What started off as just another Labor Day Sale led me through a complicated story about manufacturers, authenticity, marketing, and more. The wild world of sex toys is difficult to navigate at times. I do my best, and sometimes I might get it wrong. This time, I cannot honestly say whether I got it right or wrong! So here's the complicated story about Giddi....

The sale continues through the entire month of September, should you wish to give the Tomo a try, after hearing my story!

EDIT: Follow up with more information. A redditor with serious research skills found this for me:

Giddi states in its terms of service that it is owned by Allness Brands, Inc, which is a corporation formed in Santa Monica, CA. Interestingly, Allness sued Giddy Holdings, LLC (this is a Brett Jacobson company) for something related to PTO (patent and trademark/intellectual property) in the year 2020. I cannot see the lawsuit or tell what the lawsuit was about (and I don't know that it matters), but the good news is this….Allness/Giddi is likely not related to Brett Jacobson….otherwise it would not have sued him. And, if I had to guess, it is likely that Allness/Giddi sued Giddy/Jacobson for copying their name or violating their intellectual property. I am sorry that this is not definitive but I will keep looking. PS- If you Google 'Get Me Giddy' or 'Giddy' it looks like they ripped off a lot of people.

So - Giddi is a perfectly fine, nay, an excellent prostate massager!

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Welcome to another Short Take! This one has a couple of shares. The first is about dominant/submissive challenges with pegging - power bottoming and how it improved one couple's pegging dynamic. The second is asking for ideas to reignite the sexual spark after 24 years of marriage. Enjoy!

And just in case you missed it - My article about CBD Lubes and Suppositories!

Masturbation Month 2025 has been largely ignored by me - My apologies! Some of you may have been waiting for new chapters of the on-going story, Seven Days as a Kitchen Maid. If you have not read it, there are currently 29 short chapters. I started the story in 2022 and only seem to be inspired to add to it during May...until this year. I promise that it's on my list to finish! Never has it taken so long to tell about 7 days, right? Erotic anticipation at it's best (or worst - lol). At this point, Frank is quite tempted to do some power bottoming, but he won't. He's being a good boy for Cynthia. Only two more days left! But so very many adventures...

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Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! Register Here.

A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called 'virginity'.

I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but especially for the intensely masculine receivers. Allowing a bit of feminine in to help find balance can be refreshing, wondrous and healing. Not having to be in control can be a relief, startling in contrast to the daily expectations of society.

And the stuff about 'virginity'. Whew. Perhaps it was an innocent question, but the word itself represents so much bad stuff, and not any good that I can see. Educate yourself. Carry the good forward and discard the bad. The concept of virginity isn't doing anyone any favors.

You'll hear this in the recording, but I will be leaving Instagram and Threads today, the 19th. There are a lot of reasons, most of which many of you will also be familiar with. I will not participate in a social media platform that simply doesn't care about hate speech and misinformation. Since most of my connecting with you lovely folx happens on Fetlife.com and Reddit, I can make this move and not have it affect me negatively. I'm really liking BlueSky. Give it a try - link below.

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In this short take you will find an attempt at crowdsourcing for a gentleman who had a depth play injury at the rectosigmoid junction. He also had a horrible experience with an MD who couldn't get beyond his own discomfort to give good care.

Next, she wonders why all people don't use condoms on toy?

Finally, he's new at pegging, and was very surprised at the emotional fallout afterwards. Namely, feeling clingy and needy for a couple of days afterwards. This question was on Reddit and one commenter responded so well I felt like you all needed to hear it. That link will take you to the original post.

Sale of all 3 of my Webinars good through the end of the year! You need this is your sex education library!

Here's to much more pegging in 2025. I think we can all, or almost all, toast to that! Happy Holidays to you all and may you enjoy the loveliest celebration(s) ever.

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All 3 of my Webinars - the Premium Pegging Package - are now on sale until the end of the year, discounted from $99 to $75! This enables you to have a six hour complete educational pegging library on hand for new partners, additional partners, or for your own review. The best part about the recorded webinars is the on-demand flexibility that allows you to view them on your own time frame as opposed to when I have a free webinar scheduled.

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Jessica's question is common for new Givers. She's concerned about getting the toy in so the fun can begin! Initial insertion doesn't need to be unpleasant for the receiver. For the giver, when you take the right steps to open up the ass, initial insertion goes more smoothly. This can give you more confidence in that all-important moment of sliding it home!

This is the first of what I am calling my Short Takes. Shorter audio clips and more often is the goal. Hope you enjoy. Might be easier to listen to shorter podcasts as well. Having a tough time at the family gathering? Take 10 minutes out and listen to me talk about dildos and asses! I plan to drop these on no specific schedule, but will strive to satisfy all you listeners who have been so deprived on my podcasts.

Advance notice of year end sale on all 3 of my Webinars. The Premium Pegging Package will go on sale December 15th through the end of the year, discounted from $99 to $75. This will enable you to have a complete educational pegging library on hand for new partners, additional partners, or your own review.The best part about the recorded webinars is the on-demand flexibility that allows you to view them on your own time frame as opposed to when I have a webinar scheduled.

Happy Pegging and No Shame!

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I hope you enjoy this podcast. Speaking of something that pops right up, there are two inflatable toys for you to check out this time! One from my last blog post, The Strap On Me Inflatable, and a new one from B-Vibe, the Expand, which luxuriously inflates with the touch of a remote.

Also - the story from the couple is heartwarming and a pure pleasure to listen to. I do spend a fair amount of time solving problems and giving relationship advice here at Pegging Paradise. What a treat to get a purely good news story! In fact, I felt compelled to play the music for them.

Happy Pegging and No Shame!

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"I love seeing you like this." My interviewee, Steve, has heard these words many times while receiving pegging from his partner. We hear Steve's story about how he began walking down the path of pegging and how his experience has evolved over the years. He speaks eloquently about what he loves about pegging, and his explorations into crossdressing and chastity. This podcast might be a reassurance to pegging givers who are concerned when their receivers express a desire to crossdress. Hearing personal stories can be heartening and enlightening. Enjoy!

Movember officially begins in November. I will indeed be participating once again with the same goal of $1000. I'm starting early (October 15th) because my goal this year is not a specific workout goal. Instead, it's a weight loss goal! This is why I am starting early. I plan to lose 15 pounds by the end of November and reverse the effects of the pandemic on my fitness. I'm strong from all my workouts but would love to be able to fit back into some of my clothes and move through the world more easily. Extra weight impacts me more intensely as I get older! And I need to stay fit so I can keep enthusiastically having my way with my partners...!

Please donate to the Movember fundraiser if you are able. They are doing such amazing work!

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I hope you enjoy podcast #301! I included a link to an instagram video from Joe Kort that relates to my new article posted on 7/2, "Men Like to Feel Beautiful and Wanted, Too". There's a lot to this line of thinking. I think the reasons that women are not as good at expressing their desire for men are complicated, but that doesn't mean that the desire to receive compliments and feel wanted is not there. Please take some time and consider this.

BIG SALE: Mr Hankey's is having a sale! From now until August 31st, the code SUMMER20 will get you 20% off storewide! Shop.

Happy Pegging and No Shame!

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