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BW 171: From Isolation to Self-Trust: The 4-Part System Every Widow Needs (Season 2 of Grief)


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Welcome to Episode 171 of The Brave Widow Show — and we’re nearly at Brave Widow’s 3rd birthday! Today we continue the Four Seasons of Grief (RISE) mini-series and go deep on Season 2: Isolation, that weird “I’m functioning… but I feel invisible” stage. 

 

You’ll learn my Self-Trust System (the exact 4 components I coach on to help you move from anxious second-guessing to grounded confidence):

  1. Decisions — build your “Board of Advisors,” stop waffling, make informed choices.
  2. Self-Confidence — why action creates confidence (not the other way around); the Be-Do-Have model.
  3. Safety — how to create real-world safety nets so trying new things doesn’t feel like jumping without a parachute.
  4. Boundaries — who gets access to you, how much, and why that matters now more than ever.
  5. You’ll Hear About 

    •  What “Isolation” really looks like (losing 75% of your social circle, feeling untethered).
    •  Why your brain feels “hijacked” (amygdala vs. prefrontal cortex) and how to work with it.
    •  Real stories: riding a longhorn 🐂, lighting a propane grill for the first time, and building Brave Widow when no one showed up… yet.
    •  The mindset shift that collapses the timeline between who you are and who you’re becoming.
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      Free Resources & Links 

      •  🎯 Free Seasons of Grief Quiz: find your season + next steps — bravewidow.com
      •  🧭 Book a Free Consult (no pressure): bravewidow.com
      •  🧩 Programs & tools mentioned: Chaos-to-Calm Blueprint, Self-Trust System, Connection Protocol (inside Brave Widow Academy)
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        Chapters
        00:00 Intro + Brave Widow turns 3
        02:00 RISE overview + Season 1 recap (Rawness / Chaos-to-Calm)
        03:30 What Season 2 (Isolation) feels like
        06:10 “Untethered” story & why decisions feel high-stakes
        11:00 The Self-Trust System overview (Decisions, Confidence, Safety, Boundaries)
        18:00 Building your Board of Advisors (money, legal, health, home)
        24:00 How action builds self-confidence (+ Be-Do-Have)
        27:00 Travel, grills, longhorns: practicing confidence in real life
        31:00 Safety nets for firsts (travel groups, buddy systems)
        48:00 Boundaries that protect your energy
        50:30 Your custom plan + next steps (quiz + consult)

         

        Work With Me
        If you’re tired of feeling lost, lonely, and second-guessing everything, my coaching helps you find clarity, create real connection, and rebuild confidence—for good. Book a free consult at bravewidow.com.

         


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        I’m Emily Tanner.  I was widowed at age 37, one month shy of our 20 year wedding anniversary.  Nathan and I have four beautiful children together, and my world was turned completely upside down when I lost him.  

         

        Now, I love my life again!  I’m able to experience joy, achieve goals and dreams I thought I’d lost, and rediscover this next version of me.

         

        I did the work.

        I invested in coaching for myself.

        I learned what I needed to do to move forward and took the steps.

        I implemented the tools and strategies that I use for my clients in my coaching program.

         

         

        This is for you, if:

        •  You want a faith-based approach to coaching
        •  You want to move forward after loss, and aren’t sure how
        •  You want to enjoy life without feeling weighed down by guilt, sadness, or regret
        •  You want a guide to help navigate this journey to the next version of you
        •  You want to rediscover who you are
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          •  Schedule a consult with Emily:  https://calendly.com/bravewidow/widow-consult-call?month=2024-08 
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            Find and take the next steps to move forward (without “moving on”).

             

             

             

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