This episode could save your relationship. 

We're 100% serious about that statement. On this episode we go into the four relationship killers as laid out by Drs. Julie & John Gottman. Here's just a few of the topics we touched on:

• Sexy Ed School - Learn from Beth, Your Sexy Genius! Take 20% off using the code "COMEWITHUS"
• How to avoid these relationship mistakes
• How to repair your relationship
• 60% of people who get divorced don't fight
• Fighting is part of a happy relationship
• Our most recent fights
• Words said during fights can sting
• Using absolutes like "always" and " never"
• "Kitchen Sink"-ing
• Fights are good for airing frustrations
• Fights are goof for resolving issues
• Getting called out
• Leaving clothes on the floor
• Don't get emotional about conflicts
• Being insecure can make you more defensive
• How to deescalate emotions
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• If one person starts handling things better, the other will follow.

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This week, we're talking manscaping... from the top of your heads to the tips of your toes... and everything in between.

Before we get into the heart of the show notes,  I wanted to mention our new sponsor: Manscaped!  Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code COMEWITHUS at MANSCAPED.com!

Now on to the episode, where we talked about:

• Male grooming
• Shark Tank
• We didn't learn these skills in school
• Body odor
• Body hair
• Nails
• How did Aaron learn to shave his face?
• Scandinavian men don't need to shave as often?
• Sensitive skin
• When did you start shaving your bush?
• The importance of a good barber
• Controlling dandruff
• 3-in-one shampoo, conditioner, body wash
• Unibrows
• Trimming nose hair
• Cologne
• Biting fingernails
• Mani/Pedis

And much more! Hey, let us know if you use our Manscaped discount (Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code COMEWITHUS at MANSCAPED.com), just send an email to us with your story to [email protected]!

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If you've encountered a commercial on TV or the radio you know the "most romantic day of the year" is coming up on February 14. 

And if you've listened to our podcast you know that we do not agree with that statement.  I mean, we want you take make every single day as romantic as the Valentine's Day commercials depict the holiday. 

But the realistic, wholehearted version of it. So our episode this week is 100% focused on  creating a mutual day of pleasure and love... for men & women. Here's just a few things we touched on:

• "Oh shit! It's Valentine's Day!"
• Who is St. Valentine?
• Valentine's vs. Christmas
• Valentine's vs. Easter
• Beth loves candy
• Loving love
• Creating a new holiday called "Candy Day" (editor's note: I am here for this)
• Over-commercialization of holidays
• Valentine's Day is not all about the female
• Why don't both sides give?
• Mutually beneficial holiday
• Throw away the cliches
• Making cards
• Taboos
• How to make Valentine's Day wor for your relationship
• Ladies can plan V-Day too
• Sexiest things you can cook at home
• Manscaped (Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code COMEWITHUS at MANSCAPED.com! #ad #manscapedpod)
• Aaron was an early manscaper

And so much more. What are your Valentine's plans? Share them with us at [email protected]!

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Scheduling sex sounds like the epitome of BMS (Boring Married Sex), doesn't it? Well, the gang's here to tell you that it is not in this enlightening episode all about scheduling sex. 

Here's just some of the stuff we covered this week:

• People think scheduling sex is not romantic or spontaneous
• Aaron's experience scheduling sex
• Sex schedules are similar to gym schedules
• Dates are fun - schedule a date!
• Sexy dates vs. 'other' dates
• Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma'am Sex
• New Relationship Energy
• Getting hyped up throughout the day
• Tina's opinion on scheduled sex
• Movie sex isn't real sex
• Men like to be seduced too
• The difference between "Sexy Fun" and regular sex
• Foreplay & orgasms
• Orgasms & getting pregnant
• Fear is keeping us from sexy
• Fuck buddies
• 28 days makes a habit
• "Just lay there and spread your legs"
• Adding quotas

Have you tried scheduling sex before? We'd love to hear (and maybe share!) your story. Just email us at [email protected].

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This week, the gang plays with what Aaron expects to be some "nerdy-ass Harry Potter thing" and expects that someone will "get their ass electrocuted" but no, the gang's playing with the Violet Wand, a gorgeous piece of electro-stim sex tech that is completely safe and, of course, somewhat shocking!

And of course, we all had to test it out, too!

Here are just a few things we buzzed about this episode:

• What *is* the Violet Wand?
• Hearing the buzzing
• Seeing the purple electricity
• Glass rake
• Telsa developed the tech for the Violet Wand
• Violet rays make you feel good
• Static electricity
• Electrostimulation
• Electric Sex
• E-Stim
• Pacemakers + E-Stim
• Burning body hair
• Comparing E-Stim to getting a tattoo
• The noise is intimidating. 
• Using the Violet Wand heightens your awareness & sensation
• You can use your body to conduct the electricity
• How the rubber attachment on the Violet Wand works
• Testing vibrators on the tip of your nose
• Cattle prods
• Electronic Stimulation is good for power play
• Syncing electricity of music

and much, much more!

Please, if you decide to try out the Violet Wand or other E-Stim technology, consult your physician first.
 
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While we were unable to attend the Consumer Electronics Show in Las Vegas this year, we did have an amazing time talking about all the sex tech that came out of CES 2022! Here's a litte overview of what we talked about this episode:

• Our Goal: Attend CES 2023
• Sex toy drama at CES 2019
• Osé  Robotic Massager
• Lara DiCarlo
• Being "too obscene for the robotics category"
• Metaverse
• VR sex
• Vibrator ads on subways
• The concept of a Fleshlight
• App-controlled pleasure props
• So much testing needs to be done
• Lovense
• Buying direct from the manufacturer
• V-Patch
• Baci Baci
• Womanizer
• Satisfyer
• The Handy 
• Beth's VR experience

and more! Have you run into an interesting piece of sex tech? Tell us about it at [email protected]

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We started talking about sex hormones last week on our "Sex Under the Influence" episode.  So we kept the conversation going this week, covering sexy hormones, sex chemistry and more, including:

• Attachment Bro - Adam Lane Smith
• Attachment Bro on TikTok
• Do hormones work different for males and females?
• Oxytocin vs dopamine vs serotonin vs norepinephrine
• Hook up culture
• Post-nut clarity
• Cuddling after sex
• What oxytocin does to the body
• Studying brains during sex
• Masters & Johnson
• Johns Hopkins psychedelics lab
• TikTok wants to teach men to bond chemically
• Bonding, attachment and sex
• Bonding through sports
• Big feet? Big dick.
• Kissing starts the hormones
• Toe-sucking
• Benefits of swallowing semen
• The reason why people stop kissing

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Did you start your 2022 off with a bang? Were you under the influence when you did so? If so, it probably wasn't the bang of your dreams. 

This episode is all about having sex while under the influence of booze, pot, mushrooms and more. (where legal, of course). 

• Savoring pleasure
• Enjoying the moment
• Remember why you love people
• People who will only have sex under the influence
• Hookup culture
• Using drinking as an excuse
• "A few drinks can loosen you up"
• Releasing inhibitions
• "Give a Fuck" filter
• Whisky Dick
• Submissive control freak
• "Not great" sex is not worth it
• Brain chemicals and sex
• Oxytocin  vs. Dopamine
• Kinsey
• Sex on shrooms
• Anti-depressants kill libido
• Reaching orgasm on stimulants
• Sex on marijuana

And so much more. Do you have any experiences you'd like to share with us? Email 'em to [email protected]

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It's been a YEAR hasn't it, y'all? We've kept it kinky for you throughout the entirety of 2021, though... and we hope you've learned a lot from us. 

With 2022 looming on the horizon, we brainstormed some ways to make next year the hottest year ever with some resolutions for y'all (plus a few thrown in for ourselves, lol)!

Here's some of what we touched on during this episode:

• It's the last podcast of the year!
• We celebrated our one-year anniversary last week. Listen here.  
• Tina is not a winter person
• Would Tina like Hedonism? (We think yes, lol)
• "New year new you bullshit"
• New Year's Eve traditions
• Tina: don't get pregnant in 2022
• Sexy New Year's Eve disasters
• Being naked in the snow with only shoes on
• Traveling to tropical destinations
• Taking in "strays"
• Sexual Resolutions
• What is a BBL? 
• What does BBL even stand for?!
• Being really good at loving people at a detriment to yourself
• More sex in 2022
• Podcast resolutions: more guests!!!
• Podcast sponsors

And the big question: should we try more sex accessories on air in 2022? Email [email protected] with your suggestions!

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We did it, y'all! We have been together for a year... and it's been a year filled with great chemistry and even better conversations! Beth, Aaron and Tina spent the last 12 months expanding your horizons and teaching you how to love better and more effectively. 

The gang reminisces over the things they've learned, the people they've met and some of their favorite episodes. 

Here's just a little taste of what was covered on our anniversary episode:

• What it's like to broadcast our deepest insecurities
• Tina & Aaron have a brother/sister relationship
• Ludacris - Lady in the Bed and a Freak in the Sheets
• Does sexy fade?
• Betty White
• Christmas Quickies: https://www.sexyedschool.com/ChristmasQuickiessignup
• Sexy Mrs. Claus Lingerie
• Tina has grown up
• Reindeer cock sock
• Share your Holiday underwear with us - email [email protected] or hashtag #ComeWithUsPodcast 
• Our favorite episodes
• How the show has changed
• Our best guests (ALL OF 'EM)
• Free use
• Porn
• Kink Test

and more!

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