Desire on Fire

What happens when we combine pursuing pleasure with our true purpose? Everything. Every juicy, little thing you desire can happen for you. On today's episode, I have a powerful conversation with happiness and purpose expert Carin Rockind about her passion for helping women find their purpose so they can lead empowered lives and how trusting your truest desires can benefit you and everyone in your life.

We get deep into:

• Carin's journey to positive psychology and her passion for bringing purpose and happiness to the world
• The pivotal moment in her life when she identified her purpose (such a powerful story!)
• How community and sisterhood impact pursuing your purpose
• The myths around purpose and how to release the conditioning around these concepts
• How she built her business from consistently pursuing opportunities that felt in alignment
• What purpose truly is and the 3 aspects to finding yours!
• Why listening to this ONE THING changed everything for Carin
• A practical exercise to identify the things that are really important to you
• Why feminine leadership is a NECESSITY right now
• And so much more!

Connect with Carin:

Website: https://carinrockind.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/PurposeGirlsGroup

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carinrockind/

Podcast: http://carinrockind.com/podcast (or wherever you listen to podcasts)

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How do we erase the stigma around sex workers, around our own desires and the way we interact with the world? On today's show, I dive into a juicy conversation with Jimmy Clabots about his journey as a creative and escort and what came from following his intuition and healing his core wounds to get sober and allow his true self to be shown to the world.

We get deep into:

• Jimmy's journey from musician/actor to becoming an escort and pursuing his passion for screenwriting
• His struggle with addiction and his incredible story of the road to recovery
• The ONE thing he needs in his long term recovery for it to really work for him
• How he holds space to help people get better at looking at themselves
• Being a thrill seeker and the road from stripper to escort at 28 years old
• His Enneagram Test score and how addiction might play a factor
• Jimmy's preferences in the bedroom
• Building trust as an escort and his experiences with his clients
• Healing core wounds from childhood and releasing conditioned beliefs around sexuality
• And so much more!

Jimmy's IG: https://www.instagram.com/jimmychanges/

Join us for The Desire on Fire Experience Nov 13-15 (use code "pleasurequeen" for $500 off!): http://www.desireonfirelive.com/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Sometimes the journey to discovery can be long, but the more we surround ourselves with the light, the faster the process. On today's episode, I dive in with yoga and meditation teacher Shayna Hiller about her own journey to self discovery and her passion for reminding people of their inherent capacity to bring their deepest desires to life. We get into how we can honor and own who we truly are as we continue to grow and how we can release conditioned beliefs in our lives to find more balance.

We get deep into:

• Shayna's health and yoga journey and the catalyst that started it all
• Acknowledging our patterns and finding a safe space to explore them
• The learned skills that eventually changed Shayna for the better
• Why she was celibate and single for 10 years of her life and the common fear that leads to celibacy
• How we commonly misunderstand what chaos can do in our lives
• Shayna's journey to discovery in her 6 year partnership
• Conditioning around relationships and the various forms a relationship can take when we release this conditioning
• The ways we cause our own imbalances and suffering through the supposed need for duality
• Societal conditioning around food and exercise and the harm it can do
• How we can really love how we look in the mirror (it's truly possible!)
• And SO much more!

Join us for The Desire on Fire Experience Nov 13-15 (use code "pleasurequeen" for $500 off!): http://www.desireonfirelive.com/

Learn more about Shayna: http://www.shaynahiller.com

Shayna's IG: https://www.instagram.com/shaynahiller/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Do you have the relationship you truly desire? On today's show, I invite relationship and intimacy expert Alexandra Stockwell to talk about building stable, long lasting and sexy relationships through the uncompromising commitment to show up fully free and authentic in your life and partnership. Join us as we dive into all the juicy pleasure that you can find in your committed relationship and how you can connect deeply with your partner and turn the heat way up in the bedroom.

We get deep into:

• Alexandra's greatest resource to help her clients in their relationships and sex
• The pride/shame dynamic and how that can be playing a role in your relationship
• A challenge most marriages see after a number of years and how you can shift it
• The ONE thing you can change to lead to more connection and intimacy with your partner (it works like magic!)
• How you can achieve a delicious, passionate relationship that grows with the decades
• One of the easiest ways to clear resentment in your relationship
• The MOST IMPORTANT thing you can do to turn up the heat in the bedroom
• How you can reach the height of sexual ecstasy in a busy marriage
• Recognizing your partner's orgasmic arc
• The importance of positive reinforcement for your male partner
• And so much more!

Learn more about Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/

Alexandra's IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.relationship.catalyst/

Join the Desire on Fire Experience weekend Nov 13-15: https://www.desireonfirelive.com/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

When we allow our desire to take the lead, beautiful things can happen! On today's show I talk with the amazing LA based coach Cailin McDuff about finding the permission to explore her sexuality and feeding the hunger she felt to connect more and push her sexual edges. Dive in with us as we talk through surrendering to the masculine and what it can look like when you strip down the layers of shame around your sex.

We get deep into:

• Releasing the conditioning around sexuality that we learn in childhood
• Losing her virginity at a later age and experiencing her first orgasm at 32
• Future tripping and learning to surrender to the now
• What a transactional climax is and how orgasmic meditation completely changed Cailin's sex
• Finding comfort in your own sexuality and the power of permission
• DS play, what it is (and what it isn't!)
• What kink really is and why it might not be what you think
• Acknowledging your sexual edges and why that might be the place to start exploring
• And more!

Learn more about Cailin here: https://www.cailinmcduff.com/

Cailin's IG: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Do you have a desire to unleash something within that feels untapped? Our identity and ways of being can be very tied to our early conditioning and today I talk with my new friend Abigail Gazda about tapping into our truest identity. We dive into her journey as a clarity coach and unraveling our authentic selves by releasing our conditioning with patience and surrender so we can have all the things that we want.

We get deep into:

• Abigail's journey to becoming a motivational speaker, author, and life coach
• The 2 pieces of "unbecoming" and how you can find your true identity
• Losing her identity through an injury and her struggle with addiction
• Honoring what came up during her divorce and becoming her independent self
• The importance of offering your gifts to the world
• Surrendering to shifts in your identity and trusting the bigger path
• The pivotal moment in her path when she connected to the divine feminine
• Finding alignment with the feminine and masculine energies within us
• Negative stories around nudity and identifying her shadow side
• How becoming clear on her own desire birthed two powerful books
• Her plant medicine journey and receiving love from her current partner
• A big announcement from Abigail!
• Subtle communication during sex and intimacy with her partner
• And so much more!

Learn more about Abigail: http://www.abigailgazda.com/

Abigail's IG: https://www.instagram.com/_instagail_/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

What does it look like or feel like when we are unfulfilled? It can be easy to fall into the trap of our conditioning and end up in a place where we may feel stuck or dissatisfied. On today's show I talk with my best friend, amazing coach, and new mama Victoria Carmel. We dive into the choice to live intentionally and purposefully in our relationships with ourselves and others and how to release limiting beliefs around what it means to be a woman and a mother.

We get deep into:

• How you can identify lack of satisfaction in your life.
• The first moment Victoria felt a connection with her now husband and what feeling it evoked.
• Feelings of jealousy and anger and how to let that sensation work through the body.
• Accepting her partner's NO and the important impact it had on her personal development.
• The secret to how Victoria got through a time of uncertainty in the early days of her relationship.
• How resentment can hold us back from healthy relationships (and how to fix it!)
• Actively choosing motherhood and struggling with the Madonna or Mother duality.
• Why Victoria rejected common conditioning around pregnancy and all the things she did differently.
• How you can be learning to check in with your body and what you could be doing to work through physical pain (without medicating it!)
• And more!

Learn more about Victoria: https://www.wellcuratedwellness.com/

Victoria's IG: https://www.instagram.com/_mamavic_/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Finding the permission to express, explore, and expand our pleasure and the sensation in our bodies is such a powerful discovery. My guest today, Demetra Nyx, is a beautifully connected writer and coach who shows women how to be shameless and fully expressed so they can realize the full range of what's possible in their lives. Join us as we dive into exploring our own liberation and learning to fully receive the pleasure that we all deserve.

We get deep into:

• Demetra's current partner and how feeling fully seen by him has changed her sex.
• Using your intuition to make scary choices in your life.
• The first moment she remembers feeling truly in control of her own pleasure.
• Talk therapy and somatic coaching and what might be missing from your therapy.
• How to hold yourself through big emotions and how important the body is in this process.
• Demetra's journey of writing and her expression without limitations.
• Why her account got taken down by Instagram.
• The idea that everything is happening FOR you and not TO you.
• Her class: Queen of Blow Jobs, and her favorite tip to give a great blow job (hint: it's not about technique!)
• The power of being in the feminine energy and what releasing control can do for your sex.
• And more!

Learn more about Demetra: https://demetranyx.com/

Demetra's IG: https://www.instagram.com/demetra_nyx_/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Learning how to identify our feelings and unhealthy patterns can be very confronting and push many edges, but it can lead to more connection and a deeper truth (and that is so worth it!) On today's episode, I invite my friend Molly Godfrey to come talk about her profound journey to sobriety, her sexual awakening, and finding herself through deep healing. We dive into the importance of doing the vulnerable thing and how to release our limiting beliefs around what it means to be satisfied and free.

We get deep into:

• The feeling of emptiness that led to Molly's journey of self-discovery.
• Expressing desires and what that can mean for your sex.
• The conditioning around what to do if we are unhappy or unsatisfied.
• How Molly's internalized shame and guilt manifested in her life and how she began to heal it.
• The many ways addiction can show up and the importance of identifying it.
• Her intimate journey to finding nourishing and powerful sex.
• And more!

Learn more about Molly: https://mollygodfrey.com

Molly's IG: https://www.instagram.com/askformolly/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

We are told a lot of stories about our own sexuality. And no matter what you've been told or how that is manifesting in your sex today, it is possible for you to live a fulfilled and orgasmic life! Today I talk with sensuality coach and one of my best friends, Carli Jo. She is the founder of Queen of Pleasure, a 12 week coaching program to help empower women and couples to tap into their true, erotic beings. We get into her journey to pleasure and how it plays into her marriage, her evolving relationship with combining sex and cannabis, and how you can shed the past and give birth to your erotic being today.

We dive deep into:

• Her mission of sexual freedom and the idea that it is achievable for EVERYONE.
• Rejecting the superiority complex and giving ourselves the permission to learn.
• Sexual shame as a child and how that physically manifested in her life.
• The conditioning around sensitivity and how you can reframe what it means to be a sensitive person.
• A surprising statistic about orgasms that gets it SO WRONG.
• The experience of vaginal pain during sex and how this can be linked to unresolved trauma (and the one thing you need to do to break the cycle!)
• How cannabis showed Carli Jo what was possible in her sex life.
• What a Jade Egg is (and where it goes)
• Orgasmic energy and that climax is not the only path to get there.
• How she found a solution to a complicated and unfulfilling sex life with her husband.
• And more!

Find out more about Carli Jo here: https://carlijo.com/

Carli Jo's IG: https://www.instagram.com/cannabissensualitycoach/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/