In today's episode, Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith is back to share relationship advice that you will not be able to unhear!

This week, we discuss The Drama Triangle, a Conscious Living coaching technique designed to improve your relationships with others...and yourself! Find out how you are writing yourself as the victim (and two other toxic roles) in your life and become the author of your life instead. It's time to write a new story! (One you actually like.)

If you are someone who wants to have better relationships with your partner, friends, and even co-workers and are ready to take some personal responsibility for your life, this episode is for you!

And if you know someone who is caught in their own drama triangle and wants to get OUT, send this episode to them.

"Aren't you tired of playing the "poor me" card? It's time to put your power back in your life." -- Meg

Connect with Meg:

• Get Meg's free Manifesting Masterclass to begin creating your Best Life Ever today
• Watch the episodes on YouTube
• Follow Meg on Instagram
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• Change your negative thoughts into POSITIVE ones in only 21 days
• Subscribe to Meg's newsletter
• Disclaimer

In this episode:

• What is the Drama Triangle?
• How to use the Drama Triangle to stop sitting in victimhood in your own life.
• How to take a realistic and unbiased approach to difficulty or drama in your life.
• How to improve your relationships by identifying where you are in the Drama Triangle

In today's episode, I'm reviewing the biggest goal setting tips and sharing some out-of-the-box advice on why you're actually self-sabotaging yourself out of achieving your goals.

If you are looking for some success strategies and are looking for that motivation booster to actually achieve your goals, this episode is for you.

And if you know someone who is overcoming obstacles to actually hit their goals as well, send this episode to them!

"The number 1 reason you're not hitting your goals? YOU DIDN'T ACTUALLY SET ANY." -- Meg

Connect with Meg:

• Get Meg's free Manifesting Masterclass to begin creating your Best Life Ever today
• Watch the episodes on YouTube
• Follow Meg on Instagram
• Follow The Create Your Fate Podcast on Instagram
• Take your FREE Enneagram Test
• Change your negative thoughts into POSITIVE ones in only 21 days
• Subscribe to Meg's newsletter
• Disclaimer

In this episode:

• The top reasons why you're not hitting your goals.
• How simply making a DECISION is going to be an absolute game-changer, turning failure into success.
• Why it's important to NOT start with action when going after goals -- and what to begin with instead.
• How celebration can be used to actually trick your mind into persevering.

Check out this podcast episode I was a guest on that inspired this episode of Create Your Fate!

In today's episode, I teach you how to use your biggest resource -- your body -- to trick your mind into feeling how you want to feel, thinking what you actually want to think, and getting what you want to get in life!

These mind-body connection techniques are quite unconventional to the typical mindset manipulation strategies you are used to, going against the classic "mind over body" methods you've seen before.

If you are someone whose mind is in constant overdrive and you'd love some life hacks on how to help trick it back, this episode is for you.

And if you know someone who would love to know how to use their body to trick their own mind as well, send them this episode!

"It's all mental...is a load of BS." -- Meg

Connect with Meg:

• Get Meg's free Manifesting Masterclass to begin creating your Best Life Ever today
• Watch the episodes on YouTube
• Follow Meg on Instagram
• Follow The Create Your Fate Podcast on Instagram
• Take your FREE Enneagram Test
• Change your negative thoughts into POSITIVE ones in only 21 days
• Subscribe to Meg's newsletter

In this episode:

• See how a simple body posture or position can completely change your mood.
• Learn how to use your body to slow your mind down.
• Learn the power of being present and how to use your body to leave anxiety behind.
• See the power in mind WITH matter, rather than mind OVER matter.

In today's episode, we're breaking down ALL the words you say that are ruining your life! Yes, you are stripping your own power away and keeping yourself stuck, miserable, overwhelmed, and unsuccessful -- with the words you say out loud!

If you have been feeling powerless in your own life and want to see how to begin to IMMEDIATELY empower yourself by learning what to say to create a life filled with happiness and peace, this episode is for you.

And if you know someone who keeps speaking negativity into their life and is stuck spinning in a negative spiral, send them this episode!

"Stop using the word "try" -- you're not giving yourself credit for all the hard work you've already done. No wonder why you feel like crap!" -- Meg

Connect with Meg:

• Get Meg's free Manifesting Masterclass to begin creating your Best Life Ever today
• Watch the episodes on YouTube
• Follow Meg on Instagram
• Follow The Create Your Fate Podcast on Instagram
• Take your FREE Enneagram Test
• Change your negative thoughts into POSITIVE ones in only 21 days
• Subscribe to Meg's newsletter

In this episode:

• See why your words are magic spells and are creating you to be stuck & overwhelmed
• See how your speech affects your manifesting powers
• Learn toxic phrases that you say every day that are stealing your power
• See what positive reframes you can replace the negativity with

In today's episode, I have the newest coach to my team, Jasleen Kaur, join me to talk about how to let go of things that aren't serving your highest good. People. Jobs. Toxic relationships. Habits. EVERYTHING. Let. THEM. Go! 

If you have been feeling weighed down by holding onto things or people that you know aren't for you anymore, or you if don't know how to identify what's not for you anymore, this episode is for you.

And if you know someone who keeps spinning in circles, unable to reach their potential because they just can't stop holding onto the past, send them this episode!

"First question -- are they a fountain or are they a drain?" -- Meg

Connect with Meg:

• Get Meg's free Manifesting Masterclass to begin creating your Best Life Ever today
• Watch the episodes on YouTube
• Follow Meg on Instagram
• Follow The Create Your Fate Podcast on Instagram
• Take your FREE Enneagram Test
• Change your negative thoughts into POSITIVE ones in only 21 days
• Subscribe to Meg's newsletter

In this episode:

• Learn why it feels so hard to let things go
• Identify what is not serving your highest good and HOLDING YOU BACK
• Learn this SIMPLE trick to see if someone is FOR you or not
• See how to send people off with LOVE -- it does not have to be a toxic and dramatic parting of ways

News flash: Life is designed to work out for you! Today as I share a powerful mantra that changed my entire perspective of my life and allowed me to accept that life could be favorable for me. There is so much goodness out there for you — you just might be closed off to receiving it!

Tune into this week's episode of Create Your Fate to learn how to change your mindset into one that views life working out for you. Overcome life's hurdles and problems by changing your perspective first -- and then tackle the big stuff!

"You have survived 100% of the things that have happened to you." -- Life Coach Meg Ellis

In This Episode:

-Learn how to create the identity of someone who life works out for

-Listen to the power mantra that will allow you to trust your outcomes

-Learn how to see rejection differently and use it for your good

-See the perspective shift this is an absolute game-changer for overcoming obstacles

Connect with Meg Ellis:

Website – https://www.letscreateyourfate.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/letscreateyourfate/?hl=en

Resources:

Take your FREE Enneagram test:

https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

NEW DIGITAL COURSE DROP: TAKE 21 DAYS TO POSITIVE THOUGHTS

https://letscreateyourfate.mykajabi.com/offers/FRLHUYMp/checkout

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Want to be happier? Look around because you’re missing it! Join me today as we dive into easy places you are missing out on happiness in your life and learn how to unlock happiness in your life — no, this podcast does not teach you how to get that dream home or get one million dollars so you can finally be happy. I’ve got something even better — because the good news is, you don’t have to wait! You can be happy TODAY.

Tune into today's episode for 3 happiness hacks that can lead you to finding bliss in everyday life.

"No amount of anxiety changes the future. No amount of guilt changes the past." -- Life Coach Meg Ellis

In This Episode:

-Discover the 3 ways you are missing out on happiness

-Learn why and where your mind is looking for for unhappiness

-Learn to rewire your brain using a powerful tool of gratitude 

-Learn how to use your body to be happier 

"I'll Be Happy When" sister episode:

APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep105-do-you-have-ill-be-happy-when-syndrome/id1589873893?i=1000624700777

SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1I7Vu0l2ZQgQe19N5bWlyQ

Connect with Meg Ellis:

Website – https://www.letscreateyourfate.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/letscreateyourfate/?hl=en

Resources:

Take your FREE Enneagram test:

https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

NEW DIGITAL COURSE DROP: TAKE 21 DAYS TO POSITIVE THOUGHTS

https://letscreateyourfate.mykajabi.com/offers/FRLHUYMp/checkout

#lifecoach #coaching #enneagram #NLP #manifest #procrastination #mindsettechniques #mindset #bepresent #happiness

Are you someone who struggles with the idea of not feeling enough? I’m not good enough. I’m not pretty enough. I’m not doing enough. I’m not smart enough. The list goes on! Today, I’m going to show you how you ARE enough!

We’ll review how to shift your self-worth internally and stop seeking approval and validation from others to feel good about yourself. If you’re ready to stop dogging on yourself and learn how to actually like yourself, tune into today’s episode of Create Your Fate.

"You'll never outperform your self-image."

In This Episode:

-See why you may have a poor self-image and learn how to change it

-Define your “deserve level” (and have it match your "desire" level!)

-Redefine what success truly means and acknowledge what you’ve done so far

-How you might be linking your self worth to external things

Connect with Meg Ellis:

Website – https://www.letscreateyourfate.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/letscreateyourfate/?hl=en

Resources:

Take your FREE Enneagram test:

https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

NEW DIGITAL COURSE DROP: TAKE 21 DAYS TO POSITIVE THOUGHTS

https://letscreateyourfate.mykajabi.com/offers/FRLHUYMp/checkout

#lifecoach #coaching #enneagram #NLP #manifest #procrastination #mindsettechniques #mindset #worthiness #selfworth

Scrap your to-do list and do this instead! Yes, your beloved to-do list - you know that one that just keeps getting longer and is never ending — is going bye bye. On today’s episode, I’m going to give you the #1 trick to getting MORE done in LESS time — and it doesn’t require adding item after item to a list and obsessing over checking all the boxes to feel good about yourself. Let's maximize your day with these simple and easy time-management tips...these time-management strategies are a bit out of the box from the conventional methods you've likely tried. (You know, those ones that don't work?)

We’ll go over a phrase that is KILLING your most previous resource - time! And go over some time-management hacks for procrastination to set you up for efficient routines to increase your daily productivity...while keeping your energetic vibration UP!

"You don't have a problem being late. You have a problem saying 'yes' to everything." -- Life Coach Meg Ellis

In This Episode:

-Hear the the #1 phrase that is killing your time-management

-Understand the beliefs that are making you procrastinate

-Learn how to do LESS and still get more done

-Learn how to make time expand for you

Connect with Meg Ellis:

Website – https://www.letscreateyourfate.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/letscreateyourfate/?hl=en

Resources:

Take your FREE Enneagram test:

https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

NEW DIGITAL COURSE DROP: TAKE 21 DAYS TO POSITIVE THOUGHTS

https://letscreateyourfate.mykajabi.com/offers/FRLHUYMp/checkout

#lifecoach #coaching #enneagram #NLP #manifest #procrastination #mindsettechniques #mindset #timemanagement

Going places in life -- but basing everything off you're potential? You're doing it WRONG! If you’re feeling stuck in a rut and not sure you're headed in the right direction, today’s episode is for you. How do you get what you want? Stop doing all the things — because it’s not what you’re doing wrong, it’s what you’re thinking wrong.

That’s right - We are backing it up. Cut the incessant action and learn how to continue a less-stressful, less hectic life filled with inspired action. Today, I review the absolutely imperative kicker to getting what you desire in life -- and it has NOTHING to do with your potential. Learn why you procrastinate -- and instead, slow down and prioritize INSPIRED action. Ready to create your fate? Let’s do it!

Be sure to subscribe for more personal growth insights, self-improvement tips, and life coaching techniques for meaningful relationships.

"It's not about the potential that you have...it's about the amount of potential you are willing to tap into." -- Life Coach Meg Ellis

In This Episode:

-See where your "potential" is misleading you

-The difference between incessant action and inspired action

-Learn how to do LESS and still get more done

-See how aligning your beliefs to your desire will eliminate your "bad potential"

Check out this graphic for a visual for today's episode:

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Connect with Meg Ellis:

Website – https://www.letscreateyourfate.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/letscreateyourfate/?hl=en

Resources:

Take your FREE Enneagram test:

https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

NEW DIGITAL COURSE DROP: TAKE 21 DAYS TO POSITIVE THOUGHTS

https://letscreateyourfate.mykajabi.com/offers/FRLHUYMp/checkout

#lifecoach #coaching #enneagram #NLP #manifest #procrastination #mindsettechniques #mindset #timemanagement