(SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS) - Can you measure love...that's the question we're tackling this week with Abby's friend Kennedy. SUBMIT A COUPLE/YOUR OWN BREAK UP STORY: https://forms.gle/MMnAwPAVRfuPSKTM7Topics on This Episode.1) Kennedy is dating multiple people at once...can you "measure" those feelings? Or should she dump them until she finds someone who she doesn't feel like she needs to evaluate her feelings with.2) The new Bachelorette Gabby told this year's Bachelor she felt like she was in a competition and you "Can't measure love between [the final three]". Is dating basically a competition? Are we just comparing our feelings with all these people until we just choose one?3) In relationships, just because you were with someone for years doesn't mean your feelings were stronger than a shorter relationship. If you're going to "measure" those feelings, just because the relationship was quicker, doesn't mean the love wasn't there. In Eat Pray FML, we got to see how devastating a short break up was. We compared breaking up in long-term vs short-term relationships and why we think breaking up with your situationship is more devastating. TIMESTAMPS(01:34) - Update on Kennedy's 3 internet boyfriends(11:28) - The Bachelor and Measuring Love Between The Final 3 Girls(14:35) - Eat Pray FML and break ups w/ the guys you never dated(18:45) - Eat Pray FML and Solo Travel(19:53) - Abby and Kennedy's Upcoming Europe Trip (Red light District?!?!)Follow Abby on IG (@abbymariemurphy) or TikTok (@theabbymurphy)