Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well.

I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it.

Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy.

That would be “unconscious celibacy”.

Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward. 

This could be for any number of reasons, such as: 

• to recover and heal after a breakup 
• to take stock and try and change patterns and behaviours in relationships before starting a new one 
• Up-levelling parts of your life before your next relationship, so that you are in a better place to welcome someone into your space and life

I often talk having had some of my most well-fucked periods of my life, when I was single.

If you know anything about my work, the way I define “well-f**ked” isn’t just about “having lots of sex”.

It’s having lots of gourmet, conscious, life-changing sex and channeling your sexual, pro-creative energy out into the world as a manifesting power to birth and shape your reality.

So how do we do this?

Show notes and product links here:

https://kimanami.com/conscious-celibacy/