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By Stephen Seckler: attorney career, marketing and leadership coach
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One of the questions I hear most frequently from lawyers who are unhappy practicing law is: What else can I do with a law degree? Making that transition can be difficult, particularly when you've spent years building expertise and credibility as a lawyer and suddenly find yourself trying to convince employers that your skills translate to something very different. My guest on this episode of Counsel to Counsel is Shireen Hilal, CEO of Maior, a consulting firm that helps law firms and other professional services firms improve their strategy, operations, growth, and profitability. Shireen began her career as a BigLaw litigator and practiced for about a decade before moving to the business side of professional services. She went on to hold senior roles at BDO and KPMG, served as COO of a national law firm, led growth for a communications consulting firm, and ultimately launched her own consulting business. What makes Shireen's story particularly useful for lawyers contemplating a career change is that she did not have an MBA or a traditional background in business, strategy, or operations. She had to figure out how to translate her legal experience into something employers could understand and value. She also had to deal with a lot of rejection along the way. In our conversation, we discuss how she figured out what interested her, how she broke into her first nonlegal role, the value of persistence and preparation, and which skills from practicing law proved most transferable. We also talk about the importance of curiosity, networking, taking initiative, and being willing to do more than simply submit a résumé. For lawyers who know they want something different but aren't sure what comes next, Shireen's career is a good reminder that leaving legal practice does not mean throwing away your legal training. Key Takeaways Your first move out of legal practice may be the hardest one. Shireen sent out many résumés and experienced a lot of rejection before BDO was willing to take a chance on her. She also took a pay cut to make the transition. Applying for jobs may not be enough. Shireen tried to identify the decision-maker and contact that person directly, explaining why she was interested and what she thought she could contribute despite lacking the traditional experience. Networking and persistence can help bridge the experience gap. Shireen succeeded largely through cold outreach, but we also discuss why relationships can make a career transition easier and why being able to hear "no" and keep going matters. Taking initiative can change the trajectory of your career. As a first-year associate doing document review, Shireen identified important documents, organized them, and brought them directly to the senior partner. That initiative quickly led to greater responsibility. Legal skills can be highly transferable. Attention to detail, problem-solving, preparation, curiosity, understanding facts, and figuring out what actually needs to get done have all been valuable throughout Shireen's business career. Explore before deciding what comes next. If you know you want to leave practice but don't know what you want to do instead, talk to people about their work. Learn what they actually do every day. Curiosity can help you identify possibilities you might not otherwise have considered. Leaving practice doesn't mean throwing away your legal training. Shireen believes her experience practicing law and running a law firm remains an important part of the value and credibility she brings to her consulting clients. Preparation can compensate for a lack of experience. Before interviewing for a chief of staff role at a major airline, Shireen studied the company and its competitors extensively. Her advice to lawyers is to use what they already know how to do well: dig into the facts, develop conclusions, and demonstrate how they would approach the job. Timestamps 00:05 – What else can you do with a law degree? 02:09 – Shireen's path from BigLaw litigation to the business side 10:13 – Realizing traditional legal practice wasn't the right fit 13:19 – Breaking into business without an MBA or traditional business background 16:19 – Networking, cold outreach, rejection, and persistence 21:00 – The legal skills that transfer to business roles 34:05 – What to do when you want to leave law but don't know what comes next 38:40 – Why leaving practice doesn't mean throwing away your legal training

Why are lawyers so good at spotting problems and sometimes so bad at letting them go? For more than two decades, I've followed the research of Dr. Larry Richard, widely recognized as the leading expert on the psychology of lawyer behavior. His work has had a profound impact on my own career and provides a foundation for much of the coaching work I do with lawyers. His research has helped me understand not only my clients, but also my own tenancies and why so many of us who went to law school think and react the way we do. In this episode of Counsel to Counsel, Larry joins me to discuss his new book, Thin-Skinned: Why Lawyers Are So Low in Resilience, and the New Science That Can Help, that he co-authored with his wife Dr. D'Arcy Lyness (published by the American Bar Association.) Larry's research shows that lawyers differ significantly from the general population on a number of personality traits. Most strikingly, 90% of lawyers score below the 50th percentile for psychological resilience compared to the general public. The same skepticism and problem-spotting abilities that help us practice law effectively can make us more prone to negative thinking, defensiveness, and difficulty dealing with uncertainty, criticism, and change. The encouraging news is that resilience is highly learnable. Larry explains the practical ways that lawyers can strengthen their resilience by reducing negative thinking, increasing positive emotions, developing stronger social connections, and taking better care of themselves. We also discuss how these ideas apply to career development, business development, leadership, feedback, and the everyday challenges lawyers face. I've practiced and recommended many of these techniques for years including mindfulness, gratitude, exercise, cultivating relationships, and challenging negative thinking. Thin-Skinned gave me a much deeper understanding of why they work and offers many new ideas that I can use both personally and with my coaching clients. Key Takeaways Lawyers really are psychologically different. Larry's decades of research identify seven traits on which lawyers tend to be outliers: skepticism, autonomy, abstract reasoning, urgency, sociability, cognitive empathy, and resilience. The traits that make us effective lawyers can work against us elsewhere. Skepticism and looking for what could go wrong are enormously valuable when practicing law, but carrying that mindset into our personal and professional relationships can undermine resilience. Being "thin-skinned" doesn't mean being weak. A lawyer may confidently handle an aggressive opposing counsel yet become defensive when a colleague questions their behavior. Ambiguous interpersonal situations are often where low resilience shows up. Resilience can be learned. Unlike many personality traits, resilience is heavily influenced by learning and experience, which means there are concrete things we can do to improve it. Thoughts, feelings, and actions reinforce one another. Changing any one of the three can influence the others. For lawyers who struggle with rejection in business development or career advancement, simply taking action repeatedly can reduce the sense of threat over time. Positive emotions aren't just "feel-good" exercises. Music, gratitude, nature, exercise, and other positive experiences have measurable effects that can help counteract the physiological impact of stress and negative emotions. Relationships are a powerful source of resilience. Strong, authentic social connections help us absorb stress and cope with change. That is particularly important for lawyers, who tend to score lower on sociability. Law firm leaders need to understand lawyer resilience. Leaders who default to fixing deficiencies and react defensively to suggestions can undermine trust. Strengths-based leadership and an understanding of how low-resilience lawyers respond to feedback can produce better results. Timestamps 00:04 – Why Dr. Larry Richard's work has influenced my career and coaching 05:44 – The seven personality traits that make lawyers different 09:44 – Why 90% of lawyers are "thin-skinned" 16:36 – The good news: resilience can be learned 21:01 – The science and importance of positive emotions 28:03 – Taking action despite fear, uncertainty, and rejection 37:20 – Where to start if building resilience feels overwhelming 44:40 – What law firm leaders can do to build more resilient workplaces About Dr. Larry Richard Dr. Larry Richard began his career as a lawyer before earning a Ph.D. in psychology and devoting his career to studying lawyers and lawyer behavior. His research has helped law firms and lawyers better understand leadership, management, well-being, personality, and change. His new book, Thin-Skinned: Why Lawyers Are So Low in Resilience, and the New Science That Can Help, co-authored with Dr. D'Arcy Lyness, is available from the American Bar Association. Larry describes it not simply as an explanation of why lawyers struggle with resilience, but as a practical collection of evidence-based strategies for doing something about it. Learn more about Dr. Richard, his work, and the book at https://www.lawyerbrain.com/.

In this episode, Stephen Seckler speaks with Michele Correnti about branding, websites, LinkedIn, content marketing, and how AI is changing the way law firms market themselves. They discuss what lawyers should do before and after launching a solo or small firm to build visibility, attract the right clients, and stay top of mind with referral sources. Michele Correnti, founder and CEO of Correnti Marketing, shares practical advice drawn from years of working with law firms and other professional service businesses. If you're thinking about launching a practice or rethinking your firm's online presence, this conversation is packed with tactical guidance. Key Takeaways Branding is more than a logo. Start marketing before launch day. Specificity attracts better clients. Niches can expand opportunity. Personal branding matters. LinkedIn should be used strategically. Websites should reflect the real audience. AI is a tool, not a replacement. Timestamps 00:00 - Why legal marketing matters after launching a firm 00:48 - Why potential clients won't find you automatically 01:16 - Michele Correnti's background in professional services marketing 03:43 - Photography, headshots, and visual branding 05:15 - What to do six months before leaving a firm 07:50 - Why your brand is really your reputation 09:16 - Using an ideal client to sharpen your message 16:04 - Personal LinkedIn profiles versus company pages 19:15 - How AI is changing SEO and search visibility 23:00 - Common online presence mistakes lawyers make 27:09 - Launching a firm as a coordinated campaign 32:58 - Where AI helps and where the human voice still matters 37:17 - The risks and opportunities of AI-generated images 40:47 - Three marketing priorities for the first 90 days

Starting your own law firm can be one of the most exciting and rewarding career moves a lawyer can make. But amid the excitement of choosing a name, finding clients, and building a practice, it's easy to overlook ethical and operational issues that can create problems down the road. In this episode, Steve Seckler speaks with Mike Rossi, a partner at the law firm Conn Kavanaugh in Boston. Mike focuses on professional liability, business litigation, and advising lawyers and law firms on professional responsibility and risk management. Together, they walk through the ethical and practical issues lawyers should think about when starting a new practice, especially the decisions that need to be made before a firm opens its doors. The conversation begins with the obligations lawyers have when leaving a firm, including how to notify clients appropriately and why client choice matters. Mike explains the importance of handling departures harmoniously, avoiding premature client outreach, and understanding the fiduciary duties involved in a transition. The episode explores marketing and business development and operational issues. Mike and Steve also discuss supervision responsibilities, the ethical use of AI tools, co-counsel arrangements, referral disclosures, and the risks that can arise when lawyers take on unfamiliar matters too quickly. This episode is a reminder that a little prevention early on can save a lot of trouble later. Key Takeaways Leaving a firm starts with your obligations to the firm and your clients, not your new business plan. Clients ultimately choose where their matters go, and a joint communication is the safest way to notify them. Legal tech competence is part of modern professional competence, so your systems should be ready on day one. IOLTA and trust accounting are high-risk areas for new solos and deserve careful setup before taking client funds. Marketing must avoid false or misleading claims, especially around results, specialization, and expertise. AI, supervision, and conflict checks all require active oversight; "set it and forget it" creates risk. Key Topics Ethical obligations when leaving a law firm and managing client relationships How to navigate conflicts of interest, client notifications, and joint communications Essential technology and systems for risk management, including trust accounts and practice management tools Marketing and advertising rules: do's and don'ts for building your brand online The role of AI and emerging technologies in legal practice and supervision responsibilities Best practices for growth: supervision, hiring, and managing non-lawyer participation Preparing for launch: conflict checks, IOLTA setup, and ethical pitfalls to avoid Timestamps 00:40 - Responsibilities of law firm owners beyond client acquisition 01:37 - Ethical challenges: client intake, conflicts, and engagement letters 05:24 - ABA guidance on leaving a firm and client transition rules 06:16 - Client autonomy in choosing where matters go 12:08 - Ethical duty of technological competence and practice management tools 13:48 - Trust accounting: setting up compliant IOLTA accounts 16:13 - Advertising and online marketing rules 28:44 - Using AI tools responsibly and supervising outputs

Many lawyers assume their career options begin and end with practicing law. In this episode, Steve speaks with Tony Waller, a lawyer, educator, former nonprofit CEO, and career development leader whose career demonstrates the many ways a legal education can lead to meaningful and rewarding work. Tony discusses his journey from private practice to recruiting, law school career services, nonprofit leadership, and higher education administration. Along the way, he shares practical advice for lawyers and law students who are considering career transitions, searching for more meaningful work, or wondering how to leverage their legal skills outside of traditional practice. Whether you're happy practicing law or considering a different path, this conversation will broaden your perspective on what a successful legal career can look like. Key Takeaways Your legal skills are highly transferable and can create opportunities well beyond traditional legal practice. Career transitions are most successful when they're intentional rather than reactions to temporary dissatisfaction. Lawyers need to become comfortable identifying and communicating the value they bring to employers and clients. Law schools offer rewarding career paths in career development, student affairs, advancement, and administration. Volunteer leadership and nonprofit board service can expand your network while developing valuable leadership skills. Strong professional relationships often lead to career opportunities before positions are ever publicly posted. Before making a career change, identify exactly what is making you unhappy so you don't repeat the same mistakes. Career success isn't a race—focus on continuous growth rather than comparing your timeline to others. Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Tony Waller's unconventional legal career 04:05 Why Tony left legal practice and the transferable skills lawyers possess 12:05 Career opportunities for lawyers in law school administration 15:20 Transitioning into nonprofit leadership and serving as a CEO 20:30 Networking, relationship building, and the hidden job market 22:45 How legal career development has changed over the past two decades 25:00 Advice for lawyers considering a career transition 29:45 Final career advice and Tony's recommendation for the TV series Shrinking Connect with Tony Waller Tony Waller University of Georgia School of Law Email: [email protected] Connect with Steve Seckler To schedule a free 30-minute consultation or access free career, leadership, and business development resources for lawyers, visit www.seckler.com. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a colleague who may be exploring new career possibilities.
The podcast currently has 186 episodes available.