• The need for receiver aftercare and what it can look like
• He's a newbie at prostate stimulation. First time kind of freaked him out.
• We all just want to be loved and accepted

• Tony Porter - A Call to Men
• Tony Porter - The Roles Men Play
• Podcast #250
• Brené Brown Listening to Shame
• Sex Positive Therapist Dr. Tom Murray

• Shop for Pegging Equipment at Entice Me!

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Givers! I would love to hear from you - In your pegging world, what makes a good bottom? Of course it's very individual for each giver and each couple. So tell me, what does your receiver do/not do to make your pegging experience most enjoyable? In this episode I talk about what I like, as well as some generalities that might be true for most givers (but not all!). Help me add to this list, or just tell me your stories!

Good Bottom Characteristics

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• Pegging Celebration Time!
• Communication was key. He tells their long story!
• She wonders what the clear liquid from her partner is?
• She shares some helpful resources of their path to pegging
• They are inspired by the long story request, and tell theirs!
• He is courageous, tells his wife about sucking the toy and his bi-curiosity
• His wife is not interested, even in butt plugs. What to do?
• He wonders how the Tango and Tango X measurements compare
• She is injured and unable to peg him - he's desperate for a replacement

• Emily Nagoski - Book - Come as You Are
• Pleasure Mechanics
• Comparison Photo of Tango and Tango X
• Dr. Tom Murray - Kink-friendly, sex-positive Therapist
• Podcast #112 - For the Ladies

• Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double
• SpareParts Sasha Harness
• We-Vibe Vector
• Aneros Vice 2
• Loki Wave
• Liberator Bon Bon Toy Mount
• Monkey Rocker
• Chinese Fucking Machine
• Suction cup toys

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• His solo anal play now involves his wife, but still no pegging, help?
• She's feeling very left out with his newfound love of pegging
• He's concerned about large girth toys and potential damage
• He waxes poetic about his sex life and has a few questions, too!
• He seeks information about lubes
• He seeks books on female dominance and a clit sucking toy
• New Discord Chat Groups open to all!

• Podcast #112
• Reddit Straight Pegging - discussion only
• Reddit Pegging - Porn only
• Reddit Pegging Unkinked - Non-BDSM Porn
• Dr. Tom Murray - Kink-friendly, sex-positive Therapist
• Podcast #271 - XL toy use info from listener (@end of podcast)
• Square Peg Width Play
• Square Peg Health and Safety Guide
• Bespoke Surgical About Anal looseness/care
• Bespoke Surgical How to Bottom
• Lube info from Tiffany
• Ferns - Books on Female Dominance
• Janet Hardy - The Sexually Dominant Woman
• Discord Chat Groups

• Liberator Bon Bon Toy Mount
• Monkey Rocker
• Chinese Fucking Machine
• Suction cup toys
• Sportsheets Thigh Harness
• Carmen Rivera Harness - search for 'Carmen Rivera'
• Spare Parts Tomboii Boxer Briefs Harness
• We-Vibe Tango bullet vibe
• Sensuelle Joie bullet vibe
• Lelo Sona 2
• Lora di Carlo Baci
• Sliquid Silk
• Fuze 10 Foreman (softer)
• Fuze 10 Ultra (softer)
• Fuze Alpha (firmer)
• Fuze Wilde (firmer)
• Fuze Harmony (firmer)
• Stabilizer ring
• Le Wand
• Sliquid Lubes

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• Photo credit - PrettyDomme
• FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/9700337?sp=1
• Only Fans: https://onlyfans.com/prettygfdomme

• Pegging Celebration Time!
• His first time causes a loss of his faculties!
• He wants pegging. She doesn't.
• He wants pegging. Her, not so much.
• Their Strap On Me Double and Joque have issues
• He wants pegging. She doesn't want to see him as submissive.
• Upsizing from 7 x 1.5 to 10.5 x 1.75. Advice?
• A couple of Reddit tidbits
• He wants pegging. She doesn't want to see him as feminine.
• He sends me his thanks for 'opening him up'
• My thoughts about realistic toys and more

• Dr. Tom Murray, sex-positive couples therapist
• AASECT Referral for sex-positive therapists
• Podcast #112 for the Ladies
• Cowboy position
• Reverse Cowboy
• Chairman Position
• The Man Box

• Aslan Leather Jaguar
• Silicone O-Ring Set
• Stabilizer Ring
• Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double
• Liberator Bon Bon Toy Mount
• Monkey Rocker
• Chinese Fucking Machine
• Suction cup toys

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Pegging Paradise Podcast #274 - Great News!

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• I'm on Tiktok!
• He's seeking harness guidance
• He votes for listeners' whole (long) stories!
• She'd love some new newbie guidance
• He has equipment questions
• He enjoys dominant pegging with a little pain - it that healthy?
• He's got some questions about finding his prostate
• They love pegging & want to add dominance & submission

• Ruby on TikTok
• Strap On Me Vibrating Double Review
• Strap On Me Vibrating Double Testimonials
• The Sexually Dominant Woman - Janet Hardy
• Various books on Female Dominance - Sharyn Ferns
• Cowboy/Reverse Cowboy Position
• Chairman Position
• Corner of Bed
• Doggy - him doing the work position

• Strap On Me Bendable Vibrating Double
• Aslan Leather Minx
• Spareparts Sasha
• Aslan double up cuff (comes with Minx)
• Silicone O-Ring Set
• B-Vibe Triplet Vibrating Butt Plug w/remote
• B-Vibe Snug Plugs
• B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plugs
• Dental Dams for Rimming
• Good Starter Dildos
• Avant Ergo Mini (dual density)
• Avant Purple Haze (firmer)
• Strap On Me Metallic (firmer)
• Strap On Me Bendable Single (dual density)
• Fuze 10 Phoenix (softer w/vibe)
• Other Links
• Fuze Tango Double (firmer, unrealistic)
• Fuze Tango Real Double (softer, realistic)
• Fuze Tango Flex Double (softer, unrealistic)
• We-Vibe Tango Minivibe (best bullet vibe)
• 8" NYTC Mason (dual density)
• 8" Silicone Willy (firmer)
• 8" Godmiche Adam (soft or firm & girthier)
• 8" Vixen Creations Slim (dual density)
• Liberator Whirl Bolster
• JimSupport Sex Swing

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• More input about ED after initial pegging
• Great description of prostate orgasm vs penile orgasm
• He shares the story of how they finally got to pegging
• He writes back with details of their first time!
• He reflects on their pegging, eloquently
• Pegging Celebration Time!
• She conquers her concerns, tries pegging and LOVES it
• He wants her to get more pleasure from pegging
• He wants to know if anal play every day is safe
• She's looking for distance play ideas
• He needs clarification about rectal douching

• Intimacy and Pegging - Article
• Strap On Me Vibrating Double Review
• 3D model of the clitoris
• Debunking the Existence of the G-spot
• Anal safety rules
• We-Vibe Vector reviews podcast #268
• Distance Chastity Play That's Safe!
• Podcast #269 - Chastity Info and links
• How to Clean Out Your Ass

• Vanity Harness
• Spareparts Deuce Harness
• Strap On Me Vibrating Double
• Bumpher dildo base cover
• Shagger dildo base cover
• We-Vibe Moxie panty vibe
• B-Vibe Triplet butt plug
• We-Vibe Vector app prostate massager
• Igloohome Keybox3
• Ergoflo Pro Director Rectal Bulb Syringe
• B-Vibe Lube Applicators

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