One of the biggest issues in the church is the issue of attachment-based conflict. When people have long-standing resentment or leave churches there are core issues that are usually over-looked. This video looks at the issue of reenactment under the reactivity. It also validates the need to focus on childhood attachment style vs adult attachment style in our discipleship of one another.  Resources: How we Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz​ Article mentioned: Intimate relationships: adult attachment style and attachment to God. 1993. Kim F. Weiner University of Massachusetts Amherst