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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What are Shandy's thoughts on giving it another go with an ex who used to give you The Ick—Is it "Once Ick, Always Ick"? If your generosity with friends feels under appreciated, is it worth bringing up? And if your bestie plans an elaborate Bachelorette party getaway, as a bridesmaid, does not wanting to go make you the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: I’m Interested In Trying Again With My Newly Single Ex-Turned-Friend Who Used To Give Me The Ick—Shandy’s Advice?

11:08 - Q2: How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Coworker And Her Gossip Mill?

23:36 - Q3: I Was Generous With My Friends But Was Shown Little Appreciation—Who’s The A-Hole Here?

38:04 - Q4: AITA For Not Wanting To Attend An Entire 8-Day Bachelorette Getaway?

46:04 - Q5: I’m Furious My Mother-In-Law Is Backing Out Of A Very Costly Agreement—Help!

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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:02 - Episode 2 Kick Off

3:56 - Group Date #1

13:09 - Evening

19:49 - Daisy’s 1-On-1

22:08 - Evening

24:20 - Group Date #2

27:17 - Evening

32:15 - The Next Day

34:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

45:14 - Rose Ceremony

45:51 - Andy’s A-Game

46:50 - Shandy Word Watch

49:03 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Lauren. She's found herself in a longterm, on-and-off yet surprisingly comfortable FWB situation with a "friend". It's time for this to end.... or is it? Is there actually any harm in enjoying the comforts of familiarity? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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0:00 - Welcome To Caller Lauren!

20:14 - The Question

22:10 - Shandy Sleuthing

41:13 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

1:09 - Joey

4:06 - Premiere Kick Off

5:57 - Night One

7:40 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

13:19 - Joey’s Toast

15:38 - Notable 1-On-1 Time

32:42 - Lea & Her “Special Card”

37:27 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d

40:17 - First Impression Rose

41:22 - Rose Ceremony

42:29 - Andy’s A-Game

43:38 - Shandy Word Watch

45:05 - Shandy’s Predictions

49:19 - Shandy’s Wild Cards

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! In Episode 10, Shandy told a caller not to put "doesn't drink" in her dating profile—3 years and a sober social movement later, have they changed their tune? If your mother-in-law calls just to chat on the phone too often for comfort, how to ease phone-talking anxiety or to lessen the pressure without hurting anyone's feelings? And what if your husband wants to give your baby daughter a middle name you hate? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:27 - Q1: You Once Told A Shandy Not To Put “Doesn’t Drink” In Their Dating Profile—3 Years Later, Do You Still Feel This Way?

8:51 - Q2: My Mother-In-Law Calls Too Often And It Gives Me Anxiety—Help!

27:14 - Q3: My Friend Is Now Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She’s Ended Up With Him—Help!

38:04 - Q4: My Husband Wants To Honor His Grandmother Using Our Daughter’s Middle Name But I Don’t Like The Name—Help!

49:19 - Q5: My Husband Won’t Watch Rom-Coms With Me!

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Happy 2024, Shandies!!! We're back from our vacation and so excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... today is our 3rd installment of UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!

We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:07 - Episode 42: Caller Maya - https://youtu.be/gwJyzdS8NgM?si=pS0LVXjKgqE091IT

7:40 - Episode 154: Q6, from S - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A?si=NFZjCWlELmF_TU5u

12:00 - Episode 170: Q5, from Scared of Falling: https://youtu.be/7kVFN__wbAU?si=-uthJ85Sod6YgX64

14:41 - Episode 183: Caller Rosemary - https://youtu.be/pJdsPIfB3es?si=miKOsexlois7Oet4

20:28 - Episode 193: Caller 2, Siobhan - https://youtu.be/4DPlS4HCDLc?si=Qfgi7lzIZCdDeq-7

25:23 - Episode 197: Q3, from Pickle - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho?si=rwsAq2x_UwIWh6zX

35:47 - Episode 218: Q7 from C - https://youtu.be/W0GWXzZwU0c?si=uZ0NTC7aXui3vNmU

39:55 - Episode 239: Q2 from K - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb

43:47 - Episode 239: Q4 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb

46:57 - Episode 239: Q5 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb

51:56 - Episode 263: Q3 from N - https://youtu.be/Ofw1rNoMDiw?si=EjX_gcIlbYVpLaWo

55:15 - Episode 270: Q4 from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/ga4wgRlzIjE?si=WatAdVjOraPqTWaO

1:02:20 - Not An Update But A Shandy Letter

The referenced article written by the Shandy from the final letter:

https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973

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It's our last episode of 2023 and today's all about reflecting on past year! We're blending 2 ideas today: keeping with tradition in highlighting our Best Q&As of the year, as well as answering YOUR questions about our personal favorites/bests of 2023. After this, we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 11! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another fantastic year of kinship and laughs. We wish you the happiest holiday season and will see you soon! XOXO

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0:00 - Introduction

1:31 - Favorite Book of 2023

3:56 - Favorite Escape Room of 2023

4:52 - Favorite Animal Interaction of 2023

7:07 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 270, Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car

18:20 - Favorite Socks of 2023

18:51 - Favorite Beauty Finds of 2023

20:54 - Favorite City Visited in 2023

21:18 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help!

37:03 - Favorite Restaurant of 2023

39:33 - Favorite Way We Grew As People in 2023

42:31 - Favorite Outfit of 2023

43:04 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 206, Q7: The Ethics Of Tickling

52:41 - Favorite Green Thumb Tip of 2023

54:10 - Favorite Video Game of 2023

54:23 - Favorite Ad Jingle of 2023

56:32 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 245, Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts?

1:10:20 - Favorite Movie of 2023

1:12:23 - Favorite Deep Conversation of 2023

1:14:55 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q5: I’ve Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help!

1:28:04 - Favorite Moment of Self-Insight of 2023

1:33:21 - Favorite Song We Performed in 2023

1:34:21 - Thank You Shandies!

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it acceptable for your best friend to give her boyfriend a key to your shared apartment? For guys wanting to approach women outside the apps, but don't know where to start, Andy gives his 101 tips. Are we all addicted to our phones, and what's an otherwise happily married couple to do when screen time routinely becomes fight time? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:34 - Q1: My Roommate Gave Her Boyfriend A Key To Our Shared Apartment—Am I The Asshole For Being Upset?

11:05 - Q2: My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected?

24:25 - Q3: Shandy’s Advice To Men On How To Approach Women IRL

42:39 - Q4: Our Marriage Is Good But Our Phone Addiction Isn’t—Any Advice?

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:45 - Finale Kick Off

5:17 - Kat & John Henry’s Date

11:40 - Back On The Beach

12:57 - Eliza & Aaron B’s Date

14:45 - Back On The Bach

26:24 - The Next Day

28:35 - Kenny & Mari

29:24 - Wedding

32:28 - Rave Wedding Reception

41:16 - The Next Day

41:29 - “Take Time & Think”

43:19 - The Couples Make Or Break

50:21 - Overnights

55:04 - Proposal Day

59:35 - Where Are They Now Montage

1:03:02 - Credits

1:05:00 - Andy’s A-Game

1:06:02 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand FINALE!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:05 - Finale Kick Off

1:32 - Theresa Meets Gerry’s Family

2:34 - Evening

3:35 - Leslie Meets Gerry’s Family

10:35 - Evening

25:40 - Live: Leslie

33:05 - Back In Costa Rica 

36:06 - Proposal

37:34 - Shandy’s Bet

40:16 - After The Final Rose

42:05 - Joey

44:32 - Special Announcement

47:50 - Overall Thoughts

50:23 - Shandy Word Watch

52:08 - Reviewing Night One Predictions

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