Most widows aren’t “stuck”—they’re undecided on their next step. In this episode, I walk you through the exact 10-minute self-audit I use on consults so you can see where you are (and what to do next) today.

What You’ll Learn

Find the free download at www.bravewidow.com/consult 

Chapters: 

00:00 — Welcome + why this episode is different (watch with a pen!)

01:00 — What actually happens on a Brave Widow consult (no pressure, real clarity)

04:00 — How the 5-Bucket Self-Audit works (score 1–10, gut check > perfection)

06:00 — Bucket 1: Routine (from “always behind” → predictable rhythms)

11:00 — Bucket 2: Relationships (friendships, family, community, dating readiness)

12:00 — Bucket 3: Confidence (decisions without second-guessing; fear under the surface)

18:00 — Bucket 4: Purpose (“little-p” purpose you can do daily; meaning after loss)

21:00 — Bucket 5: Direction (near-term plan, next right step, momentum map)

25:00 — Turn scores into action: close your gap (what would make it an 8–10?)

26:00 — How to use the free Consult Sheet to track progress over time

28:00 — Inside Brave Widow Academy: live-taught curriculum + step-by-step supports

30:00 — Is Grief Recovery Method or Academy the better starting point for you?

31:00 — Wrap + invitations (download, consult, programs)

✨ Work with Emily: Ready to stop just surviving and start rebuilding? Book a free consult at bravewidow.com.

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Download the Brave New Widow Starter Kit: A free guide to help you navigate the first steps of widowhood. → https://bravewidow.com/start

Grief Recovery Method Group: Tuesdays 12–2 pm CT, Sept 30–Nov 18, $400 (credited toward Brave Widow Academy or 1:1).

Brave Widow Academy: Next cohort starts in November.

I’m Emily Tanner.  I was widowed at age 37, one month shy of our 20 year wedding anniversary.  Nathan and I have four beautiful children together, and my world was turned completely upside down when I lost him.  

Now, I love my life again!  I’m able to experience joy, achieve goals and dreams I thought I’d lost, and rediscover this next version of me.

I did the work.

I invested in coaching for myself.

I learned what I needed to do to move forward and took the steps.

I implemented the tools and strategies that I use for my clients in my coaching program.

This is for you, if:

Find and take the next steps to move forward (without “moving on”).

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