Perhaps the greatest trial is when someone you really love——a friend, family member——betrays you. It takes a diamond to cut a diamond and sometimes our friends can hurt us deeply. And we can deeply hurt them. David said about his friend, “The words of his mouth with smoother than butter, but was was in his heart; his words were softer than oil, yet they were drawn swords” (21).
Jesus could have a applied these words to Judas. He could have said, “Yes, my own familiar friend, the one who walked with me, the one who ate with me—He is the one who betrayed me.”
See vs.14 “We took sweet counsel together, and walked to the House of God in the throng.” How sad it is when people we fellowship with in the House of God, turn against us and hurt us. But we must do what David did. He simply prayed, “Lord, Thou art the only One who can take care of this. I don’t understand it. I’m not going to return evil for evil. I am just going to leave it with Thee.” God met David’s needs. He Magnified him and healed his wounds.
We find two lessons here. First, “all of us are human.” Others will hurt you sometimes. But leave your hurt with the Lord and don’t fight back. Second, be careful “not to hurt others.” Betrayed trust is one of life’s most difficult pills to swallow. How you respond to those who hurt you is a true test of your faith. Leave it with God. He will meet your needs and use you to glorify Himself.
Be a friend who blesses, not betrays.