Desire on Fire

What does it look like to run a business and grow in sisterhood with your best friend - all while prioritizing pleasure? Well, in today's episode, my business partner Ellie and I give you a peek behind the scenes of our partnership and intimacy work. We share our experiences as we've grown and transformed our business and the inner guidance that informs our programs and teachings. Join us as we get vulnerable about our partnership and why we feel so deeply called to do this work.

We get deep into:

• How our partnership has grown over the last 3 years and the tools we use to stay grounded and in connection with each other
• One of the BIGGEST ways we have grown in our sisterhood and business (and why this isn't the most popular view)
• Why we invested in a new business coach to restructure and help us reach more people
• Embracing the pivot from in-person events to an amazing global and virtual community!
• A game-changing resource that helped us understand our values on a deeper level
• How sensuality is connected to how much money you are able to bring into your life
• Our practice around scarcity and how we drop into more abundance and trust
• And so much more!

Connect with Ellie:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

Website: https://www.thepleasurechallenge.com

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What does living a desire-led life really look like in practice? In today's episode, I get real and vulnerable about relationships - how I move through them consciously, ALL the juicy details of my recent Bali lovership (I share some super intimate stories), and what it really looks like to stay grounded while exploring intimacy and desire.

I get deep into:

• The conditioning we have around monogamy and releasing the restrictions we put on ourselves
• Asking my lover to get tested and why we waited to have intercourse
• How I dealt with my recent lover having sex with someone else
• The relation-shift ritual we practiced before I left Bali for the U.S. (and what came from it!)
• And so much more juiciness!

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

You can be single - and happy. You can be married - and happy. But if you are still wondering why you haven't found the right person or why neither of these identities has led to true happiness for you - then tune in for this week's episode! On today's show, I talk to corporate lawyer turned self-love expert, Fabi Dorea, about her journey to healing, leaving a relationship that wasn't serving her, and discovering self-love and true connection by committing to loving herself first.

We get deep into:

• Fabi's journey from corporate lawyer to self-love expert and (w)holistic coach
• Her process and rituals for marrying herself first (and the transformation that has come from it!)
• The deep conditioning from her family around standards of beauty
• How she integrated the shadow sides of herself and what fears emerged during the process
• What finding the "right" person actually takes (hint: you hold the power here)
• How Fabi called in her current partner and her journey to opening up sexually
• And more!

Connect with Fabi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Fabi_dorea/

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

What if you could have the best orgasm of your life from one simple touch? What if I told you this is not only possible for you, but that you already have everything you need to get there - you just have to tap into it? In today's episode, I invite my dear friend and connection expert, Stephanie Dickinson, to talk about how she embodies authentic relating and spiritual practices in her life to experience more eroticism and connection and how you can start building conscious and intimate connections in your life so you can enjoy all that your sexuality has to offer.

We get deep into:

• The tools and practices that help Stephanie take clients from "this isn't working" to "this feels so good"
• What authentic relating can look like in actual practice
• How goddess meditation has impacted her sexuality and access to pleasure
• Why women often fall into martyrdom and ignore our cycles (and why this is so harmful!)
• How Stephanie physically orgasmed while sitting still and alone in meditation
• Why I love giving oral sex now, why I didn't before, and the shift that got me there!
• A super juicy experience Stephanie had with her partner (hint: they weren't even touching)
• Why the conditioning you have around sex, turn-on, and male/female libido could be limiting what you experience sexually
• And so much more!

Connect with Stephanie:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanie_dickinson_/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanie.dickinson.583

Website: https://stephanie-dickinson.com/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

How would it feel to be multi-orgasmic? To feel connected to every part of your body? Truth is - YOU are orgasmic. You get to be free in your body - you just have to follow the call! In today's episode, I talk to my Bali roommate and Divine Sensual Awakening Coach, Yani Kramer, about her journey to divine sensual awakening and her work in helping others step into their more connected and orgasmic selves. Join us as we dive into releasing the shame around your genitals and connecting to your life force energy to transform your life and sex!

We get deep into:

• Yani's journey from feeling stuck to finding sensual awakening
• Why both masculine and feminine energies were needed to host her workshops
• The importance of her morning practices (and how to make space for your own!)
• Releasing the shame around your genitals (we are not just talking about our pussies!)
• How you can increase sensation and sensitivity in your body so you can experience longer, stronger, and more full-body orgasms
• One of the BIGGEST insights she brings to the couples she works with
• How you can heal your body by tapping into your life force energy
• What tantric massage is and how she guides her clients through this practice
• How my new partner and I are able to feel orgasmic and satiated WITHOUT penetration!
• And so much more!

Connect with Yani:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yaniverse___

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yaniverseyaniverse

Divine Sensual Playlist

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Have you ever had trouble relating to the women in your life? Or maybe you've always had a lot of female friends, but something tells you those relationships could go deeper? In today's episode, I talk ALL things sisterhood - communication dynamics, acknowledging and healing sisterhood wounds, and some advanced practices to help you go deeper with the women in your life.

We get deep into:

• Some of the most common issues in sisterhood communication (and ways to fix this in your own relationships!)
• Why you NEED this one thing to have deep relationships with women
• My advice for what to do when feeling triggered or irritated with another woman
• Healing the wounds and trauma around sisterhood so you can deepen the connection with the sisters in your life
• A small step you can take today to start repairing a relationship in your life
• The role your sisters can play in your romantic relationships (hint: this is SO important!)
• Why you might be attracted to a man in a relationship with another woman (and some juicy insight on what this can mean!)
• And so much more!

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Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Your body has the answers, the wisdom is within you. In today's episode, I invite doula coach and educator Ivy Joeva to share her experiences and wisdom about the journey to parenthood and her passion as a guide for fertility, vitality, and empowered births. We dive into topics of how to baby-proof your relationship, dealing with changes in libido during and after pregnancy (for both the women and their partners!), and how conception, pregnancy, and birth can be a gateway to deeper healing.

We get deep into:

• Ivy's journey to becoming a doula and the transformation in her life from her work
• The ripple effects of her maternal grandmother's birthing experience and how past traumas can affect your journey to parenthood
• How traditional talk therapy can sometimes fall short (and how Ivy supports her clients move through layers of grief)
• Why relationship to self is so VITAL during this journey
• Some helpful practices for couples to stay connected during pregnancy and postpartum
• Orgasmic birth and what you can do to achieve this powerful experience
• Why some male partners lose libido during or after pregnancy
• And so much more!

Connect with Ivy:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ivyjoeva/

Website: http://ivyjoeva.com/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

We have a special episode for you this week! Tune in for a double dose of pleasure as I am joined by "The Best You've Ever Had" podcast host, Kelley Bode - my Bali roommate, best friend, and fellow intimacy coach. We share all the juicy details of how we integrate our pleasure practices into our daily lives and how you can live a more turned-on and desire-filled life by adopting daily practices of tuning into your own body and getting clear on your deepest desires.

We're diving into:

• Why we have chosen to live life as a practice and the beautiful transformations that have come from it
• Releasing the ego around being an expert at everything (and the freedom that comes from being an amateur!)
• Kelley's morning self-pleasure practice of "peaking" (you only need 5 minutes!)
• Why it can be so helpful to set a container for your daily practices
• Connecting consciously to our pussies EVERY DAY
• My daily food practice and how it prepares my nervous system for digestion
• The importance of personal responsibility as a practice
• Some edges that Kelley and I discovered around expressing our desires to our lovers (and how they were received by the men!)
• And so much more!

Connect with Kelley:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

We can hold a lot of trauma and conditioning around the concept of masculinity. But what would be possible if we released those limiting beliefs and instead began to do the work of healing our relationship to the masculine? In today's episode, I talk with coach and expert in radical courage, Tanja Diamond, and co-founder of Rising Kings Movement, Robert Schwenkler. We discuss their shared passion for expanding and deepening the male sexual capacity, the harmful messaging around masculinity in today's culture, and the beauty and power that can be found in the empowerment of men.

We get deep into:

• The harmful messaging that the masculine is inherently dangerous
• A staggering U.S. statistic about couples and their sex lives
• Why Tanja describes the way people are orgasming today as violent
• Doing the work to metabolize the shame and conditioning from our youth
• An important question to ask yourself if you are searching for a guide/teacher/mentor
• Some advice from Tanja if you want to invite your man into sexuality work
• Working through emasculating patterns or behaviors
• And so much more!

Connect with Tanja:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tantratanja/

Website: https://learningtantra.com/

Connect with Robert:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rrschwenkler/

Website: https://sexualhealingmen.com

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Are you a spiritual seeker? Do you have a desire to find the key to true health and happiness? In today's show, I talk with the incredible Jerome Braggs, gifted and intuitive channel and self-love teacher, about his journey from being given 48 hours to live to ultimately finding true healing. We dive deep into all things self-love - what it really takes to love ourselves, why it's the greatest medicine on the planet, and why it is the real secret to health, happiness, and living a delicious life.

We get deep into:

• Jerome's powerful journey to healing through self-love after an AIDS and kidney failure diagnosis
• His experience with crossing over to another dimension and speaking to his higher self
• The root cause of people-pleasing and the power of releasing these behaviors
• Acknowledging your soul body and its need to be fed
• The one thing that shifted for Jerome that helped heal his people-pleasing tendencies
• How his journey with disease helped him reconnect to the 3 basic truths
• And so much more!

Connect with Jerome on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerome_braggs/

Connect with him on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/coachjeromebraggs

Join his Self-Love Academy: https://jeromebraggs.com/self-love-academy/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/