Desire on Fire

On today's episode, I speak with two powerful voices in the sexual healing space, Lidia Bonilla and Devi Maisha. We get into big topics like trauma healing, anti-racism, the transformation that comes from chaos, and their personal experiences as black women in this industry and in this country.

We dive into:

• Finding opportunity for growth amidst chaos and discomfort.
• Shadow Work and how especially important it is right now.
• Using pleasure as a tool to rewire the brain.
• Generational trauma and its effects.
• The shifts in their communities that have sparked hope and the desired change for the future.
• And so much more!

Learn more about Devi here: https://www.sensualenergyalchemy.com

Devi's IG: https://www.instagram.com/sensualenergyalchemy/

Learn more about Lidia here: https://www.lidiabonilla.com/

Lidia's IG: https://www.instagram.com/lidiabonilla.co/

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On today's show I get deep with my two Bali roommates, Julia and Kelley. We dive into re-evaluating unhealthy relationships with people, substances, and sometimes ourselves. We talk through the portals of growth that got us here and the purposeful work that we continue to do as we keep on our journeys to finding what truly serves our own desires.

We get into:

• Personal growth and untapped freedom.
• Conscious and aware sex and asking for what you want.
• 12 step programs and the stigma conditioning surrounding them.
• Deciding to stay in Bali at the fear peak of the COVID crisis.
• Changing relationship patterns and honoring what serves you.
• And more!

Julia's IG: www.instagram.com/juliashepleyphoto

Learn more about Julia here: https://www.juliashepleyphotography.com/

Kelley's IG: www.instagram.com/kelleymbode

Upcoming virtual retreat: https://desireignitedpleasureedition.eventbrite.com

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The journey to personal growth and discovery is my deep passion. I share this passion with my amazing friend Travis Day and on today's show, we get into the juicy relationship between the two of us. We reflect together on our past and the resistance, acceptance, and healing that has resulted from our experiences, shared and otherwise. We talk about what happens when you just start asking yourself, "what do I really want?"

We get deep into:

• Learning to receive, trust, and heal through Orgasmic Meditation.
• Resistance to sharing and fear of rejection.
• Inner guidance and the importance of recognizing your inner voice.
• The gift of adjustments in the bedroom.
• And so much more!

Travis' IG: https://instagram.com/travis.day?igshid=pdyba4snvn2e

Check out his business here: https://www.bingindog.com/

Learn more about the virtual co-ed immersion: https://coedimmersion.eventbrite.com

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In our culture, we are taught a lot of things that do not serve us. Things that limit our beliefs and bind us to truths that disconnect us from others. In today's episode, my best friend and business partner Ellie Shepley Montgomerie comes on to talk about how to give ourselves the permission to accept all the parts of ourselves that we do not embrace.

We get into:

• The dynamics between the feminine and masculine energies.
• Finding depth in relationships through self-acceptance.
• Dropping into a sensual, connected space with other women.
• Being blocked from "receiving" and commerce in the bedroom.
• And so much more!

Check out Ellie's IG: https://instagram.com/elliemontgomerie?igshid=ct132kmvq53y

Link to Ellie's and my upcoming retreat, Desire Ignited at Home: Pleasure Edition: https://desireignitedpleasureedition.eventbrite.com

Learn more about our Goddess Circle: https://www.facebook.com/events/621449101918894

Join my Sunday sensual movement class: http://sensualsundays.eventbrite.com

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We all hold different levels of trauma that have driven our insecurities or self-doubt. Finding a way to release this pain is essential to stripping ourselves down and finding the freedom to live a pleasurable and protected existence. In today's episode, I sit down with Debbie Baxter, artist, mother, woman of sincerity, and among so many other things - creator of The Nest Project. We get into her creative response to her own wounding and the injustice of our culture and how she helps take people back to their "primal essence."

We talk about:

• The creative tension that was created from Debbie's upbringing.
• Personal evolution and transformation from working through trauma.
• "Play" and the important role it has in our lives as adults.
• Betraying ourselves and our desires as a reaction to outside opinion.
• Allowing ourselves to receive the opportunities we deserve.
• And much more!

Find out more about Debbie: http://debbiebaxter.com/

Debbie's IG: www.instagram.com/thenestproject

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There is an energy that runs through our lives. It affects everything - our love, our community, our money, our patterns. What if we were to harness that energy and work on trusting ourselves to create the life we want? What if we challenge societal perspectives and reveal our inner truth?

In today's episode, we get into some really juicy topics with Lauren Harkness, Tantra Educator and Co-Founder of the Tantra Institute. We relieve some of that pressure and silence around sexuality and discuss living healthy, conscious, sovereign and ultimately, free lives.

We discuss:

• Ways to access the personal growth that is available through our bodies
• The practice of searching arousal waves called "peaking"
• Freeing ourselves from the shame and rejection around our desires and vulnerabilities
• Lauren's experience with polyamory and the deep connections she has built
• And much more, you don't want to miss this one!

Learn more about Lauren: http://www.radiantecstasy.com/

Check out Lauren's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sensualalchemistress/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ourturnedontribe

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Big, small, fat, thin, these constructs have bound us to a reality that isn't our truth. In today's episode I talk with Gina Swire, former plus-size model, current manifesting queen and self-love mentor. Her mission: to help women fall madly in love with themselves. So let's do it! Let's create some time and space to really dive into this issue of our own power and self-acceptance.

We discuss:

• The damage of negative self-talk
• Her career as a plus-size model and the effects of the industry
• Deciding to go inward and choose a path that lights you up
• What a problem really is and the potential of detaching from it
• Ultimate acceptance and the power of having a mentor
• And much more!

Learn more about Gina: http://www.ginaswire.com/

Check out Gina's instagram: https://instagram.com/ginaswire?igshid=r611dausp2j1

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ourturnedontribe

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Do you have an unmet desire? Something you really want that is out of reach or you are simply not allowing yourself to have? I invite you to go on a journey with me to challenge what you know and get into what ignites and blocks us from living out the electric life we want.

We will talk about:

• My personal journey and experience as an intimacy coach living an authentic life
• The importance of mentorship and the incredible teachers that molded me
• Valuing ourselves and our worthiness to allow abundance
• A greater vision to live a Turned-On Life filled with pleasure
• Exciting things to come in future episodes and much more

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ourturnedontribe

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/