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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:44 - Episode 6 Kick Off

12:56 - Genevie

23:02 - Becca

30:33 - Genevie’s Date

32:24 - Back At The Beach

35:10 - Becca’s Date

36:31 - Evening

42:10 - Charity

46:28 - Credits

47:01 - Andy’s A-Game

48:27 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:06 - Episode 5 Kick Off

4:10 - Faith’s 1-On-1

15:18 - Evening

18:10 - Group Date

32:08 - Rose Ceremony

37:33 - Credits

37:57 - Andy’s A-Game

38:33 - Shandy Word Watch

40:19 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:16 - Episode 5 Kick Off

6:10 - Rose Ceremony

9:19 - The Next Day, Aka Kat’s Birthday

12:32 - Rachel’s Date

16:43 - Davia

26:08 - Evening

26:25 - Davia’s Date

27:30 - Back On The Beach

36:53 - The Next Day

41:04 - Credits

41:42 - Andy’s A-Game

42:11 - Who We Would Go For

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Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to cover the topic of childlessness for quite some time, and when Sharleen read Ruby Warrington's newest book, Women Without Kids, she wouldn't take no for an answer in getting Ruby on the podcast!

This conversation is for every person, with or without kids. Few books have impacted Sharleen the way Ruby's did, and today we dive deep into the world of Womanhood WITHOUT Motherhood. How often have you heard terms like "maternal instinct" and "labor of love", or phrases like "You don't know true love until you have children" and "But who will look after you when you're old?"

Today, with Ruby Warrington's expertise, we examine The Motherhood Spectrum, the truth behind "having it all", and whether or not we can argue with "nature". We discuss the (very real) fear of regret, finding meaning and legacy as a non-parent, the guilt in not bestowing our parents with grandchildren, how to age as a woman in our youth-obsessed society, and of course, Climate Change.

This conversation will hopefully guide your heart and help you hear to something inside yourself, versus listening to what so many of us have been conditioned to believe for a lifetime. If you experience grief over the path not traveled or have felt your dearest friendships wither as you and/or your friends have started making babies, this episode is very much for you.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Ruby Warrington!

2:58 - What Inspired Her To Write ‘Women Without Kids’ And How Is The Result Different Than Anticipated?

8:59 - How Many Tears Did She Shed Writing This Book?

10:00 - The Motherhood Spectrum

14:46 - The Mommy Binary

19:19 - Who Are We To Argue With “Nature”?

25:41 - Labor Of Love

29:54 - “Having It All”

33:19 - Climate Change

35:29 - Regret

41:54 - Purpose

44:54 - Legacy

46:42 - Guilt Over Not Bestowing “Grandparenthood” To Our Parents

53:03 - Finding Positivity In Aging As A Woman In Society

55:10 - Female Friendships

1:00:17 - Fear-Based Decisions

1:03:16 - Grieving The Path Not Traveled

1:06:36 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

1:03 - Episode 4 Kick Off

1:47 - Trista Sutter

3:39 - Group Date

11:54 - Group Date Cocktail Party

22:35 - Leslie’s 1-On-1

28:18 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

36:45 - Rose Ceremony

37:29 - Credits

37:46 - Andy’s A-Game

39:45 - Shandy Word Watch

42:03 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 4!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:05 - Episode 4 Kick Off

3:59 - John Henry

6:51 - John Henry’s Date

9:06 - John B

12:16 - Evening

14:03 - John B’s Date

15:08 - A Lot Happens At The Beach

31:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

39:29 - Credits

39:42 - Andy’s A-Game

40:26 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

0:58 - Episode 3 Kick Off

3:53 - Group Date

8:10 - Evening

10:41 - The Next Day

16:39 - Ellen’s 1-On-1

26:14 - At The Mansion

26:47 - Cocktail Party

35:06 - Rose Ceremony

36:12 - Post-Rose Ceremony

39:11 - Credits

39:37 - Andy’s A-Game

39:58 - Shandy Word Watch

41:53 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 3!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:45 - Episode 3 Kick Off

11:48 - Tanner’s Date

15:26 - Tyler

24:11 - Evening

30:54 - Tyler’s Date

33:10 - Back On The Beach

36:25 - Credits

37:25 - Andy’s A-Game

38:24 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and today is an Am-I-The-Asshole BONANZA! If you're invited to a birthday gathering by the birthday boy, who's paying? Is it wrong to want a new ring when being proposed to for a second time? And is asking a woman to shave her legs akin to a woman asking a man to shave his balls? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: My Boyfriend Won’t Let Me Go On A Mixed-Gender Climbing Trip—Help!

8:24 - Q2: I Was Invited To A Birthday Gathering And Sent A Venmo Request By The Host The Next Day—Who's In The Wrong?

18:38 - Q3: My Boyfriend Wants To Re-Propose But I Want A Different Ring—Help!

31:29 - Q4: My Boyfriend Hates My Friend And Wants Me To End The Friendship—Help!

38:26 - Q5: Was He Just Not That Into Me?

47:36 - Q6: Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs Vs Asking A Man To Shave His Balls

1:02:12 - Q7: Bad Breath Vs Frizzy Hair

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.

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0:00 - Overall Thoughts

1:48 - Episode 2 Kick Off

5:51 - Theresa’s 1-On-1

16:24 - Group Date

27:09 - Gerry’s Birthday Party

32:51 - Rose Ceremony

35:24 - Credits

35:57 - Andy’s A-Game

37:38 - Shandy Word Watch

39:39 - Shandy’s Predictions

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