Come With Us Podcast

The holidays are upon us and we're into the part of the season where we're finishing up our holiday shopping. One this episode, we discuss some of our favorite things to stuff a stocking with and more exciting topics, including:

• Sexy Ed School, featuring Principal Beth Darling. (Use code PODCAST to take 20% off your purchase!)
• Reminiscing about our last two episodes with Mistress Ella Strictland at her Iron Gate Dungeon. 
• Gift cards as holiday gifts
• Gifting experiences
  • Concerts
  • Sporting events
  • Vacations
  • Fancy Meals
• Giving gifts exposes how well people know you
• Is lingerie a good or bad gift?
• Remote Control vibrators
  • We-Vibe Chorus
  • MateFix by 2ChooseLove - https://2chooselove.com/
• Tina wears the MateFix on air!!!
• Should Tina try the Cowgirl next?
• How much is too little to pay for a vibrator?
• Eye of Love Massage Candle - After Dark scent
• Covid Connections
• Love & Laughter
• Kinky Bondage Bearz
• Pasties & Nipple Tassels
• Rechargable Anal Douche
• Aneros Prostate Massager
• How to Use Aneros Prostate Massager to increase your orgasm - Class
• SexyEdSchool.com - Use Coupon "PODCAST" to take 20% off your purchase!

And so so much more. What do you want in your stocking this holiday? Send an email to [email protected].

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

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For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

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Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

Mistress Ella Strictland  (lickmyboot.com) is back for another episode and this one's all about her incredible Iron Gate Dungeon. It was Tina and Aaron's first visit to a dungeon and they had some questions for Mistress Ella. 

Here's just a little bit of what this episode covers:

• Inflicting pleasure
• BDSM parties
• First dungeon experiences
• Dungeons must be careful about outing people
• Our swingers episodes: (Episode 1 & Episode 2)
• The Red Room
• Sissyfying
  • Makeup
  • Shoes
  • Eyelashes
  • Wigs
  • Schoolgirl outfits
• Medical table
• Milking machine
• Foot/Shoe fetish
• Milking fetish
• Boot cellar
• Cage table
• Spanking benches and whipping posts
• Straight jackets & ball weights
• Stainless steel cane
• Working out childhood trauma through BDSM
• BDSM as therapy
• Rules in BDSM dungeons
• Orgasm control

Have you visited a dungeon? We'd love the hear your experience. Email us at [email protected]!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

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Contact Come With Us:

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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

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Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

We welcome professional dominatrix Mistress Ella Strictland of the Iron Gate Dungeon into the Come With Us Studio for an in-depth look at what it's really like to be a dominatrix. This episode is eye-opening, fascinating and most importantly, FUN!

Here's just a little taste of what we discussed:

• First time in a dungeon
• Perceived opinions of dominatrixes
• First BDSM experiences
• How Mistress Ella popped her 'Domme Cherry'
• Punishing men in front of innocent women
• Personality changes
• Mistress Ella used to get angry to be called a Dominatrix
• How does sex play into BDSM?
• What exactly does a dominatrix do?
• Domination: Lifestyle vs. commercial
• Iron Gate Dungeon is museum quality
• Custom made thigh high boots
• Ads for slaves
• Sissy maids
• Pony & Puppy play
• It seems to be easier to submit to a woman that removes masculinity from the sub
• BDSM is about pleasure and commitment

Want more information on Mistress Ella Strictland? Find her at LickMyBoot.com.

Have questions for  the rest of us? Send an email to [email protected]!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://darlingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

[email protected]

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

School is kind of in session for us this week, cause we took a test. Don't worry, it was a fun one, lol. Beth, Aaron and Tina take the BDSM test that everyone on TikTok is talking about. Wanna hear our results? Well, you'll just have to listen, won't you?

Here's what we talked about:

• Where to take the test (Click here.)
• This test helps you learn more about yourself and your relationship
• Article in the NY Post
• Finding out what you're interested in
• Control & submission
• Sex with multiple persons
• Trying anything once
• Pony play
• Puppy play
• Furries
• Marriage changes people
• Is kink an important part of your life?
• Feeling like prey
• Age play
• Sex slave
• Being forced into submission
• Friends judging you for being sexy
• Resentment in a Dom/Sub relationship

And so much more!

Did you take the test? Share your results with us at [email protected].

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://darlingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

[email protected]

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

Before we get started, I wanted to let you know that Aaron was NOT into this topic. So, as you listen, just picture him cringing along on this episode all about Sex Bloopers. 

Here's just a little taste of what we covered:

• Learning from sex mistakes
• Nina's trip to the ER story on our pegging episode. 
• Breaking a bed mid-sex
• Breaking a desk while getting busy
• Bruises
• Scratches
• Run burn
• Getting bitten by bugs
• Legless lizards climbing up urethras
• Wax play & the importance of using the correct candles
• BDSM & injuries
• Genital piercing accidents
• Penis tattoos
• Erections lasting more than 4 hours
• Allergic reactions
• Homemade glory hole injuries
• Passing out from sexual chocking
• Melted gummi bear play
• Who signs the cast when you break your cock?
• Dripping cum on the floor
• Fire
• Sex in the ocean
• Getting a tampon stuck

and so much more. 

Got a blooper of your own? Share it with us at [email protected]. 

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://darlingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

[email protected]

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

We already visited a swingers club and introduced y'all to the free use fetish, so what's next? Well, on this week's episode,  we do a deep dive on exhibitionists and voyeurs. 

Here's what we discussed:

• Voyeurism doesn't have to be sexual
• Feeling like you're in on the secret
• Is porn voyeurism?
• Growing up with the Internet
• Cam girl sites
• Watching porn vs. Voyeurism
• People watching you have sex
• People want to be watched in swingers clubs
• Dressing more risque in everyday life
• How to not feel creepy
• Watching sex through the windows
• Girls Gone Wild
• Peep shows
• Real Sex on HBO
• How to Fall in Love With Yourself 
• Naked club at Brown
• Just because someone gets turned on doesn't mean they want to f*ck you
• Sex in public places
• Naked runs
• Sex on Miami Beach
• Creepy vs. connecting
• Peeping Toms
• Sex shows
• Makeout bars
• Strip clubs
• Is Burlesque voyeurism?

And more!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://darlingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

[email protected]

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

John & Jackie Melfi from OpenLove101 (https://openlove101.com/) and Colette Clubs (https://coletteclubs.com/) are back for another episode and this one is chock full of tips, tricks and advice on how to navigate your first visit to a Swingers Club!

Beth has visited one before, but both Aaron and Tine were first timers! On this episode, you'll hear their reactions, and get an excellent primer one what to expect during your first trip to a Swingers Club!

Here's just a little taste of some of the topics the gang discussed:

• Huge round beds
• What it's actually like in a swingers club
• There are four Colette Club locations
  • New Orleans
  • Dallas
  • Houston
  • Austin
• What you see when you first walk in to a swingers club
• What the application process is like
• What type of people you'll meet in the "lifestyle"
  • Swingers
  • Poly
  • Open relationships
  • Gay
  • Bisexual
  • Literally any type of people... in any age group!
• What happens when someone misbehaves
• "We DO NOT tolerate consent violations"
• Swingers Club Fashion
• Health inspections
• Shower with stadium seating
• Phone & Social Media policy in Swingers Clubs
• Participation-only room
• How to say no respectfully
• Women are super-supportive to each other
• Watching other people enjoy sex
• Blow job confidence
  • Need some? Beth has a class for that!
• Speak Up for your orgasms!
• The use of toys in swingers clubs
• BDSM and Kink inside the club
• Bathhouses
• How to fold a fitted sheet
• What's the deal with pineapples?

Plus, Jackie Melfi wrote a book titled "Swingers’ Lifestyle: The Questions You Are Afraid to Ask". Buy your copy here.

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://darlingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

[email protected]

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

Y'all are in for a special treat this week FOR SURE.  John & Jackie Melfi of Colette Clubs  (https://coletteclubs.com/) and Open Love 101  (https://openlove101.com/) to talk all about swingers, swingers clubs and the swinging lifestyle in general... all while being INSIDE an actual swinger's club!

Here's just a little taste of what we talked about:

• An intro to swinging
• The swinger's lifestyle
• Group sex
• Threesomes as a starting point
• John's first threesome
• The definition of swinging
• Getting sober
• Healthy, happy sobriety
• Family/friends reaction
• Finding the swinging lifestyle through your partner
• Swinging can help you lead a peaceful and loving life
• How to handle a swinger's relationship
• Dating while already in a relationship
• How to focus on the fun instead of the fear
• What is the difference between dating and having sex?
• Hearing about your partner's dates can be a turn on
• Polyamory is not as common in the swinging world as you'd think
• Swingers freak out sometimes too
• The foundations of a good relationship
• Getting support from yourself
• Not forming attachments
• AND Beth, Aaron and Tina's feelings about how swinging'd work for them!

Got some thoughts on this week's episode? Share them with us at [email protected]!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://darlingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

[email protected]

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

It's Halloween season or, as we like to call it around here, Kinktober. In these week's episode we talk all about our spooky October plans and how were gonna make 'em sexy, including some steamy Halloween games that you can introduce at your next party!

Here's what else we talked about:

• Sexy orgasmic Halloween
• Halloween ruins Aaron's birthday
• Good girls gone slut
• Is Halloween the sexiest holiday?
• Disney Princess lingerie
• Men wear comedic costumes
• Sexy + laughter go hand in hand
• Insertable vibes
• Sexy Halloween Games
• Faking an orgasm in character
• Pornkins
• Devilish dollars
• Grown up trick or treats
• Halloween at Disney
• Halloween in Vegas
• Sexist Halloween Costumes
• The importance of consent
• Past Halloween costumes

And so much more! Have a sexy Hallloween costume or story you wanna tell us about? Send an email to [email protected]

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://darlingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

[email protected]

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: [email protected]

Dear listeners,

We have a major announcement this week and Beth is so excited to tell y'all first... her next book is coming out!

Click here to pre-order it. Bonus:  if you pre-order the book, I'll send you a free erotic story to read before the book is released. Just  take a pic or screenshot of your receipt and email it to [email protected] with the date, how many copies you ordered and your name!

In this episode, we give y'all a little glimpse inside the book by  reading some of our favorite excerpts and also offer some insight on way you can use this book (a collection of erotic short stories written by members of the Darling Way Community!) to spice things up with your partner, including:

• Reading aloud to each other
• Texting your favorite steamy scene to your partner
• Read it together whereever you want:
  • In bed
  • on a road trip
  • Over the phone

However you read it, we hope you enjoy it... and we hope you enjoy listening to us read our favorite parts!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/coaching-with-beth

For Romantic concierge booking, or  virtual shopping appointments, email [email protected]

Shop online 24/7:  https://darlingway.com/

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://darlingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://bethtalks.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

[email protected]

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: [email protected]