Presenting Podcast #283 for your listening pleasure!

• He wants to be slut shamed; she needs suggestions
• He masturbated with anal play in front of her, and has feels about it
• Trying to get his wife on board with pegging
• He's having trouble with penetration about 3-4 inches in
• He's curious about a cleaning bottle and toy sharing
• Pegging Celebration Time!
• He shares his love of anal play and then #112 sends them on their way!

• Dirty Talk Resources
  • Pleasure Mechanics Podcast
  • Dr. Liz Powell online course
  • Dr. Liz Powell free handout
  • Jordan Gray - article
  • book Exhibitionism for the Shy
  • book Nice Girl's Guide to Talking Dirty
• Podcast #112 - For potential Givers
• Puborectalis Muscle Diagram
• Study Showing UVC light effective against COVID
• Removing odors from silicone toys

• Budget douching bottle on (sorry) Amazon
• Puritize UVee UVC Toy Sanitizer
• Fuze Tango Double
• Realistic, softer double - Fuze Tango Real
• Unrealistic, softer double - Fuze Tango Flex
• We-Vibe Tango Bullet
• Fuze Freddie Suction Cup Dildo
• Silicone Willy 7.5" Dildo
• Neo Elite 7.5" Dildo Dual Density
• Limba Flex Bendable

Movember is almost upon us, and I will be once again raising money for this organization. They educate men about maintaining healthy prostates, and are making great strides in the area of men's mental health; getting out of the man box. As so many of you know if you have been listening to my podcast for a while, the man box is not only responsible for a lot of toxic masculinity, it figures in quite heavily when men approach pegging. this is why I talk about it so much! A couple of years ago I raised $1000 for Movember (and made the last $200 by posting pictures of my tits!). My goal is to equal that this year. Who knows...maybe the girls will make another showing!

Presenting Podcast #283 for your listening pleasure!

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• Want advice - When he asks for what he wants, she shuts him down
• She struggles with self-confidence and the learning curve
• He speaks eloquently about opening up and submission
• She understands her husband more after reading my story
• He wonders if pegging encourages cuckolding?

• Janet Hardy - The Sexually Dominant Woman
• Pegging Positions
• All the parts of the 'Being Seen' story for you!
• Part One - A Yearning to Inspire and Inform
• Part Two - Tell Me What You Want
• Part Three - Use Your Words, Sweetcakes
• Part Four - A Sound Fucking Commences
• Part Five - Two Weeks of Fond Memories
• Part Six - The Shyness of Being Seen

• SpareParts Sasha Harness
• SpareParts Bella Harness
• Off the Tongue Harnesses

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• Ruby shares a few (more) thoughts on Pegging and Orientation
• Relax, Respond, and React got him to his first HFO!
• She shares her views on what makes a good bottom!
• He's on his butt path, pegging will happen soon, & she's excited!
• He lets go of his shame, is honest with his partner, and finds a measure of peace
• Pegging Celebration Time!
• He tells their story of erotic anticipation and the better-than-fireworks that followed
• He speaks of men's need for emotional, physical, sensual and sexual openness, and the orgasms (not ejaculations) that can follow

• Anal Pleasure and Health - Jack Morin
• Podcast #112 for the Receivers
• Bawdy Storytelling Podcast - Flashback - Ruby tells a Story!

• Shop a curated selection of body-safe, non-toxic, luxury pleasure products (including awesome pegging equipment) at EnticeMe.com Coupon code Ryder for free shipping!

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• The need for receiver aftercare and what it can look like
• He's a newbie at prostate stimulation. First time kind of freaked him out.
• We all just want to be loved and accepted

• Tony Porter - A Call to Men
• Tony Porter - The Roles Men Play
• Podcast #250
• Brené Brown Listening to Shame
• Sex Positive Therapist Dr. Tom Murray

• Shop for Pegging Equipment at Entice Me!

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Givers! I would love to hear from you - In your pegging world, what makes a good bottom? Of course it's very individual for each giver and each couple. So tell me, what does your receiver do/not do to make your pegging experience most enjoyable? In this episode I talk about what I like, as well as some generalities that might be true for most givers (but not all!). Help me add to this list, or just tell me your stories!

Good Bottom Characteristics

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• Pegging Celebration Time!
• Communication was key. He tells their long story!
• She wonders what the clear liquid from her partner is?
• She shares some helpful resources of their path to pegging
• They are inspired by the long story request, and tell theirs!
• He is courageous, tells his wife about sucking the toy and his bi-curiosity
• His wife is not interested, even in butt plugs. What to do?
• He wonders how the Tango and Tango X measurements compare
• She is injured and unable to peg him - he's desperate for a replacement

• Emily Nagoski - Book - Come as You Are
• Pleasure Mechanics
• Comparison Photo of Tango and Tango X
• Dr. Tom Murray - Kink-friendly, sex-positive Therapist
• Podcast #112 - For the Ladies

• Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double
• SpareParts Sasha Harness
• We-Vibe Vector
• Aneros Vice 2
• Loki Wave
• Liberator Bon Bon Toy Mount
• Monkey Rocker
• Chinese Fucking Machine
• Suction cup toys

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• His solo anal play now involves his wife, but still no pegging, help?
• She's feeling very left out with his newfound love of pegging
• He's concerned about large girth toys and potential damage
• He waxes poetic about his sex life and has a few questions, too!
• He seeks information about lubes
• He seeks books on female dominance and a clit sucking toy
• New Discord Chat Groups open to all!

• Podcast #112
• Reddit Straight Pegging - discussion only
• Reddit Pegging - Porn only
• Reddit Pegging Unkinked - Non-BDSM Porn
• Dr. Tom Murray - Kink-friendly, sex-positive Therapist
• Podcast #271 - XL toy use info from listener (@end of podcast)
• Square Peg Width Play
• Square Peg Health and Safety Guide
• Bespoke Surgical About Anal looseness/care
• Bespoke Surgical How to Bottom
• Lube info from Tiffany
• Ferns - Books on Female Dominance
• Janet Hardy - The Sexually Dominant Woman
• Discord Chat Groups

• Liberator Bon Bon Toy Mount
• Monkey Rocker
• Chinese Fucking Machine
• Suction cup toys
• Sportsheets Thigh Harness
• Carmen Rivera Harness - search for 'Carmen Rivera'
• Spare Parts Tomboii Boxer Briefs Harness
• We-Vibe Tango bullet vibe
• Sensuelle Joie bullet vibe
• Lelo Sona 2
• Lora di Carlo Baci
• Sliquid Silk
• Fuze 10 Foreman (softer)
• Fuze 10 Ultra (softer)
• Fuze Alpha (firmer)
• Fuze Wilde (firmer)
• Fuze Harmony (firmer)
• Stabilizer ring
• Le Wand
• Sliquid Lubes

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• Photo credit - PrettyDomme
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• Pegging Celebration Time!
• His first time causes a loss of his faculties!
• He wants pegging. She doesn't.
• He wants pegging. Her, not so much.
• Their Strap On Me Double and Joque have issues
• He wants pegging. She doesn't want to see him as submissive.
• Upsizing from 7 x 1.5 to 10.5 x 1.75. Advice?
• A couple of Reddit tidbits
• He wants pegging. She doesn't want to see him as feminine.
• He sends me his thanks for 'opening him up'
• My thoughts about realistic toys and more

• Dr. Tom Murray, sex-positive couples therapist
• AASECT Referral for sex-positive therapists
• Podcast #112 for the Ladies
• Cowboy position
• Reverse Cowboy
• Chairman Position
• The Man Box

• Aslan Leather Jaguar
• Silicone O-Ring Set
• Stabilizer Ring
• Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double
• Liberator Bon Bon Toy Mount
• Monkey Rocker
• Chinese Fucking Machine
• Suction cup toys

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