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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Blake Horstmann (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Giannina Gibelli (Love Is Blind, Season 1), who met filming Paramount Plus' All-Star Shore! They share how familiar they were with each other prior, some early hurdles post-filming, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a questionable Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game but all's well that ends well! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome Blake And Giannina!

4:19 - Were They Familiar With Each Other Before Meeting On All-Star Shore?

6:13 - First Impressions

12:07 - Do They Think The Powers That Be Intended For Them To Meet?

14:13 - How They Complement Each Other

22:19 - What’s The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship?

24:21 - How They Fight

27:01 - What Was An Early Hurdle In Their Relationship?

29:44 - What Has It Been Like Being Exposed To The Other’s Dating Show Culture?

33:25 - What Makes This Relationship Successful Versus Past Relationships?

42:32 - The Newlyweds Game

59:29 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 6

2:24 - Episode 6 Kick Off

4:00 - 1-On-1 Date Cards

7:20 - Jesse Chats With The Bachelorettes

10:03 - Nate’s 1-On-1 With Gabby

15:46 - Zach’s 1-On-1 With Rachel

25:57 - Evening

33:37 - Gabby Visits Her Guys

35:24 - Gabby’s Group Date

40:21 - Evening (aka Logan)

44:58 - Rachel’s Group Date

46:52 - Evening

58:47 - The Next Day

1:02:22 - Rose Ceremony

1:06:57 - Andy’s A-Game

1:07:45 - Shandy Word Watch

1:10:56 - Predictions: Gabby

1:13:09 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Abby, has a family dynamic she has been navigating her entire adult life. While her parents divorced well over a decade ago, her father continues to badmouth Abby's mother and stepfather while deflecting his responsibility in the marriage's demise. Should Abby just "keep the peace" by continuing to bite her tongue, or is it time for a confrontation? Listen on for the Shandy take!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Abby!

40:55 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.

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Time Stamps:

00:41 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 5

01:41 - Episode 5 Kick Off

2:30 - Logan Visits Rachel

7:47 - Rachel’s Group Date

9:15 - Jesse Visits Rachel

13:42 - Logan Visits Gabby

17:36 - Gabby Visits Rachel

28:00 - Evening

31:24 - Gabby’s Group Date

34:50 - Evening

44:15 - Aven’s 1-On-1 With Rachel

45:29- Evening

50:07 - Johnny’s 1-On-1 With Gabby

51:30 - Evening

55:16 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

56:51 - Rose Ceremony

58:29 - Andy’s A-Game

59:50 - Shandy Word Watch

1:02:13 - Predictions: Gabby

1:05:58 - Predictions: Rachel

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Today's conversation has been a loooong time coming! So many of your questions over the last 2 years have swirled around whether or not to become a parent, or seeking #parenthoodclarity. Since Shandy is far from qualified to give you advice on the matter, we're thrilled to be joined by clarity coach Keltie Maguire who also happens to be #ChildfreeByChoice. Obviously none of us can answer this deeply personal question for you, but what we can do is have a conversation. We chat about everything from how Keltie came to make her decision, the shades of grey of uncertainty, "but who will look after you when you're old", and our thoughts on regret. Just as this is personal for you, it's personal for Shandy, too, so please respect us and each other when discussing.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire!

3:07 - Getting To Know Keltie

5:03 - When And How Did She Decide To Be Childfree?

14:07 - Does She Get This Question As A Clarity Coach?

17:30 - How Much Does She Think Her Lifestyle Has Informed Her Decision?

20:30 - Her Thoughts On The Following: "Having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face. You really need to be certain it’s what you want before you commit.”

24:44 - Does She Find People Get Defensive When They Hear Her Choice?

26:01 - Advice For Dealing With Friends And Family Who Judge Or Don't Accept Your Choice?

29:03 - How Did Her Parents/In-Laws Handle Her Choice?

31:24 - "But You Would Make Such Great Parents"

33:36 - "But Who Will Look After You When You're Old?"

36:23 - Freedom

39:28 - The Happiness Quotient

43:27 - Why Is It Such An Emotional Topic?

45:06 - Regret

51:45 - What Are Her Husband's Feelings?

55:06 - The State Of The World

1:01:54 - Are We Overthinking This?

1:04:52 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:27 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 4

2:36 - Episode 4 Kick-Off

8:13 - France!!!

11:37 - 1-On-1 Dates

27:12 - Gabby's Group Date

35:22 - Rachel Confronts Her Guys

38:57 - Rachel's Group Date

49:36 - Logan

50:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

1:00:24 - Rose Ceremony

1:02:19 - Andy's A-Game

1:03:42 - Shandy Word Watch

1:05:02 - Predictions: Gabby

1:07:08 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a woman is open to dating older, what should that actual bracket be on the apps? If a guy won't let you see his place, is that a red flag? And how does Sharleen *really* feel about Andy's white V-neck uniform? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: What Should Be My "Max" Age When Dating Online?

12:08 - Q2: My Boyfriend Won't Let Me Visit His Apartment—Is He Hiding Something?

26:35 - Q3: "Can Flatulence Portend The Waning Of Sexual Attraction?"

45:37 - Q4: Shandy's Thoughts On A Woman Accompanying Her Boyfriend Engagement Ring Shopping?

56:20 - Q5: How Does Sharleen Feel About Andy's White V-Neck Uniform? And Does Andy's Age Beliefs Apply To Women In Their 70s?

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:42 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 3

4:31 - Episode 3 Kick-Off

6:32 - Zach's 1-On-1 With Rachel

15:06 - Matt White (Platinum Package)

16:10 - Zach's Date, Resumed

22:29 - Erich's 1-On-1 With Gabby

34:35 - Group Date

51:08 - The Next Day

56:23 - Rose Ceremony

1:04:36 - Credits

1:05:02 - Andy's A-Game...?

1:05:54 - Shandy Word Watch

1:07:11 - Predictions: Gabby

1:08:31 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Abigail Heringer (The Bachelor, Season 25) and Noah Erb (The Bachelorette, Season 16), who you saw meet and date on Bachelor In Paradise, Season 7! They share the behind-the-scenes we didn't see on Paradise, when and how Noah reached back out to Abigail post-filming, how they complement each other today, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Abigail And Noah!

1:57 - Did They Watch Each Other's Seasons and First Impressions

6:31 - How First Impressions Have Changed

9:41 - How They Complement Each Other

14:01 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Their Relationship

18:27 - Had They Not Broken Up On Camera, Would Their Edit Have Played Out Differently?

22:38 - Early Hurdle

25:15 - How Long After The Show Did They Get Back Together?

30:12 - How They Fight

39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

45:21 - The Newlyweds Game

1:04:50 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:00 - Episode 2 Kick-Off

5:39 - Group Date/"Pageant Of Sorts"

9:15 - Evening

14:12 - Jordan V's 1-On-1 With Rachel

20:27 - Evening

25:46 - Nate's 1-On-1 With Gabby

28:12 - Evening

32:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

34:29 - Chris

42:43 - Rose Ceremony

45:21 - Andy's A-Game

46:04 - Shandy Word Watch

48:56 - Predictions: Gabby

52:20 - Andy's A-Game Revisited

54:05 - Predictions: Rachel

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