Desire on Fire

Desire on Fire

By Aimee Batuski & Ellie MontgomerieSociety & CultureEducationSelf-ImprovementRelationships
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Desire on Fire episodes

  • 009: An Invitation to Your Desire-Led Life...Want In?
    You're invited...to unlock your feminine magic, to unleash your sensuality, creativity & unique gifts on the world, and to begin on your desire-led path! In today's episode, we let you behind the scenes of our Desire on Fire Experience as we share the process of planning the event, our passion for community and connection, and an invitation for YOU to start a desire-led life.

    We dive into:

    • Our Desire on Fire Experience LIVE in LA - the fuck ton of work it took, the divine timing of it all & why you don't want to wait to get in!!
    • How we found this event model and what we love about it!
    • The beginning of the major shift in our business - how we found a unique way to build community in a CONNECTED way
    • Why scaling our business and finding success isn't the priority (and what actually is!)
    • And more!

    Join us for the Desire on Fire Experience LIVE in LA, or virtually! www.desireonfirelive.com

    Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

    Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Connect with Aimee:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    Connect with Ellie:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

    29 min
  • 008: The Radical Responsibility of Following Desire with Courtney Cedeño
    Following unconventional desires can be met with a lot of resistance - from family, friends, and especially ourselves! But our guest this week, Courtney Cedeño - holistic health coach, mom & wife, and mentor for women - is sharing her story of overcoming the barriers around stepping into her truest desires. We discuss her dramatic transformation (in only one year!), the divine experience of meeting her husband, and the radical responsibility of following desire - and what it looks like when you claim yours!

    We dive into:

    • Courtney's life BEFORE this work - boarding school trauma, the shame around becoming a mom at 17, and more!
    • How she justified partying in her younger years and why she got sober (during her honeymoon!)
    • The amazing story of how she met her husband - and why it was such divine timing
    • Her first Desire on Fire event (and why she backed out after 24 hrs!)
    • Following the desire to move her family to Bali and what happened in her life AFTER she started stepping into her truest desires
    • Why she will forever rave about our Pleasure Mastery course!!
    • And more!

    Connect with Courtney: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmadre/?hl=en

    Join us for the Desire on Fire Experience LIVE in LA, October 2-3! (Or join virtually!)

    www.desireonfirelive.com

    Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

    Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    And our retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Connect with Aimee: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    Connect with Ellie: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

    54 min
  • 007: The Desire on Fire Experience with Tasia, Abbie & Appiffanny
    Are you feeling a pull? To step into more pleasure, to stop shaming and dismissing the parts of you that want more connection and purpose? That desire is there for a reason, and today we are inviting you to listen to the call! This week, we welcome three of our badass sisters, Tasia, Abbie, and Appiffanny, on the show to discuss their experience with Desire on Fire. They share vulnerably about the paths that led them here, finding the courage to live a different way, and the transformation that comes from stepping into your personal responsibility, pleasure, and purpose.

    We dive into:

    • Stepping into a different level of intimacy with yourself - and the courage it takes to get there!
    • How to STOP shaming yourself for feeling (and a powerful story from Appiffanny on finding the approval to cry)
    • What could be holding you back from doing this work - and how to get turned on by it instead!
    • Two of the MOST impactful moments for Abbie during the Desire on Fire Experience
    • What to do when you start triggering others with your powerful self-approval
    • Some advice from these badass women if you are considering exploring this work
    • And more!

    Connect with our guests:

    Tasia Macaraeg:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tasiamacaraeg/

    Appiffanny Boston:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ageofepiphany/ and https://www.instagram.com/appiffanny/

    Website: https://app.ageofepiphany.com/

    Abbie Weiss:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mydearabbie/

    Website: https://www.abbieweiss.com/

    https://www.ignitedprograms.com/

    Join us for The Desire on Fire Experience! Use code "sexy" at checkout to get your ticket for only $145! https://www.desireonfirelive.com/

    Take our FREE Intimacy Quiz! https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/60bfceb6749e3400170c1da5

    Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

    Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    And our retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Connect with Aimee:

    Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    Connect with Ellie:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

    1 hr 25 min
  • 006: Healthy Relationship Dynamics with Matt Cama & Kelley Bode
    Ever wondered what a relationship really looks like when two people are committed to personal growth and responsibility? Well, tune in today because we are giving you an in-depth peek inside one! We are so honored to have our dear friend Kelley Bode and her partner, Matt Cama, on the show today to talk to us all about relationships! Join us as we discuss relationship dynamics, dealing with unhealthy patterns, and how their individual healing journeys led them to finding each other - and the tools you can use to find your own dream partner (or anything else you desire!)

    We dive into:

    • Their individual journeys into self-development work - and how it led to them meeting!
    • Kelley's journey to loving men (and how celibacy played a role)
    • How Matt creates his inspiring content - and what makes it so special!
    • Why you shouldn't be ashamed if you have unhealthy relationship patterns - and what you can do about them
    • A peek inside Matt & Kelley's sex and relationship challenges
    • Why having a separate room from your partner is NOT a bad thing
    • And more!

    Connect with Kelley:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode/

    Connect with Matt:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matt_cama/

    Website: https://www.mattcama.com/

    Take our FREE Intimacy Quiz! https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/60bfceb6749e3400170c1da5

    Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

    Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    And our retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Connect with Aimee:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    Connect with Ellie:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

    1 hr 38 min
  • 005: Sobriety and Spirituality: A Deep Healing Journey with Julia Shepley
    If there is a calling on your heart - if you are feeling disconnected or if you are feeling pulled towards something more - there is a way to reinvent your life! In today's episode, I cuddle up with my beautiful sister and coach for women, Julia Shepley, to talk all about the power of recovery, healing unhealthy patterns, and how to trust in something bigger so you can find the peace of living a different, softer, and more expressed life.

    We dive into:

    • What it's like to be home for the first time with a sober Julia!
    • The first thing she does when she is feeling triggered (and how you can step into personal responsibility in your life so you can shift your relationships!)
    • How powerful recovery really is - and the effect it can have on your life
    • Why a relationship to something greater than yourself is CRITICAL
    • Moving into the new paradigm - and why we are so excited for it!
    • A simple ritual you can use to help you let go of the things that aren't serving you!
    • And more!

    Find out more about Julia's retreat and programs https://www.instagram.com/magic__juju/ on Instagram

    Join us at the Desire on Fire Experience LIVE in LA, October 2nd-3rd 2021 (use the code SEXY for a discount!) www.desireonfirelive.com

    We love to connect with you on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Take our FREE Intimacy Styles quiz and learn more about a desire-led life: www.desireonfire.com

    Join our FB community to connect with hundreds of like-minded women from around the world: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    59 min
  • 004: Shame Slayer with Shoshanna Raven
    You can have it all! More orgasms, sex, money, pleasure… sometimes we just need an expander to show us what's possible. In today's episode, I have a powerful conversation with shame slayer Shoshanna Raven - business and leadership mentor for heart-centered entrepreneurs - about what it means to show up authentically in your business (and life!), why a genital herpes diagnosis is NOT a death sentence, and how to reframe the hard things in your life as opportunities to alchemize your shame and pain into purpose and power!

    We dive into:

    • Shoshanna's genital herpes journey - and how you can slay the shame around yours!
    • The proof that you can be real AND successful (and how Shoshanna is achieving consistent 6-figure months in her coaching biz!)
    • What it can look like when there's nothing WRONG with your relationship - but you still want more
    • Shoshanna's heartbreak and how it impacted her life and business (and how her breakup healed her stomach issues!)
    • Her vulnerability experiment - and why it made her more magnetic!
    • And more!

    Connect with Shoshanna:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shoshanna_raven/

    Living Brave Podcast: https://shoshannaraven.com/podcast/

    Website: https://shoshannaraven.com/

    Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    And our retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Connect with Aimee:

    Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    Connect with Ellie:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

    1 hr 8 min
  • 003: Have the Best Sex of Your Life with Rinsha Ballani
    Want to have the best sex of your life? And have your partner express the same? In today's episode, we invite our sister Rinsha Ballani, intimacy coach and project manager for Desire on Fire, to share her awakening journey - from living outside her desires to becoming the best sex her partners have ever had! Join us as we discuss asking for adjustments, creating safety in your sexual experiences, and the power of claiming your desires.

    We dive into:

    • Rinsha's upbringing, her relationship to her pussy, and what led to her questioning everything!
    • Never experiencing an orgasm from a man (and faking it!) and what she did about it
    • A powerful example of the conscious sex conversation
    • One of the MOST IMPORTANT factors for most women to enjoy a sexual experience (and why it isn't as hard to achieve as it seems!)
    • The one thing you need to be willing to do to manifest ANY desire!
    • Why Rinsha's sexual partners tell her that she is the BEST sex they've ever had!
    • How to ask for adjustments in a turned-on and loving way so you can enjoy more pleasure in your sex life!
    • What a spreadsheet has to do with sex (trust us, this is so good!)
    • And more!

    Connect with Rinsha:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rinshaballani/

    Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    And our retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Connect with Aimee:

    Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    Connect with Ellie:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

    1 hr 22 min
  • 002: Ellie's New Life Update
    What do you want your life to look like? Truth is - you're the one who gets to show up and create it. You have sovereignty over YOU. In today's episode, we discuss some new developments in Ellie's life (and what has been activated in the process!) and how to fully trust your desires and take responsibility for your own path to live a life that turns you on.

    We dive into:

    • What helped move Ellie from feeling stagnant to stimulated (and how you can do this too)
    • Generational and societal conditioning around what it means to be a parent - and some of our favorite ideas on how to shift this
    • How to start shifting into personal responsibility in your life (and the beautiful transformation it will bring!)
    • Some juicy announcements about Desire on Fire that you don't want to miss!
    • And more!

    Take our FREE Intimacy Quiz! https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/60bfceb6749e3400170c1da5

    Get your ticket for the Desire on Fire Experience: https://www.desireonfirelive.com/

    Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

    Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    And our retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Connect with Aimee:

    Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    Connect with Ellie:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

    53 min
  • 001: Introducing The Desire on Fire Podcast!
    It's time to set your desires on fire! In today's episode, we introduce The Desire on Fire Podcast - hosted by Aimee & Ellie! We are so excited to share why we said yes to this collaborative adventure and the juicy things to come. Join us as we get vulnerable about our partnership and the deep practices that keep us in alignment with our truest desires.

    We dive into:

    • Nurturing our equal partnership and how it led to a full-body YES to combining our podcasts
    • How Ellie honored her jealousy of Aimee instead of being victimized by it!
    • Tuning into what is aligned and resonant in our shared business
    • The BIGGEST things that have helped us create a profound partnership (and how you can do this too!)
    • And so much more!

    Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    And our retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    Connect with Aimee:

    Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    Connect with Ellie:

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

    41 min
  • Ep. 59: The Group Ecosystem: An Invitation to Say the Deeper Thing

    We are all part of a bigger ecosystem, whether it's our family or a friend group - we have an opportunity to relate to the people in our lives consciously and vulnerably. In today's episode, I share why I feel so passionately about putting my attention on the ecosystem in which I live, how I use my own unique experiences and perspectives to help clean up any of the wounds that can come up (and how you can too!), and why saying the deeper thing and hearing other's in their truth can create such deep connections.

    I get deep into:

    • Consciously relating to the group ecosystem in which you live (how to do it from curiosity and why it's so important!)
    • The MOST common survival mechanisms that come up in relationships and how they could be holding you back from deeper connections
    • A VERY special announcement about the "With Pleasure Podcast" and the birth of something new (you don't want to miss this!)
    • And more!

    Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

    Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

    Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

    And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

    31 min

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