It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Hanna, is happily married with 3 young children. Everything's as it should be in their very small town, but she feels drawn to nurture her personal and social lives with a move elsewhere. Sounds simple enough, but when she considers one option, she can't help but weigh the pros of the other. At what point does a fear of a choice not taken become a fear of making any choice at all? Listen on for the Shandy take!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hanna!

50:43 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 9 and 10, aka Fantasy Suites Part 1 and 2!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 9 & 10

2:45 - Episode 9 Kick Off

5:45 - Erich’s Overnight

10:13 - Evening

13:36 - The Next Morning

16:35 - Meanwhile, Tino

16:53 - Aven’s Overnight

18:06 - Meanwhile, Jesse Chats With Tino

22:44 - Evening

26:50 - The Next Morning

27:59 - Tino’s Overnight

29:30 - Evening

33:39 - Johnny’s Overnight

39:30 - Jesse Chats With Jason

40:43 - Erich

55:11 - Episode 10 Kick Off

59:44 - Gabby Chats With Jesse

1:02:09 - Jason’s Overnight

1:05:20 - Evening

1:17:49 - The Next Morning

1:19:00 - Gabby Chats With Jason

1:24:19 - Zach’s Overnight

1:25:47 - Evening

1:26:27 - The Next Morning

1:29:29 - Zach Chats With Jesse

1:32:35 - Rose Ceremony

1:33:49 - Gabby Visits Erich

1:35:16 - Cliffhanger

1:36:35 - Andy’s A-Game

1:37:30 - Shandy Word Watch

1:39:43 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 2 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and you sure delivered with quite the variety of Qs about this podcast, our relationship, and in general, our thoughts on a ALL THE THINGS. Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel so seen, understood, and appreciated. Come join us in our living room to chat!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:24 - Who Is On Each Of Your Celebrity Hall Pass Lists?

5:59 - Do You Have An All-Time Favorite Podcast Episode?

8:19 - Would You Ever Do A Live Show?

9:28 - What’s Something Your Partner Does That Instantly Calms You?

11:09 - What Have Been Your Favorite Places To Travel To Together?

12:17 - Will You Always Live In New York?

14:38 - Does Traveling Together Test Your Relationship?

15:48 - What Were Your Top 3 Dating Dealbreakers?

20:44 - Didn’t You Guys Have A Cat At One Time?

24:05 - If You Could Have Any Animal As A Pet, What Would It Be?

25:00 - What’s The Most Annoying Thing About Having A Podcast?

33:30 - Do You Follow The News? How Do You Deal With All The Bad Things Happening In The World?

35:50 - What Has Been Your Weirdest Fan Encounter?

40:48 - I Can’t Imagine Andy Living In San Francisco. Why Did He Move There?

46:06 - How Did Sharleen Come To Be An Opera Singer And If She Could Do Anything Else, What Would It Be?

55:55 - What Are Your Favorite Quirks About Each Other?

1:02:20 - Could We Hear Your Thoughts On Your Age Difference?

1:05:35 - What Are Your Thoughts On Aliens, Ghosts, And The Supernatural?

1:18:06 - Thank You

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Aven's Hometown and Men Tell All.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:57 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 8/Men Tell All

1:57 - Episode 8 Kick Off

3:52 - Aven’s Hometown

10:53 - Evening

14:15 - “Rose Ceremony”

14:45 - Men Tell All Kick Off

22:28 - Chris

24:46 - Hayden

26:20 - Logan

34:14 - Nate

38:50 - Paradise

39:44 - Jesse

41:56 - Gabby And Rachel Arrive

42:07 - Mario

44:18 - Jordan V

44:45 - Jacob

45:19 - Tyler

46:19 - Shameless Movie Plug

49:11 - Shandy Word Watch

50:55 - Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend accidentally sees your fetish in your search history, should you address it or leave it be? Is it worth it to explore a crush on your tutor? And is a relationship with a man 25 years older doomed to fail? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: How Should I Break Up With Him If I’d Have To Travel To Do It In Person?

11:18 - Q2: Does He Only Want What He Can’t Have?

24:37 - Q3: I Exchanged A Gift My Boyfriend’s Mother Gave Me And Now She Won’t Drop It—What Should I Do?

40:12 - Q4: My Boyfriend Saw My Fetish In My Search History And Now I Want To Hide Forever 

51:21 - Q5: I’ve Had A Longtime Crush On My Tutor—Should I Make Move?

1:04:44 - Q6: I’m Dating A Man 25 Years Older—Are We Doomed To Fail?

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping (And Other Tangents)

3:25 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 7

4:13 - Episode 7 Kick Off

5:53 - Jason’s Hometown

10:24 - Evening

14:12 - Zach’s Hometown

15:21 - Evening

23:00 - Johnny’s Hometown

25:26 - Evening

29:06 - Tyler’s Hometown

42:53 - Erich’s Hometown

50:36 - Evening

53:09 - Tino’s Hometown

1:10:05 - Credits

1:10:36 - Andy’s A-Game

1:10:55 - Shandy Word Watch

1:13:06 - Predictions: Gabby

1:14:53 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Blake Horstmann (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Giannina Gibelli (Love Is Blind, Season 1), who met filming Paramount Plus' All-Star Shore! They share how familiar they were with each other prior, some early hurdles post-filming, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a questionable Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game but all's well that ends well! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome Blake And Giannina!

4:19 - Were They Familiar With Each Other Before Meeting On All-Star Shore?

6:13 - First Impressions

12:07 - Do They Think The Powers That Be Intended For Them To Meet?

14:13 - How They Complement Each Other

22:19 - What’s The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship?

24:21 - How They Fight

27:01 - What Was An Early Hurdle In Their Relationship?

29:44 - What Has It Been Like Being Exposed To The Other’s Dating Show Culture?

33:25 - What Makes This Relationship Successful Versus Past Relationships?

42:32 - The Newlyweds Game

59:29 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 6

2:24 - Episode 6 Kick Off

4:00 - 1-On-1 Date Cards

7:20 - Jesse Chats With The Bachelorettes

10:03 - Nate’s 1-On-1 With Gabby

15:46 - Zach’s 1-On-1 With Rachel

25:57 - Evening

33:37 - Gabby Visits Her Guys

35:24 - Gabby’s Group Date

40:21 - Evening (aka Logan)

44:58 - Rachel’s Group Date

46:52 - Evening

58:47 - The Next Day

1:02:22 - Rose Ceremony

1:06:57 - Andy’s A-Game

1:07:45 - Shandy Word Watch

1:10:56 - Predictions: Gabby

1:13:09 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Abby, has a family dynamic she has been navigating her entire adult life. While her parents divorced well over a decade ago, her father continues to badmouth Abby's mother and stepfather while deflecting his responsibility in the marriage's demise. Should Abby just "keep the peace" by continuing to bite her tongue, or is it time for a confrontation? Listen on for the Shandy take!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Abby!

40:55 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.

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Time Stamps:

00:41 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 5

01:41 - Episode 5 Kick Off

2:30 - Logan Visits Rachel

7:47 - Rachel’s Group Date

9:15 - Jesse Visits Rachel

13:42 - Logan Visits Gabby

17:36 - Gabby Visits Rachel

28:00 - Evening

31:24 - Gabby’s Group Date

34:50 - Evening

44:15 - Aven’s 1-On-1 With Rachel

45:29- Evening

50:07 - Johnny’s 1-On-1 With Gabby

51:30 - Evening

55:16 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

56:51 - Rose Ceremony

58:29 - Andy’s A-Game

59:50 - Shandy Word Watch

1:02:13 - Predictions: Gabby

1:05:58 - Predictions: Rachel

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