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James partied for 25 years. Looking back now, he knows he was just a full-blown dopamine addict.

He had the life everyone dreams of; the beautiful family, the thriving business, the house. But beneath it all, James never felt loved.

Weekends were spent ignoring calls and disappearing into benders. When they ended, the shame hit so hard he’d stop by the bottle shop at 10am just to numb himself enough to face his wife and kids again.

In his darkest moments, he’d drive to work and catch himself wondering which tree he could crash into to end it all.

Eventually, when his drinking tore the family apart, his wife gave him an ultimatum: them or the substances.

The choice he made that day still haunts him.

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Trigger warning: This episode discusses substance abuse and suicide.

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