Dear Shandy

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 2!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:24 - Episode 2 Kick Off

3:02 - Aven

6:59 - Aven’s Date

17:32 - Hannah Brown

24:10 - Bonfire

28:03 - Evening

30:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

37:25 - Rose Ceremony

39:00 - Previews

39:25 - Credits 

40:56 - Andy’s A-Game

41:37 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:03 - Overall Thoughts

2:50 - Getting To Know Gerry

5:14 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

13:33 - Jesse And Gerry

14:06 - Night One

24:44 - First Impression Rose

26:09 - Rose Ceremony

31:16 - Previews

32:11 - Credits

33:53 - Andy’s A-Game

34:31 - Shandy Word Watch

36:22- Shandy’s Predictions

42:25 - Closing Thoughts

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the Season Premiere!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:20 - Episode 1 Kick Off

4:27 - Meet The Cast

10:42 - Arrivals

24:27 - Paradise Begins

25:43 - Evening

28:42 - Kylee’s Date

35:16 - The Next Day

43:16 - Credits

44:13 - Andy’s A-Game

45:29 - Shandy Word Watch

46:16 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by overwhelmingly beautiful power couple for a Love Fest that has been nearly a year in the making! In what has been your top-requested Love Fest to date, celebrated pop sensation Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley (Bachelor S19 and S20) join Shandy from their Los Angeles home to share the ins and outs of their partnership!

Today Hayley and Becca share their first impressions of one another and how those have changed, how they complement each other, how they handle the distance when Hayley's on tour, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a particularly exciting Newlyweds Game filled with laughs and a few surprises to boot ! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Book - https://static.macmillan.com/static/wednesday-books/girls-like-girls/

Fragrance - https://www.huebyhayley.com/

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Becca & Hayley!

3:16 - How They Met

7:57 - Did Hayley Know Of Becca When They Met?

10:32 - Their First “Date”

14:45 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed

21:11 - How They Complement Each Other

24:28 - Love Languages

26:30 - Early Hurdle

29:24 - Did Becca Have Reservations About Hayley’s Fame?

35:15 - How They Fight

38:48 - Common Misconceptions 

44:00 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

47:09 - The Newlyweds Game

1:02:56 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth. Elizabeth and her boyfriend have a great relationship but there's one issue, and it's an elephant in the room: his jealousy. An event occurs where she's invited out by a colleague, sending her boyfriend into a jealous frenzy. Was Elizabeth the "A-hole" in how she handled that situation, or is her boyfriend's mistrust a red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Referenced Q&A:

- https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elizabeth!

34:23 - Shandy Debrief

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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 3 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received quite the selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of laughs, rabbit holes, and analogies. We deeply appreciate you and the community we've built. Come join us in our living room to chat!

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1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=1694617411

2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:15 - What Is Your Favorite Feature On Each Other’s Bodies?

5:39 - Did Sharleen Always See Herself Moving To The US?

6:35 - Does Shandy Have Plans To Move To A Bigger Apartment?

8:50 - Are You More Or Less Goofy In Real Life?

9:42 - How Many White V-Necks Does Andy Own?

11:00 - Is Sharleen Embarrassed By Andy’s White V-Necks?

11:12 - How Does Shandy Fight?

15:57 - Why Can’t We Know What Andy Does For A Living?

17:11 - Do You Think Your Relationship Would Be What It Is If You’d Met Younger?

19:32 - What Are The Hardest And Easiest Parts Of Being A Public Figure Couple? 

24:45 - Do You Ever Get Annoyed When Recording With Each Other? 

28:26 - How Many Couples Have Declined Or Ignored Love Fest Requests?

29:16 - How Do You Feel When Love Fest Couples Break Up?

30:28 - Has There Been A Reaction To An Episode That Has Been Challenging To Reckon With?

39:09 - If You Knew Then What You Know Now, Would You Still Have Started Dear Shandy? 

40:31 - Who Would Be Dream Moderators For Your Own Love Fest? 

41:28 - Can We Get A Refresher On The Correct/Incorrect Use Of “You’re Welcome”?

46:12 - If You Could Monologue About One Topic Of Your Choice For 30 Minutes, What Would It Be? 

46:31 - Based On Your Experience, What Advice Do You Have On Things To Look For In A Partner?

51:47 - If You Were A Cat, What Kind, Color, And Personality Of A Cat Would You Be? 

53:29 - Power Rank (Least Favorite To Favorite): Chicken, Beef, Pork, Tofu, Fish 

57:23 - Why Doesn’t Shandy Eat Meat?

57:45 - Would You Rather a) Every Night For The Rest Of Your Life Have To Watch Your Parents Have Sex, Or b) You Can Avoid That By Joining In One Time 

58:30 - No Wine Ever Again, Or No Charcuterie Boards Ever Again?

58:57 - Power Rank: Amelia Earhart, Massages, Soup Dumplings, MLK, Contact Lenses, The Color Green

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it weird if your partner wants a private, locked room in your shared home? What are Shandy's thoughts on "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater"? Is there a "right" way to break up with someone? And let's help a Shandy find friends in her new city! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: Are My Boyfriend’s Friendships Weird?

7:30 - Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts?

20:14 - Q3: I’ve Moved Cities And Am Having A Hard Time Making Friends—Help!

28:28 - Q4: I’ve Been The Cheater—What Are Shandy’s Thoughts On “Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater”?

41:27 - Q5: I Just Learned About My Boyfriend’s Cheating History—Is This A Dealbreaker?

1:05:38 - Q6: I Know I Need To End It But Am Dreading It—Tips On Breaking Up?

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined AT HOME for their third ever in-person Love Fest, by a couple whose relationship Shandy got to witness firsthand when Sharleen hosted Bachelor In Paradise Canada! Last Summer Chelsea Vaughn (Bachelor S25 & BIP S7) and Austin Tinsley (Bachelorette S17) met on Canadian soil and left as a couple in love. Because the season didn't air until a near year later, Chelsea and Austin had to keep their relationship under wraps for a whopping 13 MONTHS! Needless to say, they've learned a thing or two about each other in the interim!

Today Chelsea and Austin join Shandy to share fun Paradise Canada #BTS, how they complement each other, what it felt like learning to text each other (yes, really!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a kooky Newlyweds Game with answers you will not see coming! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Shandy on Vaughnerable: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000612139370

Austin on Vaughnerable, P1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000621364510

Auston on Vaughnerable, P2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000622115759

Referenced Hot Cheetos Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsXB9Q5NnoP

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Chelsea & Austin!

6:50 - Shandy’s Appearance On Chelsea’s Podcast, Vaughnerable

7:41 - Did They Feel A Cultural Difference In Canada?

9:29 - First Impressions

21:40 - Being “In Hiding” For 13 Months (!)

26:21 - How They Complement Each Other

30:33 - How They’re Different Than Expected

34:26 - How Austin’s Different Than What Chelsea Imagined For Herself

36:44 - Early Hurdle

42:47 - How They Fight

48:15 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

51:53 - The Newlyweds Game

1:06:48 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared friend circle and Kelly has wound up more involved than she ever intended to be or would have liked. When is someone else's infidelity your information to share, and in Kelly's case, should she have done anything differently? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Kelly!

36:48 - Shandy Debrief

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