If you’re the eldest daughter, the overachiever, or the woman who’s always been “the responsible one,” this video explains why you’re burned out even if you love your job and look successful on paper.

Eldest daughter syndrome is a major but rarely named cause of burnout in high-achieving women. From a young age, eldest daughters are conditioned to over-function, manage emotions, anticipate needs, and carry responsibility that was never theirs. That conditioning doesn’t disappear it follows you into your career, leadership roles, and workplace dynamics, where it’s often rewarded and exploited.

In this episode, I break down how eldest daughter energy shows up as workplace burnout, people-pleasing at work, chronic overworking, hyper-independence, and emotional labor in corporate environments. This isn’t laziness or a lack of boundaries. It’s a nervous system pattern rooted in early responsibility and reinforced by hustle culture.

You’ll learn:

-What eldest daughter syndrome really is and how it leads to burnout

-Why eldest daughters are more prone to emotional exhaustion and career burnout

-How over-responsibility turns into people-pleasing and perfectionism at work

-The difference between healthy leadership and self-abandonment

-How to detach from over-functioning without quitting your job

If you’re constantly tired, mentally overwhelmed, emotionally responsible for everyone else, and questioning why success feels so heavy, this video is for you.

This conversation is especially for corporate women, leaders, mothers, and high performers experiencing burnout, nervous system dysregulation, and chronic stress at work.

Ready to stop carrying what was never yours?

Burnout Reset Lab is a 6-week burnout recovery program for high-achieving women who can’t quit their jobs but need sustainable nervous system regulation, boundaries, and relief. Starts Late January.

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If you’re a woman in your 30s who feels desperate to quit your job, pivot your career, or start over, this video breaks down why that urge is often burnout, not intuition. The 30s “career crisis” so many millennial women experience is usually a sign of corporate burnout and a dysregulated nervous system, not a calling to blow up your life. In this episode, we talk about burnout vs intuition, nervous system regulation, workplace burnout, and what to do before you quit your job, so you can find clarity, set boundaries, and recover from burnout without making panic-based decisions...pt 2 next week.

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If you’ve ever felt way too invested in your job or like your self-worth, identity, and sense of safety are all tied up in your performance. This episode is your wake-up call. As your Burnout Bestie, I’m breaking down why you’re so emotionally attached to your job, how that attachment formed, and what you can do today to start detaching in a healthy, grounded way.

We’re talking:

-Why work feels like a relationship you can’t leave

-The hidden emotional contracts you’ve made with your job

-How childhood patterns + corporate culture feed your attachment

-How to reclaim your identity outside of productivity

-Practical ways to detach so you can rest, restore, and breathe again

If your brain has been saying “just work harder” for years… this episode is going to hit different.

Listen and then tell me in the comments: what part of your job feels the hardest to emotionally let go of?

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Corporate life was supposed to be a tool—not your whole identity. Yet so many ambitious professionals find themselves drained, burnt out, and wondering why their 9–5 feels like it’s swallowing their whole existence. In this episode, we unpack how corporate culture exasperates old wounds like people-pleasing, perfectionism, and over-identifying with your job title.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of overwork, tied your worth to productivity, or believed you had to sacrifice yourself for “success,” this conversation is for you. We’re pulling back the curtain on how corporate became a trap, and how you can take your power back.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

• How corporate culture feeds on people-pleasing, perfectionism, and burnout
• Why your job should be a tool for your life—not your entire personality
• Ways to start detaching your self-worth from your career while staying ambitious

This podcast is your corner if you’ve ever searched:

• “Why does corporate feel soul-sucking?”
• “How to stop tying identity to work”
• “Burnout recovery for ambitious professionals”
• “How to set boundaries at work without guilt”
• “Why corporate culture is toxic”

Your career doesn’t define you—let’s talk about how to break free from the corporate burnout loop and build a life that actually feels good.

Subscribe for more on burnout recovery, boundaries, and building confidence without the bossbabe pressure.

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We need to talk about The Devil Wears Prada — not as a fashion fairytale, but as a cautionary tale for corporate women everywhere.

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the moment Andy Sachs stopped chasing journalism and started chasing approval. This isn’t just about bad boyfriends or flaky friends — it’s about what happens when you lose yourself to a job that demands you become someone else to survive.

Here’s what we get into:

-Why the “glow-up” wasn’t self-driven — it was performance for proximity to power

-The real villain: a workplace culture that rewards burnout and punishes boundaries

-How we confuse ambition with identity — and forget to ask what we actually want

-What this movie teaches us about the early signs of overwork, over-functioning, and disappearing into your job

1. Join Camp Boundary Builder — where we undo corporate conditioning and rewrite your definition of success.

2. Follow along on TikTok @magneticmilkshakes for more hot takes on boundaries, burnout, and reclaiming your peace.

3. Sign up for the Burnout Bestie newsletter https://sylviabrands.substack.com/ for weekly support in your inbox.

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Are you exhausted from trying to be the "good girl" all the time? This episode is for the people pleasers, perfectionists, comparison queens, and chameleons who are quietly burning out while trying to be liked, needed, and approved of.

Inside this episode of Magnetic Milkshakes, we unpack how early praise conditions us to prioritize approval over authenticity. I’m getting into the signs you might be addicted to being liked and the subtle ways we trade our truth, needs, and even energy for external validation.

In this episode, we explore:

The emotional cost of chronic likability

Why perfectionism and comparison are coping tools, not personality traits

How the "good girl" narrative leads to burnout, boundary issues, and identity confusion

What it means to live as a chameleon instead of a fully expressed version of yourself

This one’s raw, real, and will make you rethink why you’re always the “nice one.”

Camp Boundary Builder begins in August!

Follow me on Instagram @thesylviabrands + TikTok @magneticmilkshakes

Your burnout bestie,

Sylvia Brands

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5 Deep Signs You’re Experiencing Burnout (And What to Do About It) | Burnout Symptoms & Recovery for Women

Are you struggling with burnout and don’t even realize it? In this episode of Magnetic Milkshakes, we explore 5 deep and surprising signs of burnout—especially the kind that affects millennial women, working moms, and high-achieving professionals. These are not the typical burnout symptoms you hear about, like being tired or stressed. These are emotional, internal, and deeply personal signs you might be ignoring.

Whether you're feeling disconnected, emotionally numb, resentful of things you used to love, or stuck in people-pleasing mode, this episode will help you recognize the hidden signs of emotional and mental burnout and give you gentle, supportive next steps.

In this burnout recovery episode, we cover:

-What burnout really feels like for high-functioning women

-5 hidden signs of burnout that no one talks about

-How burnout shows up in motherhood, work, and relationships

-The difference between needing rest vs. needing reconnection

-How to heal from burnout without quitting your life

-Nervous system regulation tips for burnout recovery

-Emotional burnout symptoms and what they mean

-How to reconnect with your needs when you feel empty or overworked

If you’ve been Googling things like:

“Am I burned out or just tired?”

“How to recover from emotional burnout”

“Signs of burnout for working moms”

“Symptoms of burnout for women”

“High-functioning burnout recovery tips”

“How to reset after burnout”

“What does burnout really feel like?”

…then this episode will feel like a warm exhale and a reality check.

Subscribe for weekly episodes on emotional wellness, burnout recovery, boundaries, confidence, and lifestyle coaching for ambitious women who are done with hustle culture. Follow on Tik Tok, IG, and substack!

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Podcast & YouTube Episode by Magnetic Milkshakes

Think confidence is all about faking it 'til you make it? Think again.

In this episode of Magnetic Milkshakes, we dive into what no one tells you about building real confidence—the kind that doesn’t crumble under pressure. Using the stories of Catherine Paiz and Jennifer Affleck as case studies, we break down the myths, mindset shifts, and invisible work it takes to walk confidently in your purpose.

Here’s what we cover:

• The 3 truths about confidence that no one’s talking about (no fluff, all depth)
• How your inner critic and self-trust play into long-term confidence
• Catherine Paiz’s interview on Call Her Daddy with Alex Cooper shows the quiet evolution teaches us about identity and healing.
• How Jennifer Affleck on The Secret Life of Mormon Wives displayed heavy characteristics of people pleasing which resulted in heavier consequences.

Whether you're a millennial mom, a Type-A go-getter, or feeling stuck in boss babe burnout, this episode gives you a refreshing, raw perspective on embodied confidence that lasts.

Subscribe for more episodes on confidence, boundaries, self-trust, and radical self-acceptance. New episodes every Monday! And a blog every Thursday

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Is overthinking ruining your peace? What if it’s actually trying to help you? In this episode of Magnetic Milkshakes we reframe the idea that overthinking is a flaw. Instead, we explore how it’s often your brain’s way of signaling a need — clarity, reassurance, safety, or decision-making power.

Tune in as we dive into:

• The hidden wisdom behind overthinking
• How to decode what your brain is actually asking for
• Why shaming yourself for overthinking makes it worse
• Practical ways to shift from spiraling to self-support

Whether you're an anxious thinker, a perfectionist, or someone who gets stuck in analysis paralysis — this episode is your gentle wake-up call.

Overthinking isn’t bad. It’s information. Learn how to listen better.

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On this episode of Magnetic Milkshakes, guess what!? It's our world premiere lol.

In this episode we discuss:

• The unlearning of performative living, why we do it, why we engage in it, and why we stay in the cycle on loop.
• Why it's so in our nature to perform?
• Meghan Markle appearing on a podcast episode discussing that she's done playing the prove it game, and why.
• Confidence A Toda Madre is now Magnetic Milkshakes, and why.
• The intentionality and mission of Magnetic Milkshakes.

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Tik-Tok: @yourburnoutbestiee