Burnt Pancakes: Momversations | Conversations for Imperfect Moms, Chats About Mom Life & Interviews with Real Mamas

Get ready to be transported to a world where holidays are celebrated all year round and farm life is the norm. Our guest for this episode is Christy, the incredibly spirited mom behind the Instagram account @theholidayhouse6. Living on a historic farm that's been in her husband's family since 1920, Christy imparts her day-to-day life in a house full of love, history and a whole lot of farm chores that her kids can't get enough of. From bottle-feeding calves to maintaining a house built in 1867, the stories from her life will surely leave you fascinated and intrigued. Hear about her unique way of celebrating the holidays all year round and the exciting plans she has for the upcoming season.

We also venture into Christy's delightful holiday traditions, the ones that make her house a holiday house. Imagine a home filled with the aroma of freshly baked cookies, the laughter from movie nights and the anticipation of marshmallow ghost cups. Sounds enchanting, doesn't it? It’s not just that- we also explore her beloved holiday snacks. Monkey bread, charcuterie boards, and breakfast pizzas, anyone? In the mix of all this, Christy offers some invaluable advice on enjoying the holidays. She emphasizes on the importance of simplicity, cherishing one's own traditions and making lasting memories with family, even in the throes of the holiday madness. So, tune in, get inspired, and embrace the holiday spirit with us in this heartwarming episode with Christy.

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You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

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Ever dreamt about spicing up your Christmas celebration in a unique and sexy way? Well, guess what? This week on the Burnt Pancakes podcast, we’ve got the delightful Meghan back with us, unveiling her exciting concept – the "12 Sexy Days of Christmas"! It's all about infusing a touch of romance and excitement into your festive season, making your partner feel cherished and adored, and hey – it doesn't even have to be about sexy gifts, it's adaptable and won't cost you a dime. We assure you, this fun exercise will not only make your holiday season extra sparkly but also strengthen your bond with your partner. 

We also steer the conversation towards the joy of shared activities and mutual encouragement, reflecting on how these moments of togetherness can foster relationship growth. Meghan's innovative Christmas idea aims to uplift the spirit of the season and make it the most wonderful time of the year for your husbands. So, whether you are aiming for a PG-rated celebration or a more intimate one, join us for this episode brimming with merriment, inspiration, and a sprinkle of sexy holiday spirit! But be warned, this one's not for the little ears! Let's make this Christmas unforgettable, shall we? Share your experiences with my on Instagram, and let's spread the holiday cheer!

Get a copy of Meghan's 12 "Sexy" Days of Christmas HERE: https://mailchi.mp/burntpancakes/12daysofchristmas

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You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

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Ever thought about how you could transform the festive season into an extraordinary gift-giving experience? Well, my friend Megan and I promise to show you how. We are letting you in on our secrets about navigating through Christmas gift giving, from the number of presents to get for the kids, and who should get the credits for the big gift. We even throw in a hilarious piece about a funny mug with a cheeky message.

We don't stop at the gift-giving logistics - we explore deeper. Megan introduces the incredible concept of a kindness calendar. She explains how this amazing tool can teach kids valuable lessons about empathy and selflessness during the holiday season. We then discuss how to ensure your gifts outlast the festive season, sharing some favorite gift ideas that have been popular in Megan's home. We top it off by talking about our all-time favorite Christmas book and the importance of investing in gifts that last.

Navigating the gift-giving world isn't always smooth sailing - there are dilemmas. One of them is the challenge of finding the perfect gift for mom or coming up with a suitable wish list. Megan and I share our personal experiences and tips on how to overcome these challenges. We underscore the importance of intentionality in gift giving, suggesting ideas beyond traditional presents, such as giving cash or spending quality time together. Tune in to this fun and enlightening episode for unique insights into making your Christmas gift giving a memorable experience.

Get Meghan's December KINDNESS CALENDAR HERE

Gifts Mentioned in this Episode:
Brio Trains
MagnaTiles
Bruder
Catan Jr.
Outfoxed
Race to the Treasure

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📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

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Feeling the weight of mom guilt? Join me in a heartfelt conversation with Rachel Choate, a life coach dedicated to moms of young ones just like you. Rachel's own journey from the corporate world to motherhood and now life coaching is an inspiration to all mothers feeling overwhelmed by the unspoken challenges of motherhood. Tune in as we discuss societal pressures of being a successful mom and strategies to combat the guilt that comes with not meeting those expectations.

As many of us know, parenting is not just about managing our children, but also our feelings and emotions. Rachel and I share our experiences and discuss how being intentional with things like TV time can transform it into a positive family activity. We also shed light on how to manage those feelings of guilt that creep up after a parent’s temper has been lost.

Finally, we dive into the importance of seeking help and acknowledging the emotional triggers in our day-to-day lives. We discuss how the noise of life can trigger certain emotions and share scientific data that explains why. We also discuss how to show our kids that we, too, have emotions and how to navigate them. You don't have to do this alone, join us and let's navigate motherhood together. Tune in to find out more about Rachel and the logistics of her life coaching sessions for moms.

You can find Rachael Choate on Instagram at: @rachaelchoate_

Get her Joy List HERE

Schedule a FREE 20 minute coaching call HERE

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Have you ever felt the weight of perfection, pressing on your shoulders? What if you could lighten that load without losing what truly matters? Join me, Katie Fenske, as I narrate my journey of self-discovery that started funny enough with a picture day stand-off with my eldest son. I found myself entangled in a web of expectations and the pressure of parent-imposed perfection. This led me to make a conscious shift in my parenting approach, choosing to let go of unnecessary battles. 

This episode speaks to the transformative power of seemingly small decisions. I navigate the choppy waters of parenting, reminding ourselves that perfection isn't always worth the fight. I explore instances where I consciously chose my battles, and the remarkable impact it had on my family. Whether it be a picture day war or soccer field squabbles, learn how prioritizing peace and happiness can revolutionize your parenting experience. Tune in, and let's journey together through the liberating art of letting go.

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Ever wondered how to navigate the complex world of raising a teenage boy? With us today is Tracy, a mom of two, who offers her unique insights into parenting in the digital age. We tackle issues like the perfect time for granting phone access and how to encourage your teen to communicate more, allowing for a healthy relationship. As we journey through Tracy’s parenting experience, we learn how she managed her son’s transition into adolescence, the challenges that comes with it, and how she managed to keep the lines of communication open.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of parents being actively involved in their teen's lives, including their education. Tracy shares her tips on engaging with your child's school, creating a welcoming environment for their friends, and how to maintain connections even in the time of Covid-19. We also touch on how to handle the sometimes tricky topic of teenage romance - from the first introductions to setting boundaries and offering guidance. Tracy's authentic and practical advice will provide you with the tools to navigate these often turbulent waters with confidence.

Finally, we explore the preparation needed for the teen years. Tracy advises us to keep our courage high and our pancakes flipping, embracing the ups and downs of parenting. Whether your teen is venturing into the world of relationships or you’re preparing them for the future, Tracy’s experiences will surely serve as a guide. Even if your pancakes get a little burnt, remember that you're not alone on this parenting journey. So why not pull up a chair and join us? Regardless of your current parenting stage, this episode has something for you.

(0:00:10) - Raising a Teenage Boy
(0:06:47) - Encouraging Communication With Teenage Sons
(0:14:09) - Engaging With Your Child's School
(0:24:30) - Teenage Romance Blossoms Into Family Connection
(0:29:10) - Preparing for the Teen Years

You can connect with Tracy on Instagram at: @toxinfreehomemaker

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

How much do you really know about the silent struggles of infertility? Tune in as we journey alongside our guest, Tracy, a resilient mother opening up about her decade-long journey. Unexplained infertility, she reveals, is far more common than we acknowledge. Each month, a new wave of disappointment, a rollercoaster of emotions we're about to expose.

The narrative takes an unexpected turn when Tracy, at age 40, discovers she's pregnant. Now, the struggle doesn't end there. Imagine the whirlwind of emotions - the anxiety of being a geriatric mother, the fears due to pregnancy complications, and the heartbreak of a preterm birth. We navigate this tumultuous path, shedding light on the often unspoken trials of geriatric pregnancy and preterm births.

Brace yourself for the heartwarming conclusion, as Tracy introduces us to her miracle baby. We delve into the challenging realities of a 63-day NICU stay and the struggles of pumping milk, punctuated by the beautiful moments of her son's first words. As we wrap up Tracy's poignant story, we look forward to next week where Tracy shares her tips on navigating the turbulent teen years. This episode is a celebration of the remarkable strength and resilience of mothers everywhere. Don't miss this inspiring tale of hope, determination, and the miracle of motherhood.

(0:00:10) - Journey With Infertility
(0:08:38) - The Emotional Impact of Infertility
(0:14:44) - Surprise Pregnancy at Age 40
(0:21:17) - Pregnancy Complications and Preterm Birth
(0:29:04) - The Blessing of a Miracle Baby
(0:36:59) - Tracy's Eye-Opening Story & Teen-Raising Tips

You can connect with Tracy on Instagram at: @toxinfreehomemaker

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

On this solo episode of the Burn Pancakes podcast I share a personal story that taught me a valuable lesson about prioritizing what's important during the holiday season. Listen in as I recount the story of creating a complex, handmade Halloween costume for my three-year-old son that he only wore for a mere four minutes. This experience serves as a reminder that it's essential to focus on what truly matters and let go of the guilt of not being able to do it all.

In the second part of the episode, I explore the concept of making choices that feel right to us, especially during stressful times like the holidays.  This episode encourages all moms to remember that it's okay to make mistakes, to be gentle with ourselves, and to "Just keep flipping" even during the holidays.

Check out the Bumblebee Costume: click here

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

On this  episode of Burnt Pancakes, join me, Katie Fenske, as I explore the  world of dance moms with my friend Tracie. Mother to two talented young competitive dancers, Tracie shares the story of her daughters' dance journey, from their humble beginnings in recreational dance to their current foray into the competitive dance world. Listen as Tracie reveals how she navigated this realm with zero prior experience and the challenges she faced in managing the girls' classes, competitions, and the family's everyday life.

Continuing the conversation, Tracie paints a  picture of her family's typical week, balancing 12 classes, including private lessons, dinner at the studio, and the importance of self-care amidst the chaos. Hear Tracie discuss the camaraderie within the team, the diverse age ranges, and how she helps her daughters handle their nerves and emotions. Tracie's commitment to her daughters' passions, her dedication to their growth and confidence, and the familial bond they share with their dance teachers is truly heartwarming.

Rounding off our chat, we address the  financial investment that competitive dance entails, from monthly tuition to costumes and accessories. Despite the hustle and bustle of dance parenting, Tracie emphasizes the significance of building confidence, managing busy schedules, and fostering a strong support system. Whether you're a dance mom yourself, considering becoming one, or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode offers an eye-opening peek into the intricate, rewarding world of competitive dance parenting. So tune in and get ready to be inspired by Tracie's unwavering commitment to her daughters' dance dreams.


(0:00:10) - The World of Dance Moms
(0:10:26) - Juggling Dance Classes and Competitions
(0:18:34) - Dance's Impact on Confidence and Competition
(0:26:03) - Expenses and Emotions of Dance Parenting
(0:37:51) - Busy Schedules

You can find Tracie at:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedancemomdiaries/
Website: Coming Soon!

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you. 

Listen in as I get real about motherhood and health with our guest Tara Gosling, a health and fitness coach who specializes in helping busy moms achieve their fitness goals without sacrificing their lifestyle. Tara and I, both moms of three boys, discuss the chaos of parenthood and how to manage our physical and mental health amidst the whirlwind. We tackle the importance of sleep and the impact of our food choices on energy levels, offering tips for a more achievable approach to fitness that focuses on adding, not restricting.

I continue the conversation with Tara Gosling, who shares her insights on motivation and the power of small actions. Discover how making minor adjustments to your daily routine, such as choosing a walk over a run, can build healthy habits that stick. Tara also emphasizes the need for accountability and support, providing resources such as her free Facebook group and a free downloadable book. Don't miss out on these tips to make sustainable changes for your health and wellbeing, even with a packed schedule!

(0:00:09) - Health and Fitness Tips for Moms
(0:12:28) - Importance of Sleep and Healthy Eating
(0:24:49) - Small Actions Breed Motivation

You can find Tara Gosselink (Fit Mum Method):
Free Facebook Group
Instagram
Free Book:  Busy Mums Guide to Weight Loss Book
Group Coaching Application Form

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: [email protected]

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓  FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.