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February 23, 2022The Four Relationship Killers: What They Are & How to Avoid Them
This episode could save your relationship.

We're 100% serious about that statement. On this episode we go into the four relationship killers as laid out by Drs. Julie & John Gottman. Here's just a few of the topics we touched on:

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How to avoid these relationship mistakes
How to repair your relationship
60% of people who get divorced don't fight
Fighting is part of a happy relationship
Our most recent fights
Words said during fights can sting
Using absolutes like "always" and " never"
"Kitchen Sink"-ing
Fights are good for airing frustrations
Fights are goof for resolving issues
Getting called out
Leaving clothes on the floor
Don't get emotional about conflicts
Being insecure can make you more defensive
How to deescalate emotions
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If one person starts handling things better, the other will follow.
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
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36 min
February 16, 2022Manscaping Made Easy: Body, Balls & More
This week, we're talking manscaping... from the top of your heads to the tips of your toes... and everything in between.

Before we get into the heart of the show notes, I wanted to mention our new sponsor: Manscaped! Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code COMEWITHUS at MANSCAPED.com!

Now on to the episode, where we talked about:
Male grooming
Shark Tank
We didn't learn these skills in school
Body odor
Body hair
Nails
How did Aaron learn to shave his face?
Scandinavian men don't need to shave as often?
Sensitive skin
When did you start shaving your bush?
The importance of a good barber
Controlling dandruff
3-in-one shampoo, conditioner, body wash
Unibrows
Trimming nose hair
Cologne
Biting fingernails
Mani/Pedis
And much more! Hey, let us know if you use our Manscaped discount (Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code COMEWITHUS at MANSCAPED.com), just send an email to us with your story to [email protected]!

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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
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52 min
February 09, 2022A Guy's Survival Guide to Valentine's Day
If you've encountered a commercial on TV or the radio you know the "most romantic day of the year" is coming up on February 14.

And if you've listened to our podcast you know that we do not agree with that statement. I mean, we want you take make every single day as romantic as the Valentine's Day commercials depict the holiday.

But the realistic, wholehearted version of it. So our episode this week is 100% focused on creating a mutual day of pleasure and love... for men & women. Here's just a few things we touched on:
"Oh shit! It's Valentine's Day!"
Who is St. Valentine?
Valentine's vs. Christmas
Valentine's vs. Easter
Beth loves candy
Loving love
Creating a new holiday called "Candy Day" (editor's note: I am here for this)
Over-commercialization of holidays
Valentine's Day is not all about the female
Why don't both sides give?
Mutually beneficial holiday
Throw away the cliches
Making cards
Taboos
How to make Valentine's Day wor for your relationship
Ladies can plan V-Day too
Sexiest things you can cook at home
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Aaron was an early manscaper
And so much more. What are your Valentine's plans? Share them with us at [email protected]!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

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Contact Come With Us: [email protected]
40 min
February 02, 2022Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma'am: How Scheduling Sex Can Get Rid of BMS (Boring Married Sex)
Scheduling sex sounds like the epitome of BMS (Boring Married Sex), doesn't it? Well, the gang's here to tell you that it is not in this enlightening episode all about scheduling sex.

Here's just some of the stuff we covered this week:
People think scheduling sex is not romantic or spontaneous
Aaron's experience scheduling sex
Sex schedules are similar to gym schedules
Dates are fun - schedule a date!
Sexy dates vs. 'other' dates
Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma'am Sex
New Relationship Energy
Getting hyped up throughout the day
Tina's opinion on scheduled sex
Movie sex isn't real sex
Men like to be seduced too
The difference between "Sexy Fun" and regular sex
Foreplay & orgasms
Orgasms & getting pregnant
Fear is keeping us from sexy
Fuck buddies
28 days makes a habit
"Just lay there and spread your legs"
Adding quotas
Have you tried scheduling sex before? We'd love to hear (and maybe share!) your story. Just email us at [email protected].

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

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40 min
January 26, 2022The Real Power of Love: E-Stim, the Violet Wand and More!
This week, the gang plays with what Aaron expects to be some "nerdy-ass Harry Potter thing" and expects that someone will "get their ass electrocuted" but no, the gang's playing with the Violet Wand, a gorgeous piece of electro-stim sex tech that is completely safe and, of course, somewhat shocking!

And of course, we all had to test it out, too!

Here are just a few things we buzzed about this episode:
What *is* the Violet Wand?
Hearing the buzzing
Seeing the purple electricity
Glass rake
Telsa developed the tech for the Violet Wand
Violet rays make you feel good
Static electricity
Electrostimulation
Electric Sex
E-Stim
Pacemakers + E-Stim
Burning body hair
Comparing E-Stim to getting a tattoo
The noise is intimidating.
Using the Violet Wand heightens your awareness & sensation
You can use your body to conduct the electricity
How the rubber attachment on the Violet Wand works
Testing vibrators on the tip of your nose
Cattle prods
Electronic Stimulation is good for power play
Syncing electricity of music
and much, much more!
Please, if you decide to try out the Violet Wand or other E-Stim technology, consult your physician first.

Have you tried the Violet Wand? We'd love to hear about it! Email us at [email protected].

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

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39 min
January 19, 2022Virtual Reality Sex, App-Controlled Vibes & More Pleasure Innovations from CES 2022
While we were unable to attend the Consumer Electronics Show in Las Vegas this year, we did have an amazing time talking about all the sex tech that came out of CES 2022! Here's a litte overview of what we talked about this episode:
Our Goal: Attend CES 2023
Sex toy drama at CES 2019
Osé Robotic Massager
Lara DiCarlo
Being "too obscene for the robotics category"
Metaverse
VR sex
Vibrator ads on subways
The concept of a Fleshlight
App-controlled pleasure props
So much testing needs to be done
Lovense
Buying direct from the manufacturer
V-Patch
Baci Baci
Womanizer
Satisfyer
The Handy
Beth's VR experience
and more! Have you run into an interesting piece of sex tech? Tell us about it at [email protected]
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
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50 min
January 12, 2022Post Nut Clarity vs. You’re the One! (How Sex Hormones Affect Men and Women Differently)
We started talking about sex hormones last week on our "Sex Under the Influence" episode. So we kept the conversation going this week, covering sexy hormones, sex chemistry and more, including:
Attachment Bro - Adam Lane Smith
Attachment Bro on TikTok
Do hormones work different for males and females?
Oxytocin vs dopamine vs serotonin vs norepinephrine
Hook up culture
Post-nut clarity
Cuddling after sex
What oxytocin does to the body
Studying brains during sex
Masters & Johnson
Johns Hopkins psychedelics lab
TikTok wants to teach men to bond chemically
Bonding, attachment and sex
Bonding through sports
Big feet? Big dick.
Kissing starts the hormones
Toe-sucking
Benefits of swallowing semen
The reason why people stop kissing
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

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32 min
January 05, 2022Sex Under the Influence - Booze, Weed, Molly, ‘Shrooms & more
Did you start your 2022 off with a bang? Were you under the influence when you did so? If so, it probably wasn't the bang of your dreams.

This episode is all about having sex while under the influence of booze, pot, mushrooms and more. (where legal, of course).
Savoring pleasure
Enjoying the moment
Remember why you love people
People who will only have sex under the influence
Hookup culture
Using drinking as an excuse
"A few drinks can loosen you up"
Releasing inhibitions
"Give a Fuck" filter
Whisky Dick
Submissive control freak
"Not great" sex is not worth it
Brain chemicals and sex
Oxytocin vs. Dopamine
Kinsey
Sex on shrooms
Anti-depressants kill libido
Reaching orgasm on stimulants
Sex on marijuana
And so much more. Do you have any experiences you'd like to share with us? Email 'em to [email protected]

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

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37 min
December 29, 2021Eating her out, BBLs & more: Have you made YOUR sexy resolutions yet?
It's been a YEAR hasn't it, y'all? We've kept it kinky for you throughout the entirety of 2021, though... and we hope you've learned a lot from us.

With 2022 looming on the horizon, we brainstormed some ways to make next year the hottest year ever with some resolutions for y'all (plus a few thrown in for ourselves, lol)!

Here's some of what we touched on during this episode:
It's the last podcast of the year!
We celebrated our one-year anniversary last week. Listen here.
Tina is not a winter person
Would Tina like Hedonism? (We think yes, lol)
"New year new you bullshit"
New Year's Eve traditions
Tina: don't get pregnant in 2022
Sexy New Year's Eve disasters
Being naked in the snow with only shoes on
Traveling to tropical destinations
Taking in "strays"
Sexual Resolutions
What is a BBL?
What does BBL even stand for?!
Being really good at loving people at a detriment to yourself
More sex in 2022
Podcast resolutions: more guests!!!
Podcast sponsors
And the big question: should we try more sex accessories on air in 2022? Email [email protected] with your suggestions!

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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

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Contact Come With Us: [email protected]
31 min
December 22, 2021Threesomes & Throuples, Prostates & Pegging, Swingers and more... And that's just year one!
We did it, y'all! We have been together for a year... and it's been a year filled with great chemistry and even better conversations! Beth, Aaron and Tina spent the last 12 months expanding your horizons and teaching you how to love better and more effectively.

The gang reminisces over the things they've learned, the people they've met and some of their favorite episodes.

Here's just a little taste of what was covered on our anniversary episode:
What it's like to broadcast our deepest insecurities
Tina & Aaron have a brother/sister relationship
Ludacris - Lady in the Bed and a Freak in the Sheets
Does sexy fade?
Betty White
Christmas Quickies: https://www.sexyedschool.com/ChristmasQuickiessignup
Sexy Mrs. Claus Lingerie
Tina has grown up
Reindeer cock sock
Share your Holiday underwear with us - email [email protected] or hashtag #ComeWithUsPodcast
Our favorite episodes
How the show has changed
Our best guests (ALL OF 'EM)
Free use
Porn
Kink Test
and more!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth
For Romantic concierge booking, or virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]
Shop online 24/7: https://darlingway.com/
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!
Website: https://darlingway.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast
Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast
Contact Come With Us:
[email protected]
Support the show
WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast
Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast
Contact Come With Us: [email protected]
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About Come With Us Podcast

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Explore the surprising and thrilling world of love, sex, and relationships with "Come With Us Podcast."

Dive into passionate conversations with hosts Beth Darling, a single, former…