In this episode of Chocolate Cake Bytes, I continue an open and honest conversation with Brett about the challenge of embracing our divine identity and living authentically. We dive into how fear and self-judgment so often keep us from pursuing our real interests and promptings, and discuss how the opinions of others can hold us back from becoming the "five talent servants" we're meant to be.

Brett shares personal experiences about years spent putting limits on himself, whether it was hesitating to try acting or feeling he needed to fit a certain mold. We talk through the difference between living fearfully—trying to control outcomes—and living faithfully, willing to take bold action and trust that things will work out. I offer some stories from my own life about questioning decisions, overcoming the desire to “do things the right way,” and learning to see supposed impulses as spiritual promptings.

Together, we reflect on the idea that God does not want us to be clones or to play it safe, but to become the best version of ourselves—embracing our quirks, creative sides, and differences. The conversation ends with both of us committing to act on those inspired promptings and to give ourselves permission to expand into the unique individuals God created us to be.

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This week, we step outside—literally—to escape the summer heat, joined by Brett for an honest, thought-provoking conversation under the open sky. We explore some big questions: What is our purpose in life? When is our "mission" really complete? And what does it mean to truly fulfill the "measure of our creation"?

Using personal stories, gospel perspectives, and a good bit of humor, we'll dig into the pressures we put on ourselves to find a grand life purpose, unpack the weight of cultural expectations, and rethink familiar parables—like the parable of the talents—through a new lens. We also candidly tackle topics like overcoming negativity, reclaiming childlike creativity, and embracing our divine potential—whether that means picking up a new talent, switching careers, or just giving ourselves permission to dream again.

If you’ve ever wrestled with questions about your worth, your path, or how to use your gifts for good, pull up a chair (or step outside into the sunshine with us!) for a conversation that’s as real as it is uplifting. Sometimes, just being here—just existing—is the sweetest part of all.

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This week, Ken brings a heartfelt continuation of last episode’s reflections, inspired by his recent wedding anniversary and some deep conversations from his coaching practice. 

Are you struggling to figure out your purpose in life or feeling the pressure to “guess” what God’s plan might be for you? Ken shares his honest frustrations with the idea that life’s purpose is a guessing game and opens up about a liberating mindset shift: what if simply living—being yourself and sharing your unique talents—is enough? 

Drawing on the biblical parable of the talents, Ken invites us to rethink our roles, encourage each other, and focus on making a positive impact in the world. Tune in for an uplifting message about joy, purpose, and finding fulfillment just by being you.

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In this week’s episode, Ken celebrates his 35th wedding anniversary and reflects on the deeper spiritual connections that come from moving beyond a checklist approach to living the gospel. 

Drawing on personal conversations and church experiences, Ken explores how many of us—especially within the culture of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints—tend to view our relationship with God as transactional, focusing on rules and guidelines just to check off the boxes. He shares his thoughts on why it’s important to transition from this checklist mentality to building an authentic, meaningful relationship with the divine. 

Ken also invites listeners to consider the motivations behind their actions, both in spiritual practices and everyday relationships, encouraging a thoughtful shift toward deeper connections. Join Ken as he digs into these sweet nuggets of insight and offers an invitation to make your spiritual journey a little more meaningful.

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What if your life's purpose isn't something elusive you have to constantly chase, but something you've already achieved? This episode flips the script on the parable of the talents and the pressure to "find your purpose." Discover why the goal might simply be to explore your potential and see what's possible when you let go of rigid expectations. Prepare for a mindset shift that turns life's grind into a playground of possibilities.

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This week I’m sitting down with my good friend Brett for a conversation I’ve been itching to have—about faith. Not the easy, Instagram-quote kind of faith, but the gritty, “what do I do when I have zero evidence things will work out?” sort of faith. I’ll share a story about a woman who waited five years for her husband with nothing but hope to hold onto, and Brett opens up about what it’s really like to act as if your prayers are already answered—even when it feels like you’re just waiting in the dark.

We get real about what it means to trust God, how we wrestle with doubt, and why sometimes letting go of our own plans is the only way to make room for miracles. There are a few twists—like what kitchen appliances and TEDx talks have to do with trusting God (I promise, it’ll make sense!)—and we even challenge the classic definitions of faith you’ve probably heard your whole life.

If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I hold on when nothing seems to be happening?”—or if you’re searching for a new way to look at your journey—this is an episode you don’t want to miss. So stick around; the answers might surprise you.

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As we approach the end of May and the start of graduation season, Ken takes us on a thoughtful journey through what his own commencement speech might sound like—whether you’re moving up a grade, finishing high school, or heading into the next big step of your life.

This week's episode is packed with encouraging insights about building and practicing faith, trusting yourself and others, and embracing joy as a core purpose in life. Drawing from personal experiences, scripture, and ideas from Iyanla Vanzant’s book "Trust," Ken explores the four essential trusts: trusting God, yourself, the process, and others. Whether you’re celebrating a graduation or facing a new season, tune in for uplifting wisdom to help you step into the next chapter with confidence and faith.

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In today’s conversation, we’re tackling the layered and sometimes challenging topic of faith. Ken takes us through personal reflections, insights from Church history, and even shares his own journey—like pursuing a dream to speak on a TEDx stage, despite setbacks and rejections. 

Using stories of early Latter-day Saint pioneers and practical advice about faith as an active process, not just a feeling, Ken invites us to consider what it really means to keep believing—even when the evidence isn’t clear. Whether you’re seeking inspiration in your gospel journey or encouragement to push through discouragement, this episode offers some real, relatable wisdom on persevering in faith. Grab a slice and join us!

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In this heartfelt episode, Ken reflects on the real messages our mothers hope to convey—even if they sometimes get a little lost in translation. 

With Mother’s Day just around the corner, Ken dives into three powerful lessons that most moms wish their children would truly understand: you are divinely loved, you are capable of more than you think, and your very existence is nothing short of amazing. Whether you’ve learned these lessons directly from your mom or picked them up along the way, this episode is a warm reminder of the love and encouragement that often sits at the heart of motherhood—even if it occasionally comes wrapped in imperfection.

So grab a slice of your favorite dessert, settle in, and join Ken as we celebrate the sweet influence of moms everywhere.

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Welcome back to Chocolate Cake Bytes! In this episode, we have a thought-provoking conversation all about charity—the kind President Nelson emphasized in his recent general conference address. Together, Ken and Brett dig into what it truly means to have "the pure love of Christ," sharing their personal experiences with loving difficult people, setting healthy boundaries, and the delicate balance between accepting loved ones as they are versus encouraging positive change.

The episode covers everything from real-life stories of challenging relationships at work and church, to the struggles we all face when it comes to loving ourselves, especially when we fall short of our own expectations. Ken and Brett explore how judgment, personal biases, and our own insecurities can get in the way of charity, and they offer honest insights into overcoming these barriers by fostering connection and compassion.

Prepare to have your perspective on charity stretched and maybe even softened as Ken and Brett candidly navigate the messiness—and sweetness—that comes from trying to love others (and ourselves) a little more like Christ. Grab a slice of cake, hit play, and dive into this week’s meaningful conversation!

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