Welcome back to The Masked Swingers pod! This week, we are joined by the incredible coach and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, Ally Iseman! You may have also seen her as the consent fairy flitting around LA’s The Play. In this episode we explore what it means to open up a relationship in a healthy, intentional way, and Layla and Brian get vulnerable with their own relationships with the help of Ally. This episode is so juicy!

Passport 2 Pleasure offers coaching to couples who want to start in the Lifestyle, empowering them to navigate this new chapter in their life with tools! Download her free Relationship Ratio workbook to see if your relationship is ready to open up without blowing up!

Topics Covered

• Common mistakes of couples coming into the space
• Open vs Poly vs Swinger: different relationship dynamics
• Vetting for male partners
• Effective communication
• Self Governance and consequences
• Boundaries vs Agreement
• Agreement is a living breathing document to be revised
• Spending more time on what you want vs what you avoid
• Building a safe container for your relationship
• Managing the 4 types of Jealousy
• Handling mistakes
• Taking responsibilities

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