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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 9!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:37 - Episode 9 Kick Off/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

34:55 - Rose Ceremony

40:59 - Credits

42:22 - Andy’s A-Game

45:00 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you found to your date? If you're dating someone "perfect", what does it mean when you keep thinking about your ex? And if someone who routinely got in car accidents asked to borrow your new car, what would you say? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: My Pre-Date Googling Revealed Something About My Date—Should I Bring It Up With Him?

12:33 - Q2: My Grandmother Has Passed But Wanted Me To Have Her Wedding Ring—How Do I Bring This Up With Family?

24:23 - Q3: My Boyfriend Is Perfect But I Keep Thinking About My Ex—Help!

39:50 - Q4: We’ve Gone From Friends To Dating To Friends Again—Shandy’s Take?

56:30 - Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car

1:06:55 - Announcements

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers. It may be very early in their relationship but "C" and her boyfriend are madly in love—would moving in this early on ruin a good thing? Our next caller, Hannah, is childfree by choice, yet her boyfriends never seem to believe her when she says this. Are they all jerks who don't believe a woman when she tells them who she is, or is she the common denominator in the types she's attracting? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller C!

20:53 - Shandy Debrief

22:59 - Welcome To Caller Hannah!

48:42 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Fantasy Suite Week!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:00 - Episode 8 Kick Off

4:11 - Leslie’s Overnight

5:31 - Evening

15:31 - The Next Morning

18:02 - Theresa’s Overnight

20:02 - Evening

23:48 - The Next Morning

25:22 - Credits

30:07 - Andy’s A-Game

35:15 - Shandy Word Watch

37:49 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 8!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:08 - Episode 8 Kick Off

4:03 - Michael’s Date

4:45 - Back On The Beach

8:38 - Back On The Date

10:24 - Jordan & Tayler

14:13 - Jordan’s Date

16:57 - Evening

36:18 - The Next Day

36:53 - Double Date

38:58 - Katie Thurston

44:49 - Paradise Roast

51:17 - The Next Day

51:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

52:54 - Andy’s A-Game

53:18 - Who We Would Go For

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It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick the lovely Katie Thurston's brain since we first recapped her Bachelorette season 2.5 years ago, and at long last, that day is here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled this former Bachelorette and current star of F-Boy Island could make the time to join us!

Katie's had a very busy and very public last 3 years, so today we talk the ins and outs of watching yourself back on TV, whether contestants behave differently IRL versus on TV, what she's learned about human nature after being on the receiving end of MILLIONS of opinions. What has been the key difference between dating "civilians" versus celebrities, has her notoriety helped or hurt her love life, and has her time on TV changed her personal relationships? And for our longtime Shandies, don't worry, Andy also brings up THOMAS! Multiple times. (See time stamps!)

Don't miss Katie on Season 3 of F-Boy Island, currently airing on Hulu and the CW!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Katie Thurston!

2:47 - How Has She Navigated Honoring Her Needs While Accommodating Production?

4:49 - The Most Common Misconception About Being The Lead Of A Dating Show

7:06 - Backlash That Has Surprised Her

7:45 - Thomas

8:31 - Have People She Met On TV Been Totally Different IRL?

9:52 - Has She Ever Felt Her Choices Were Misrepresented?

12:51 - What Have The Last 3 Years Taught Her About Herself?

15:00 - What Has She Learned About Human Nature?

17:34 - Resilience

19::49 - Parasocial Relationships

21:45 - Is IRL Dating Easier Or Harder Now?

23:54 - Dating “Civilians” Vs Celebrities

27:03 - Is Dating On TV A Microcosm For Dating IRL?

28:20 - Thomas

29:21 - Would She Always Pick Someone On TV That She Would Have Picked IRL?

30:34 - How Has What She’s Looking For In A Partner Changed?

33:21 - How Notoriety Affects Personal Relationships 

38:30 - Does She Consider Herself A Private Person?

39:18 - In What Ways Is Her Personality Suited To This And In What Ways Is It Not?

43:35 - Would She Have Had The Courage To Pursue Comedy Without All This?

48:53 - One Regret & One Choice She’s Proud Of

51:30 - Blake Moynes

53:22 - Her Social Media Habits

54:26 - True Or False

55:17 - Thomas

56:20 - True Or False, Cont’d

59:02 - Shandy Debrief

1:04:02 - Thomas

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:47 - Overall Thoughts

3:56 - Women Tell All Kick Off

7:30 - Unseen Footage

11:32 - Joan’s Hot Seat

18:19 - Ellen’s Hot Seat

23:20 - Gerry

30:25 - Rose Ceremony

34:46 - Faith Hot Seat

39:04 - Bloopers

41:55 - Previews

42:23 - Andy’s A-Game

43:01 - Shandy Word Watch

44:37 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

1:03 - Episode 7 Kick Off

11:27 - The Next Day

11:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

34:36 - Rose Ceremony

39:51 - The Next Day

48:43 - Previews

49:27 - Credits

49:42 - Andy’s A-Game

52:19 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your guy is a winner but his kissing is terrible, can you teach an old dog new tricks? And in a romantic relationship, where's the line between the "no eggshells" rule and shared humor? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: Am I The A-Hole For Crushing On An Unavailable Co-Worker?

6:24 - Q2: My Wonderful Husband Is A Terrible Kisser—Are My Hot Make Out Days Over?

15:33 - Q3: I Have Fallen For My Best Friend—Help!

34:06 - Q4: In A Relationship, How Does The “No Eggshells” Rule Apply To Humor?

47:18 - Q5: A Guy At My Gym Makes Me Uncomfortable—Shandy’s Take?

1:01:32 - Q6: My In-Laws Make Comments About My Hot Dad—Help!

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:00 - Episode 6 Kick Off

1:49 - Theresa’s Hometown

16:00 - Faith’s Hometown

24:34 - Flashpoint

27:27 - Leslie’s Hometown

33:53 - Los Angeles

38:49 - Rose Ceremony

40:38 - Previews

41:19 - Credits

41:43 - Andy’s A-Game

42:29 - Shandy Word Watch

43:24 - Shandy’s Predictions

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