Ephesians 5:18, 21, 25-33.
Paul commands husbands to reflect Jesus by loving their wives like Jesus loved the church. It's important to point out that God's-design in marriage is now "wives submit; husbands boss." But rather, "wives submit; husbands love." Following the example of Christ's love for the church a husbands loves with sacrificing love, sanctifying love, and nourishing love.