In this talk, Jogen explores how our relationships—especially with family—can become genuine fields of practice. He challenges the assumption that practice only happens on the cushion, offering instead a vision of relational life as an arena for choosing “the bigger heart.” Through principles such as breaking through indifference, pausing when triggered, cultivating curiosity, and listening with an empty, receptive mind, he shows how connection requires intention, not luck. Jogen emphasizes that we’re not fixed beings and that every moment offers a chance to shift out of self-protection and into presence. These teachings offer practical guidance for meeting family and community with clarity, warmth, and wholeheartedness.
This talk was given during the Sunday Program at Great Vow on Novemeber 23 2025.