📌 Episode Summary:
In this episode of Bright Conversations, host Lisa Kathman sits down with “power SLP couple” Jessie Ginsberg (@sensoryslp) and Chris Wenger (@speechdude) for a candid, insightful, and often hilarious look at what neurodiversity-affirming practice really means—at home, in early intervention, and in school-based IEP meetings.
Jessie shares the moment her worldview shifted when an autistic SLP challenged her use of person-first language, explaining how identity-first perspectives reshaped her understanding of autism as identity, not something to separate or “fix.”
From the school lens, Chris exposes the hidden cost of compliance-based goals—planned ignoring, forced eye contact, eliminating echolalia—and offers practical reframes that support regulation, safety, and authentic connection. Together, they talk about neurodiversity in their own home with five boys, the shifts they’re seeing in the next generation of SLPs, and how clinicians can create goals that don’t require students to mask or become someone they’re not.
👤 Guest Bios:
Jessie Ginsberg, M.S., CCC-SLP is known as The Sensory SLP, a leader in sensory-informed and neurodiversity-affirming practice. She co-hosts The Neuroaffirm Show, runs Neuroaffirm Academy, and creates learning experiences that help SLPs rethink behavior, regulation, and identity.
Chris Wenger, M.S., CCC-SLP, aka Speech Dude, is a school-based SLP, consultant, and national presenter known for bringing humor, honesty, and classroom-tested neuroaffirming approaches to teams across the country. He helps SLPs reframe behavior, write more supportive IEP goals, and build strong connections with students and staff.
🗣️ Topics We Cover in This Episode:
Why neuroaffirming practice is personal for Jessie & Chris as parents and clinicians
Identity-first language: what autistic people say and why it matters
The hidden cost of compliance-based goals: eye contact, still bodies, eliminating scripts
IEP language that keeps meetings student-centered and strength-based
Echolalia, scripting, and why these are connection bids, not behaviors to extinguish
The “wedding seating chart” analogy for outdated social skills goals
Hopeful shifts in grad programs and early-career SLPs
What neuroaffirming actually means (spoiler: it’s not “no expectations”)
Where to learn more: The Neuroaffirm Show, Neuroaffirm Academy, and social channels
📚 Learning Objectives: By listening to this episode, you’ll be able to:
✅ Describe how neurodiversity-affirming practices can be integrated across home, clinic, and school settings
✅ Explain the differences between person-first and identity-first language and why many autistic individuals prefer identity-first terminology
✅ Identify compliance-based goals and contrast them with neuroaffirming goals that reduce masking, anxiety, and burnout
💬 Key Takeaways / Quotes:
“If we’re really putting people first, we have to actually listen to the people we’re talking about.”
“Sometimes those compliance-based social goals are the very thing creating anxiety.”
“We don’t need you to think about high school today. We need 15 minutes of connection today.”
“Neurodiversity-affirming doesn’t mean no expectations; it means the supports match the neurology.”
🔗 Resources & Where to Find the Guests:
Jessie Ginsberg – @sensoryslp
Chris Wenger – @speechdude
Neuroaffirm: The Neuroaffirm Show + Neuroaffirm Academy
SLP Summit – Free online conference held each January and July: bethebrightest.com