts when you buy multiple pairs.

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, hosts Unb Tim, Jay, and Eric dive deep into the world of jockstraps, exploring their evolution from athletic wear to fashionable and kink options. They discuss personal preferences, the resurgence of jocks in everyday life, and the impact of cultural shifts on men’s underwear choices. The conversation highlights favorite brands, the role of jocks in the workplace, and predictions for the future of jocks in men’s fashion. In this engaging conversation, the panel discusses the evolving landscape of men’s underwear, particularly jockstraps, and their growing acceptance in mainstream fashion. They explore the influence of media on the popularity of jockstraps, the importance of visibility in locker rooms, and recommendations for starter jocks for those new to this style. The discussion highlights the need for more representation and acceptance of jockstraps in everyday wear, emphasizing that they can be both functional and fashionable.

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Hey guys, this is just a brief update on everything that’s going on in my life and all the craziness that’s happening and why the podcast are going to be delayed. It’s been a insane week and I go to all the details of what’s going on in my life and I hope you’ll listen and if you can help in anyway, please do and reach out And I think you for all that you do for me

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