In this episode, Tamika Carlton shares how building genuine, human relationships - not automation, not algorithms - is the most powerful growth tool in business and in life. She breaks down how simple acts of intentional connection, like a thoughtful DM or a genuine compliment, can open doors to trust, collaboration, and impact. You’ll hear how Tamika’s creative approach to outreach, including her “Friend in My Head” video series, has sparked meaningful connections with people all over the world, without ever feeling salesy or scripted.Listeners will walk away with a mindset shift around what it actually takes to grow a community, attract aligned clients, and show up more fully as yourself. This is a conversation about leading with authenticity, creating reciprocal value, and remembering that behind every brand, handle, or email is a real person. Whether you’re craving deeper friendships, better client relationships, or more ease in your networking, this episode will challenge you to lead with heart, not hustle.
  Timestamps:

• 00:03:45 – Why Digital Connection Isn’t Enough Anymore
• 00:08:12 – How a Simple Voice Memo Sparked Real Growth
• 00:15:06 – Relationship First, Strategy Second: What Actually Works
• 00:22:30 – The Happiness Gap and Why We Need Each Other
• 00:36:20 – Shoot Your Shot: The One Relationship Away Mindset

 Resources:

• Set up a free Introductory Business Planning Session with Shauna Lynn: AboutShaunaLynn.com/plan
• Learn more about the show: AboutShaunaLynn.com/podcast
• Episode #12, Mastering the Business of Interior Design Entrepreneurship with Claire Jefford: https://www.aboutshaunalynn.com/rwrb-podcast-episodes/mastering-the-business-of-interior-design-entrepreneurship

 Tamika Carlton Collective:

• Learn more about Tamika: https://tamikacarlton.com/
• Join Tamika's Community (Receive 90% Off using the code REALWOMEN): https://www.patreon.com/TamikaCarlton
• Follow Tamika on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tamika.carlton.1/
• Follow Tamika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp/
• Follow Tamika on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealConnect_TamikaCarlton

About Tamika:
Tamika Carlton is a powerhouse entrepreneur, relationship expert, and the visionary behind The Real Connect Podcast. She is on a mission to transform the way people build meaningful connections. With a bold goal of growing Real Connect to 1 million members, Tamika is determined to shatter the statistic that only 14% of people are truly happy.

She has discovered that quality relationships, both platonic and romantic, are the key to unlocking happiness, increasing income, and improving overall health. As the CEO and Founder of Couples Experience, she is changing lives through inclusive and luxurious retreats and a thriving community dedicated to strengthening connections.

Tamika’s expertise and influence have earned her features on The Oprah Winfrey Show, Black Enterprise, The Hello Seven Podcast, The Success Journey Podcast, Authority Magazine, and more. She recently shared her deeply personal journey of almost losing her husband to an unexpected health crisis—a moment that forced her to confront the weight of being "the strong one" and the lasting impact of PTSD. This experience deepened her understanding of pain, vulnerability, and the universal need for genuine connection, fueling her passion to help others cultivate relationships that truly matter.