You almost lost the whole thing. And now, somehow, it's good again. Better than it's ever been, even. So why can't you actually enjoy it? Why does part of you keep waiting for the floor to drop out?

In this week's coaching episode, "Steve" reached out to Tara while he was in the middle of filing for divorce after an affair.

Months later, the divorce is off the table and he and his wife are more connected than they've ever been, but he doesn't quite trust it, and he came on to get coached through what real repair actually looks like.

In this episode:

• Why the honeymoon phase after a near-breakup can be a band-aid, not proof you're healed

• The question that matters more than "can I trust her": can you trust yourself to show up regardless of how she shows up

• How to tell when a surface argument is really about a deeper need, and what to do instead of just reacting

• Why you set the terms for conflict before the fight, not in the middle of it

• Grieving the old relationship so you can build a new one instead of repeating the same cycle

If you're trying to rebuild something after it nearly fell apart, this one's for you.

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